Our Grand Adventure
Oct. 19, 2006
Trust

Trust

 

~Trust in the Lord with all your heart, And lean not on your own understanding; In all your ways acknowledge Him, And He shall direct your paths.~

 

The last several months the Lord has really been working on me in the area of trust. Trusting Him in all things to be exact! He has spoken to me and showed me that my full trust should not be in my control, in the power of myself or others, my trust should not be in people, circumstances, things or devices. My trust has to be in Him, and Him alone!

 

Let’s look at the definition of trust in Webster’s 1828 dictionary.

 

n. confidence

that which is committed to one’s care

credit given without examination

care; management

v.t. to place confidence in; to rely on

to believe

to commit to the care of in confidence

to venture confidently

 

Dear ladies, are you placing all your trust in the Lord? Are you trusting Him in submitting to your husband? Or, are we putting on submissiveness to our husband then turning to our girlfriend or self and saying, "I’m so nervous, he thinks we should...?" Not only is that not submitting and being a helper to your husband, but your husbands heart will not safely trust in you, and more importantly that is not trusting God to direct your husband.

 

The Lord calls us to submit to our husbands. Therefore, we need to just do it and have full confidence (trust) in the Lord to work in our husbands and take charge of them. Psalms 34:7 tells us to "be still before the Lord and wait patiently for him..." Often we need to wait patiently, put our full confidence (trust) in the Lord, and believe (trust) that He will work in our husbands, and direct them in His ways.

There have been times when I was fearful of decisions my husband was making or not making for that matter. I would think, "but oh, if we do such and such we could stumble and fall, there might be danger down that path, is he sure this is right? He has been wrong before." But you know what, the Lord delights in us when we are helpers (not naggers) to our husbands! And the bible tells us that when the Lord delights in our ways, our steps will be firm, even if we stumble, we won’t fall. It tells us that the Lord upholds us with His hand! WOW! How awesome!

 

Have you committed the care of (trust) of your fertility to the Lord? Have you placed confidence in and relied on (trust) the Lord to give you the number of children He desires for you? Whether it be no children, two, four, seven, ten, or even eighteen children? We’re not talking about your desires but His. Ouch, this can be a hard one!

 

I have had my own thoughts and times of fear with this one. We have had times of poverty, I have serious health conditions which a pregnancy could adversely affect, I at times barely manage to keep the ones I have in line, fed, and cleaned. But you know what? Every time I honestly came before the Lord and poured out my heart, told Him exactly how I felt, He always had the same answer! "Do you trust Me enough to believe (trust) that I know what is best for you?" If I was going to be honest with him, I had to search my heat, my soul, my whole being. And at one point I had to sit at my Fathers’ feet and say, "no Father, I don’t have full confidence (trust) in you. I’m too scared of the consequences to trust in you." Well, just think about what happens (or most certainly should happen) if your child looked at your husband and said "NO!" It is the same with our heavenly father!!!

 

Thankfully our God is so gracious and loving. He extended me mercy and grace He walked and talked me through my fears and thoughts, He showed me His ways, He changed my heart. He has directed my paths. God is so good!

 

There are many areas that we all need to work on in regards to trusting the Lord. These are just two of the areas the Lord has worked on, in me. I want to remind you not to look at things on the surface. Look at them through the eyes of your heavenly father. If you are confident that you belong to Christ then please consider again that we belong to Christ, we are His for Him to do what He wants with us! (2 Corinthians 10:7)

 

You see, it’s not about us, it’s not about our husband, it’s not about what will or will not happen. It’s all about Him! He loves us so much that he sent His son to be persecuted, beaten, and to die for us. He love us that much! Don’t you think that we should at least show our love back to Him by trusting Him with all our hearts, just as He asks?!

 

Ladies, please do not let your hearts be troubled over anything. Do not live in worry or fear. Trust God and trust in Jesus! (John 14:1) For, whoever trusts in the Lord is kept safe. (Proverbs 29:25) Did you hear that? You are, and will be kept safe if you trust in the Lord! WOW!

 

Picture yourself basking in the Fathers’ presence as his unfailing love surrounds you. (Psalms 31:10) Come under his wing and be warm, safe and protected. Sit in His lap with full confidence (trust) in Him. Lean into Him and rely on Him (trust) as He folds you in His arms. He loves you and wants what is best for you!

 

Remember it is much scarier to say "NO" to your father than to simply trust him!

 

 

From my heart,

~RaShea~

 

Please Note: If you are not confident that you belong to Christ, then please contact me so that I can talk to you about that!


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Oct. 19, 2006 - Wow

Posted by birthblessing


What a wonderful, heartfelt post and what an encouragement! Although I trust God firmly concerning our family size, I'm still struggling with that submission thing! I really need to learn that its about trusting Christ not trusting my husband. Sometimes I think I know better than my husband but I should never think I know better than God! Thanks for reminding me of this! Blessings!


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Oct. 20, 2006 - Untitled Comment

Posted by Devonbunny


Bless you for writing that. It has given me something to think about.

Love Jules x


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Oct. 23, 2006 - Untitled Comment

Posted by rachelle


I haven't been by in awhile, but I'm so glad I popped in!! Thank you for the reminder that God is always faithful and trustworthy. :)


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Oct. 23, 2006 - Untitled Comment

Posted by Ruth


Thank you for the wonderful post and reminder. We truly do need to trust in Him. It is all in His hands. It is difficult when we think we know a better way but really how could we ever. Only He holds the future. He is the only one who knows what is truly best for us.


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Oct. 24, 2006 - Untitled Comment

Posted by heartathome


WOWZERS!!!!! Wonderful post! The Lord ministered to me through your words, RaShea!!! Thank you for sharing from your heart. I will have to re-read your words as you presented a lot to be 'chewed on'.


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Oct. 26, 2006 - Thanks

Posted by Ruth


Thank you for stopping by and for your advice, kind words and encouragement. How is everything going for the move?
How much longer before you leave?
Ruth


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Oct. 29, 2006 - Untitled Comment

Posted by heartathome


RaShea, just wanted to agree with you that it would be GREAT to have a little get-together for M. when she gets all her kiddos. That would be a blast! Also, the project I made the other day was a cute little skirt for Hannah and if I was smart enough to post a picture of it on my blog, I would, but no such luck!!! Maybe my husband can help me. Hope moving is going well; I keep on checking in to see how things are going. I'm still praying for you and chewing on the wonderful wisdom you shared about trust! Blessings to you and your family!!!!


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