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Thursday 2 April 2009 - Napping Nephew
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Back to the ABC Photos, and posting "N" early in honor of World Autism Awareness Day...

N is for Napping Nephew

ThgivingWRuarks019.jpg picture by 40winkzzz

Of all the pictures I have taken in my life, this ranks among my very favorites.
I love the snuggly blanket, the bare toes, the peaceful countenance.
I love the way he looks just like any other kid.

This is my beautiful 10-year-old nephew DJ.
Like most kids, he's a little angel when he's asleep.
Like most kids, when he's awake, it's a different story.
Except that DJ isn't like most kids. His is a different story.

At Grandma's
he doesn't run to the playroom with his cousins.
He doesn't laugh and shout with them.
He doesn't even talk to them.
He stays with the adults
walking in circles
jumping up and down
hanging out by the food.
When I say hello to him, he doesn't answer
but he might grab the chip out of my hand
take a bite out of it, then give it back
with a mischievous grin.
I think that means hello.

So many cousins
playing, laughing, giggling
coming down the stairs all decked out
in dress-up clothes from the playroom trunk
sitting around the table on the porch
playing badminton in the yard
opening presents in the den.
DJ doesn't join them.
DJ isn't like them.

Yet he is
every bit as precious
as any of them
especially
in the sight of God
his maker.

 Pray for Autism Now

 

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Friday 3 April 2009 - Untitled Comment
Posted by jugglingpaynes
He is so cute! And I love those little toes.
Every child has their gifts to offer. DJ seems like a sweetie. Thanks for sharing and for the reminder about autism.

Peace and Laughter,
Cristina
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Friday 3 April 2009 - Untitled Comment
Posted by 40winkzzz
A sweetie, yes, sometimes, but increasingly more and more of a challenge. He has gotten really aggressive and his mom & dad (my sis & b-i-l) are finding him hard to handle. They need a lot of prayer!

The recent challenges with him make this picture all the more special to me, and probably to them as well. They need the "sweetness" reminder at the moment!



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Friday 3 April 2009 - :)
Posted by Anonymous
thank you!

:)
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Friday 3 April 2009 - yep... that was me...
Posted by CarpeBanana
sorry

ironically, I log out so Miss Dog Lover does not do unauthorized posts on my blog...

however, I see I am forgetting to log back in...

I know! I'll just change my name to "Anonymous."
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Friday 3 April 2009 - Untitled Comment
Posted by crazybusy
Hey Bethany!
That was SO precious- everything. The photo, the tribute you wrote- everything. Sweet. He sounds just precious.
Love, Alyssa
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Saturday 4 April 2009 - Untitled Comment
Posted by callmekate
Terrific post and photo! Nicely done.

I will pray.

Kate
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Saturday 11 April 2009 - Untitled Comment
Posted by Momtofivekids
This touched me. These children are such blessings. My 8 yo has high functioning autism. Just this year, my son started playing with his cousins. You can imagine my joy! He also made a friend recently-one who really likes him! God is so good! When Christian was younger he couldn't communicate with people, every time we went out, I had to keep a hold on him or he would run off, he didn't understand the concept of danger and he would eat non-food items. I wondered if he would live a normal life when he became an adult. Well, God has done amazing things in his young life. There are still things we are working on but he has come such a long way. Thanks for sharing.
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Saturday 11 April 2009 - Untitled Comment
Posted by Blessedw5mom (Heather)
The photo and the words are simply beautiful!!!!!
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