My 8 Kidlets
Jul. 3, 2008
"Unawares"

Sometimes we have deep discussions in our family devotions; edifying, encouraging and educating each other.  But then there are days like today when we read Genesis 31...  (for reasons that will be obvious, the only identified speakers are Sophia and Daddy.  Just imagine the rest in the general "hub-bub" that it was)

Sophia: What does it mean when it says, "and Jacob stole away unawares from Laban"?

--I hate it when someone steals my "unawares"!

--My unawares are always missing!

--Me too! 

--Well, I happen to know that ____ stole your unawares!

--_____!  How could you?!!

--Well, you had 3 pair and I had none and I couldn't find any anywhere!  And wearing the same pair of unawares for days was kinda gross!

All:  Ewwww!

Daddy:  Hey!!!  When we first moved here, and I finally had a real job with a real income, we had a big Unawares-buying spree!  We all went to WalMart and got new unawares!  How can you not have any?

--(said very seriously) Daddy, I really think we have an Unawares-Thief!

Sophia    : Can we please get back to the verse?!
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And here's a short conversation I had with Ethan:

Me:  You really seem to like that new bathrobe I got you.

Ethan: I love it! 

Me:  That's wonderful, especially since I only paid $0.05 for it at a garage sale! 

E:  Wow.  If I were limited to only one digit, I would have at least picked a 9!

Me:    thinking, Did my 7 year old just say "limited to only one digit"?!

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Jun. 28, 2008
An exciting, busy and painful June

 

 

First of all let me ask you to mark your calendars for Sept 26.  The makers of the wonderful movie Facing the Giants (and of the lesser known but also very good Flywheel) will be releasing their newest movie --Fireproof starring Kirk Cameron -- on that date.  Here's a quote from Gary Smalley, a Christian writer, "Amazing!  Action-packed, heartwarming and a great esource to help strengthen and affirm marriages!" 

Friends of ours were just invited to an advance screening and loved it, they highly recommended it.  They also told us that the production studio told them that they will base their decision about whether or not to make any more family-friendly movies on the income from the first weekend!  They want to know if there is a market in America for good, clean movies.  Please, please try to go see it on the opening weekend (and take all your friends along ) -- let's send Hollywood a message that we are tired of the filth that is passes for entertainment and welcome good ones!  Here is the official website http://fireproofthemovie.com  You can find a theater near you at that site.

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Now back to us.  The fibromyalgia is bad.  None of the meds seem to really help so I am weaning off those.  I do have good days occasionally (defined now as not needing too much pain med - no such thing as pain-free these days).  Two of my new friends here, as well as some in my church family, have taken up the burden of praying for me daily and I know that is what has helped on those good days and gets me through the bad ones.  Low pressure systems (rain) brings on the worst.  But I do make a pretty good forecaster - when the pain goes up to beyond tolerable, I know it will rain within 6 hours.  The kids have taken to consulting me before they go out - "Mama, can we play in the park or is it going to rain?  ...  Will I need an umbrella, Mama?"    But the Lord is bringing much good to me out of this.  I am learning to know Him in a much deeper way.  I find myself at a loss for words to describe that and all the other blessings that come through suffering.  Let me just say this, I am able for the first time to really comprehend and obey the Scripture from James 1: "Count it all joy when you encounter various trials".  It is truly a joy and a comfort to me now to suffer in and with Christ. 

Okay - more than enough on that subject.  (After all, my life's motto is "It 's not about me!")  We had a marvelous vacation in a nearby state park.  We rented a house that actually had 10 beds - no one had to sleep on the floor!  Although Andrew was not thrilled at sharing a bed with Ethan because the little guy flips and twists and rolls in his sleep!  But it is good for Andrew to begin to get used to sharing a bed!  The Lord answered all our prayers for the week.  We rested, played games, rode horses, hiked and just enjoyed each other!!  The highlight of the vacation was a day at a fantastic children's museum!  Every one of us played around and got silly.  It was a great way for all of us,even with all the different ages, to connect, to strengthen those family ties.

