Dec. 3, 2008 - Rough Day
Today was a 'rough' day! We got a late start and everyone seemed to be going in every other direction. I was already having a PMS day (Psycho Mama Syndrome) and trying desparately to salvage what I could. What I really wanted to do, though, was to lock myself in my bedroom and pretend I never heard them scream 'Mooooom.' There was too much contention between siblings today - one, who has a temper he has yet learned how to control, another who loves to provoke, and yet another who loves to mock! What a combustible group! Oh, I do love them though they can drive me crazy!
How do you hold it together on days like this? Lately, I've noticed how much exercise helps me 'clear' the 'cobwebs' from my mind and body. Though, I must mention, screaming at my kids doesn't count as a cardiovascular workout! haha With the holiday last week, I got out of the routine (that I had just barely gotten into) of exercising in the mornings. Oh, what 20 min on the elypitcal will do for my sanity! Another miracle worker: Chocolate! Never stay home without it! And my personal favorite - Peace and Quiet! Ahhhhh!
Do you ever 'resent' the influence you have on your home and family? That may sound terrible. But sometimes I wish someone could take my place - just for a little while - so that I can regroup and recoop. There are times that the weight of the responsibility that is upon our shoulders as mothers is very heavy. If we are in a bad mood or having a bad day - it shows in everyone else. We set the tone in our home. If that tone is a negative one - look out! Somedays - I'd like to be able to have a bad day and not have everyone else follow suit. But, I guess that is not how God designed it to be! I have to be selfless and do what is good for my family - which may mean getting over myself, sucking it up and letting it go! Not such an easy task on those PMS days! Homeschooling my children is as much about God schooling me as it is me schooling my children! Just make sure you have enough chocolate in the house!
Comments
Dec. 3, 2008 - Awwww!
Posted by Donalacasa
I was just browsing through blog pages when I stumbled onto yours. I just had a conversation about 30 minutes ago with my teenager about how my PMS got the most of me today. I didn't want to do anything but lie in bed. I haven't exercised in weeks, even though I am under doctor's orders to do so. My car dying made it impossible to drive to the gym and my walking buddy is working overtime so I don't see her much. So what other exercise is there than to yell at my children? LOL! Fortunately, this only comes every 4 weeks and hopefully by tomorrow or the next day my emotions will be in check and I will be in control again (hopefully).
Blessings!
Dec. 3, 2008 - Untitled Comment
Posted by sixfolks
I have days like that. There are days when I want to take a vacation - alone. But not just in body, in mind too. If I just went away for a couple of days, I'd still worry about what was going on at home. If I could somehow freeze time and forget that I'm a wife and mom for a short period, I think that would be the kind of rejuvination I need. Oh, how I've pondered this. :)
***Ok, back to reality.
Corey
Dec. 3, 2008 - Untitled Comment
Posted by OldSchoolMarm
Hi Becky! I'm back at this (blogging) again. Yes, I also have ponderred the being able to step away for awhile, to recharge my battery and remember who I am. I think that I had mentioned before that I too have a kiddo that is dealing with the whole self-control and anger issue. She's only 9, but we have got to get this under control now before she is too much older. I personally think a lot of it has to do with her temperament. I also know that when we are having regular bible study and devotions in the morning it does seem to set the tone of the day to be more "manageable". I also have a 'teaser" and know how infurriating they can be! Interestingly, God designed them all to be individuals and we get to be one of His major instruments in shaping them like a sculptor. It's just that somedays we can be a little dull :-).
Blessings, Julie
Dec. 4, 2008 - Untitled Comment
Posted by buzymommy
HI Beckie!! Long time!! Oh my gosh..it feels like I could have written your post..verbatim!!!! I think us stay at home/homeschooling mom's are in the same boat!! At least we're not alone!!! I hope you are doing well, and that you had a blessed Thanksgiving!!! HUGS, Alicia
Dec. 5, 2008 - Untitled Comment
Posted by kimalita
Oh yes, we all have had these days..........
so thankful for God's grace!!!
