Living for Him
Jan. 11, 2008
Need I say more?

This post is not about my sick dog.  It's about this awesome privilege I have to have my children at home with me; to love them when they need it.  Today we woke up to the realization that we are going to have to put our dog to "sleep."  We've had her for about 6 years but for the last month she has been overtaken by heartworms.  I've always heard that this was a very painful disease and now I know why.  It's been torture watching her get sicker each day.   My reason for this post, though, is to say that I'm so thankful that my children are at "home where they belong."  

As I broke the news to the kids today, my 8 yr. old burst into tears.  Of course, we then had to explain our reasons and didn't finish the conversation for at least 15 minutes.  Alot of why's and what's and tears.   Every 15-20 minutes he bursts into another round of tears and I hug him and console him and turn his attention elsewhere.  You know - life happens - even on school days.  I cannot imagine having to tell my kids something like this (or worse) and then send them off to school.  Most ps people are so dedicated to that institution that they barely think about keeping their sick kids home, much less their grieving ones.   Can you picture sending your grieving, crying child off to spend 8 hours in a place where there were no private moments to cry, no loving arms (that you know and trust) to comfort?  And then the risk of cruel kids to make fun of you for crying?    I can't even fathom it.

THIS is the real world.  The world where you're surrounded with the people you love, the pets you care for, the moments you need, and the freedom to praise the God who created them all.    Anything else is just a substitution.  


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Jan. 11, 2008 - Thank you for the comment

Posted by OverflowingAcres


Thank you for posting a comment on my blog. I read your post today. I will be praying for your children. Life does happen and it is painful. Bless their hearts!


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Jan. 18, 2008 - Untitled Comment

Posted by pictureourday


Oh Friend, I am sooo sorry. This is a tough one. And yes, this is the real world, thank God that those precious kids are blessed to be at home. As an "ex" public school teacher, yes I can imagine these precious kids being told about losing their pet (and much worse) then being sent off to school. It is truely heartbreaking. Bless you for what you are instilling in your family.


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