About a week after we returned, Jay and I went away for our 23rd anniversary.  We got a very private, very romantic cabin.  The days flew by.  On each of these trips, there was only one day that I was unable to participate because the pain was too much even with my pain meds.  But Jay and the kids were very understanding and we just took it easy on those days.  Abigail went to church camp that same week.

Then Madeline and Alexandra went to the Worldview Academy.  WOW!  They are doing amazing things with the teens who attend!  It is an intense week of classes, training, small group discussions "practicums".  The girls just loved it and came back begging to go again next year.  How can you say No -- you may not go back to learn how to live a life that pleases God and not yourself; you may not work at serving others and being selfless; you may not be encouraged by like-minded friends and godly examples?!  So they are already signed up, along with Abigail.  She is not so sure.  She is going by virtue of an exectutive decision made by Daddy.  She would have preferred to go back to the church camp she was at this year.  She had so much fun there.  So Madeline & Alexandra are encouraging her and passing on the promise that WVA made to them: "This will be the best week of your life!"

 


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May. 23, 2008
Apples to Apples

An A to A Game last week produced some interesting quotes!  Names withheld to protect the silly!

Opera is not "luxurious"!  People just go there to look at other people -- and you can do that in a bathroom!    (People-watching in a bathroom, hmmm.....)

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-Communists killed a thousand-billion people!

-What communists are you talking about?

-Uh -- many communists!

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-Killer whales are "speedy"?!

-Yeah!  They can be fast.  Well, unless they're beached.

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Cow pies are "sensual"!  (Ick!  )

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-Pond scum are not "calm"!  Plastic is "calm"!  Pond scum eat and reproduce and - and - pass excrement!

-Okay!!!  That's the last straw!  I can't stand this anymore!  What is wrong with you tonight?!!!

 


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May. 15, 2008
Prayer Request

Our closest friends have a son, Daniel, who just graduated from college and is about to enter law school.  He is hospitalized in another state, having had 2 strokes.  He still has vertigo and other symptoms, making him unable to walk or do much.  His family is headed there now.

Please pray that the doctors will find the cause of the strokes, keep him from having more and ease his current symptoms so that he can be rehabilitated; and that he'll regain full use of all of his formidible brain power!  If you know Daniel, you know what I mean by that!! 

Thanks!


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May. 6, 2008
Teens

(I have to say at the outset of this post that I am limiting my observations to my teens only today and that this is not at all to be taken to mean that the younger ones are in any way remiss in these areas!!)  

I have no greater joy than to know that my children are walking with the Lord!    In an age when "normal" teens don't want to even be seen with their parents, when they "hate" their siblings, when Self reigns supreme in the hearts of American teenagers, I have to publicly rejoice at what the Lord is doing in, for and through my teens!!

Madeline, Alexandra and Abigail have all matured much in the past year and are actively seeking opportunities to serve and to love at home first, then in the community. 

I am so blessed at the daily Narnia readings around here!  I wish you could see them.  It is truly the highlight of the day for the llittle ones.  Madeline wonderfully and expressively reads while Alexandra "acts" the drama out on the coffee table, using "props" - stuffed animals, dolls and other toys.  Alexandra takes some delightful liberties with the text, bringing peals of laughter from the rest of the children.  They all love these times and the little ones beg for their Narnia time over and over throught out the day! 

On Thursdays, Madeline leads G.R.O.M.I.T. (Good Reflections on Making It Terrific - "It" being "our life together" as siblings).  This is a Bible Study focusing on their relationships.  Right now they are going through the book, Making Brothers and Sisters Best Friends.  Someone usually spends their own money to get a GROMIT treat to share.  Wow.

Abigail checks with me throught out the day to find out what kind of help I might need and then cheerfully (and I can't emphasize that word enough!!) follows through.  Alexandra has appointed herself my shopping helper to ease my work and is very insistent at keeping me from any exertion.  Madeline is more and more my "go-to" helper in cooking, leading and cleaning.  She plans to learn how to drive this summer even though she doesn't really want to.  But she does want to be able to ease some of my work load and run errands for me.

These are only a very few examples of the selflessness that I am seeing in my teens this year.  I am very grateful for their help but, much more than that, I am overjoyed at the way that they are cultivating relationships with one another and especially with the younger ones.  They are not only forging strong bonds with them but they are setting amazing examples for them!!  And they, too, are more and more reaching out in love also, and seeking the chance to serve each other and me. 

And the best part of it all is that they seem to be growing in the Lord and serving in their family in response to His love and His work in their hearts.  For it is He that is at work in us to will and to do His good pleasure!

And as thankful as I am to the girls, I kneel before my Maker Who has wrought such good in our family.  He loved us before the beginning of the world and has lavished undeserved blessings on us!!  It is He only Who deserves the praise and credit for all of this.

I find myself groping for words to express the fulness of my heart right now.  With Mother's Day right around the corner, I feel that my gifts live with me every day! 


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Apr. 19, 2008
Wedding plans

I've talked to some of you recently and naturally you have many questions about the wedding!  The short answer is usually - "I don't know"!    That's because Andrew and Sarah really have not finalized any of the most important details yet.  Here's what I do know --

Date:  December 19

Place:  PA  (Sarah's home town and our old one).  But the church and reception hall are still being decided upon.

Wedding party:  --Sarah's best friend will be her maid-of-honor, with her sister, sister-in-law and Madeline & Alexandra as bridesmaids

--Andrew's best man and groomsmen are all college friends

--Ethan & Eliza will be the ring bearer and the flower girl; Abigail is in charge of the guest book and Emma & Sophia are greeters.

--Andrew told Jay that his job as the Father-of-the-Groom is to keep the Mother-of-the-Groom from crying too much.  Jay then asked whose job it was to keep the FTG from crying!    He's a big ole softy!  But don't tell anyone!

I am sorry that I cannot tell you more yet, but there really is no more to tell.  They still don't even know how many people they can invite.  I am just an observer to all the planning (happily so - our turn will come all too soon! ),  though they are very quick to fill us in as soon as they know anything new.   

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Footnote - still coming to library.  It will be several days more at least before we get a new computer!

 


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Apr. 7, 2008
Offline

Our computer sadly died over the weekend.  Jay anticipates a quick revival but I am not as optimistic.  (For you who know us well, that should not surprise you as this seems to be our usual approach to life - Jay the eternal optimist and I more cautious.)  Those of you who bother to read this blog are pretty much the only ones who correspond with us on a regular basis, so this seemed the best way to tell you all to hold your emails for a while - I do not know how ofter we'll get to the library to check .  We'll let you know as soon as we are back!

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Andrew & Sarah are well into their wedding plans and have graciously included all of their siblings in the wedding.  As you might expect, excitement is high at our house and at some parts of Geneva College!    Ethan did have this to say about being the ringbearer: I am a little shy.  The part I'm shy about is being in front of all those people.

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Neighbors who bothered to glance into our fishbowl Friday night would have been amazed at the goings-on there!  Madeline and I danced boisterously about the living room to the Grease soundtrack; then Alexandra joined in; and soon by the entire clan was part of it!  That was about the time that I thought it best to pull the shades!    It was great fun and no doubt good exercise.


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Apr. 2, 2008
Bible misquotes

We were amused at these slip the kids made while reading Scripture during our morning devotions recently.  I thought you might get a smile from them as well. --

Proverbs 30:2  "Surely I am more British than any man..." 
       (should be "more brutish"!)
1 Thess. 5:14b  "warn them that we are unruly..."
       (should be without the "we"!)

I can think of several situations where the misquote might be appropriate to the moment than the correct words!  Makes me wonder, though, who would be qualified to proclaim himself more British than any other man!! 
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Also, to Andrew and Sarah: the kids are all using their message boards on their doors and having great fun leaving silly messages, quotes, polls and announcements for one another.  Even dad and I have gotten into it! 

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Mar. 20, 2008
Big, exciting news!

Hmmm...start out with an eye-catching graphic?  Or perhaps a clever question?  How about a touching story? ...

Nah!  I'll just tell ya!  Andrew and Sarah are engaged! 

We're all very happy (Andrew and Sarah - you would have been thrilled by all the cheering that your announcement brought here at home), although some of us were not as surprised as Sarah.    Andrew had shown the ring off to just about every other female he knows in the past 2 weeks.  I am only surprised that he managed to wait this long before proposing. 

What a day of firsts this has been!
First child's engagement
First piano arrived
First "new" car for me
First Day of Spring

Happy Resurrection Day!

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Mar. 17, 2008
Rain and Umbrellas

We have had a very, very wet winter; tragically so for some around here!  This conversation took place on the way to church amid flooded fields.

Daddy *pointing*:  Larfa!

Alexandra *whips head around trying to see the unusual flora or fauna that she'd never heard of*:  ???

Now she checks to see if Daddy is joking.  Nope.  He's just driving - no telltale smirk or sidewise glance.

Daddy *points again*:  There's another waterfall!

Alexandra *smacks self in head*    !!

Some people have snipe-hunts.  We now have Larfa-hunts in honor of Alexandra's exceptional hearing!! 

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Madeline's sad   .  The rain has necessitated the postponement of delivery of our "new" (very old/used) piano.  The movers wisely advise that it is a bad idea to move a piano through pouring rain.

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Madeline, Alexansra and I went Easter dress shopping today.  This was the 3rd attempt to find dresses for the big girls.  Ugh!  It has proven a monumental task to find something modest and pretty!!  Both seem to be greatly lacking in  this year's spring fashion.  Seriously -- have nay of you actually looked at dresses lately?!!  Yuck! 

Anyway, the sight of us trying to exit Panera's was enormously entertaining!  We all had our hands full as Alexandra and I attempted to manipulate umbrellas while opening the doors.  At the same moment, our umbrellas got ornery.  Hers dropped its handle right on the floor as my huge one launched open and forward, blocking the entire doorway!  She bent over, fiddling with hers, while I giggled and tried unsuccessfully to regain mastery of mine. Once outside, as the wind grabbed my umbrella and tried to make Mary Poppins of me, I realized that there was a panel out and I had only minimal rain protection anyway....  How very silly we looked. 


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Mar. 14, 2008
Raising boys

I know that this comes right on the heels of my previous post, but I just
got this in my email and found it to be so wise that I had to share!      --
from Home School Heartbeat, a radio message from HSLDA

Mike Smith:
Denise, in your book No Ordinary Child, you talk about how
parents indulge their children just to keep them happy,
ending up with spoiled and immature young adults. Our
society seems filled with men in their 40s who never really
grew up. How can parents raise mature men?

Denise Mira:
Well, Mike, I think I would urge parents, and especially
perhaps, mothers out there: “Stop rescuing your boys at
every turn!” There is a quality and a substance of character
that we so long for our boys to have, which can only be
worked into them through difficulty. My husband says,
“so many men are still being mothered because they were
never really fathered.” Mothers “mother”; they tend to be
nurture and care. Fathers “father”, bringing strength, direction
and impetus to their sons. I want to move things around to
make the way easy for them. But muscle is built by resistance.
Patience is produced by painful endurance. And character, I
think, is cultivated when circumstances bring disappointment.
If we remove every trial and tribulation, every hard thing from
their path, then there is nothing left for them to resist, to oppose,
or endure. Often, the best thing I can do to prepare them for
adulthood, is to allow them to experience life’s hard knocks.
James reminds us that “perseverance must finish its work so
that we will be mature and complete, not lacking anything.”
And I know we want that for our children. We’ve got to love
them enough to allow them to struggle.

Mike:
Denise, that’s so wise. Thank you for joining me this week.
Until next time, I’m Mike Smith.


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My thoughts:
1.  Raising our sons to be strong men of God also requires that we give
them the tools and the example to respond to challenges biblically.
2.  Our children need to know that painful circumstances are the providences
of God for our/their good and His glory.  We need not (and should not)
struggle against the circumstance hoping to fight our way through it to
find God.  God is in the midst of our suffering!  So many of His people can 
testify to growing to know Him and love Him and trust Him even more only
in the midst of trials!
3.  Our painful times are often an answer to our very own prayers!!  When we
ask to be made more like Jesus (and when we pray for the presence of God,
for a better prayer life, for the fruit of the Spirit, etc.  for what else are we praying
than to be made more like our Master?!), we can expect that it is God's way to
answer that request with difficulty because even our Lord Jesus Himself learned
obedience through suffering.  (Hebrews 7:9)  In other words, He let His Father
use the trials and pain in His life for their intended purposes.  As
The Sinless One, He never responded wrongly to suffering. 
4.  This must encourage us in our times and, moreover, in our children's times
of trial.  Our dear, gentle Lord Who would not crush a bruised reed, intends
blessing in and through suffering.  We must comfort and guide our children in
painful days but not get in God's way through misguided intentions that lead us
to seek only our kids' happiness but not their holiness.
5.  Ouch, ouch, ouch!!!  It is not easy and is, contrariwise, so very hard to let our
children shoulder any burdens much less see them suffer.  It hurts more than our
own pain.  May the Lord guide us in this oh-so-difficult job of parenting and
grant us the wisdom to know when to help and when to back off!!
 

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Mar. 14, 2008
And now a word or two from Ethan -

Ethan needed cold medicines this morning.  Yes, that was plural.  We prefer to only give the necessary meds and not anything extra.  So we have separate antihistamines, decongestant, cough meds, etc...  Today Ethan needed all three.  He decided he wanted them all mixed together.    Afterward--
Me:  So how did that taste?
Ethan:  Well, the aftertaste was kinda good and the first taste was kinda bad.  So I guess it tasted half good and half bad!
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Ethan:  Clean laundry delivery!  Clean laundry!
Daddy:  Ooooh!  Great - a clean pillowcase!  I've been hoping to see this soon.  (Because it matched the current bedding.)
Ethan, *in a very serious, slow and lowered voice (think Eeyore!)*:  Yeah.  I was wondering about the flowers!  (on the substitute pillowcase.  Apparently he had been worried about Dad's masculinity!  )

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Mar. 3, 2008
Warning to Sarah

The following conversation from our church dinner last night:

7 year old girl:  Andrew, I love you.  Wanna go to China with me?
Andrew:  .  Ummmm...  I don't think I feel like China tonight.
Girl:  Okay.  How 'bout Pennsylvania?
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Ya know, sometimes it just feels like my body is betraying me... 

Don't mind me  (Pay no attention to the whiny woman behind the curtain!)  Big pain day.  No relief in sight...

It does make me wonder, though, how those of you without Christ cope with life.  Life in this sin-sick world has so many pains.  Only Christ makes them bearable for me.  Do I like pain?  No!!  Just the opposite - I am a big wimp.  But I am greatly comforted knowing that I am a child of The King!  And nothing happens to me without His permission.  Even more than that, I know absolutely that every little thing in my life is orchestrated by Him - for my good and His glory!  Hallelujah! 

Like Paul, I ask for the removal of the thorn.  And sorta-kinda like Paul (my submission to His will and my selflessness are definitely not like Paul's!  There is way too much "I want..." and "what about me?" still left in me!  ), I praise Him for His answer, even when that answer is, "No, my child.  My grace is sufficient for thee: My strength is made perfect in thy weakness."   <2 Cor 12:9+>

My prayer then becomes not, "Lord, heal me, take this pain from me."  But rather, "Lord, give me the grace to say from my heart: 'Most gladly therefore will I glory in my infirmities that the power of Christ may rest upon me.  And I take pleasure in my weakness and pain, for then Christ is shown to be my strength!  Thy will be done.' '"

Oh, how He loves me to take so much trouble with me, making me more like Christ each day!  And, yes, sometimes that hurts -- "only a little".  (  That quote thrown in for you PoTC-fans!!)
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Sorry.  I broke my own rule of no philosophizing on this blog.  Good thing that The Powers That Be are me, myself and I! 

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Feb. 26, 2008
The following is in Alexandra's own words

guess i'm not such a good babysitter after all!

sophia and eliza were fighting, so i assigned eliza
to clean up all of the living room, i assigned sophia
to clean the whole dining room, and ethan, who was
snickering, i assigned to go to his room and stay
there until they made up. everything 'taken care of'
i came up here onto the computer. in a little bit i
called downstairs to see if they had made up yet.
they answered a cheerful 'no'. so i told ethan he
still had to stay in his room.

a little while later i asked them the same question.
the answer was the same, cheerful still. so i told
ethan he had to stay in his room.

to which he stuck a heart-shaped paper out of his
room. i told him that no amount of valentines would
get him out. to which he screamed in agony, "this
isn't a valentine, it's my will!!!!"

abigail thought this was hilarious. emma told ethan
that seeing as it was christmas he was allowed one
visitor. so we shoved daisy in the room. eliza and
sophia are made up and they have finished with their
penance, but ethan's still in his room. i think i'll go let
him out now.
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Unquote (back to my own words again):
And you might like to know that the "will" said 'ALL MY MONY GOSE to ANdREW'!!

Drama anyone?!

(And don't even ask me about the "Christmas" visitor!)

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Feb. 19, 2008
Today

Well, I have gotten this much out of the Attack of the Flu-bug - more "free" time as we have been forced to slow down or even cancel school for several days now.  And that is why I have posted more in the past few days than in the past 9 months!

Your daily Flu Report is summarized in these comments from this morning:

Ethan to Eliza:  Alexandra's out!  Now it's down to just you and me! 

Madeline:  I feel so left out!  I haven't gotten a fever, just feeling yucky. 

As we all do, excepting those two aforementioned, with the yuckiness (I shall spare you any further details!  )  extending long past the fever. 
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And for your entertainment, the following is "borrowed, borrowed without permission" from Alexandra's comment on a friend's blog.


speaking of madeline...today while we were watching a movie, madeline suddenly remarked, "that guy looks like a preposition." i gave her this look: O_o and she 'explained' herself by pointing out his "curvy head and big, long nose." okay...SOMEBODY'S been watching too much 'Schoolhouse Rock'

and speaking of valentine's day, on the very day, right when mama had just given daddy his valentine's present (hershey's pot of gold. best thing in the universe) and he was happily enjoying it by eating it (that's the best way to enjoy chocolate after all...by eating it) and sharing the eating of some with mama (that is the second best way to enjoy chocolate...by sharing it) i happened to notice a loose thread on his sleeve. now you must understand one thing about me: i cannot abide loose threads. they irritate me to no end. there is some sort of mechanism in me that is quite automatic, and it urges me to lose no time in pulling that erratic thread, telling me that not only is it the obvious thing to do but it is moreover the right thing to do. so pull it i did. as suddenly as the thought to pull it had placed itself in my head, instantly a new thought introduced itself: "what if this thread is connected to something? something like---" SNAP! "his button?!" aye, alas...the bright idea came too late. in all but an instant i pulled the thread, his button came off, and it clattered noisily to the floor. mama and daddy froze in their conversation. they looked slowly from the button on the floor, to the thread in my hand, to the hole in daddy's sleeve. i blushed and placed the offending thread in daddy's hand, as if that could somehow make up for the hole in his sleeve. i picked up the button and shrugged sheepishly. "i suppose i could sew that back on..." i started, but daddy interrupted me: "of course you will! but...where are you going to put it so you'll remember?" this was a serious question, and one that needed careful consideration. so i picked up the button, stared at it for a few seconds, and then promptly attached it to my earing. it looked weird, but it worked! his sleeve is fixed!!
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Lastly, I invite you all to postulate in your own minds and for your enjoyment alone, the possible ends of the very dangerous fight that Madeline and I have undertaken together - SAT prep.  It might well be that one or both of us shall perish on the way!  Algebra pummels Madeline, with one polynomial tied behind Its back, but she takes the punishment and doggedly fights back.  Each round, she slowly beats it into submission.  I am confident that she will emerge the victor, though she drags herself to her corner at the end of day.  And I, being older and tireder, have not her stamina and often wonder what I will look like at the end of it all?  
(In plain language, Madeline's intense dislike of math led her to forget nearly all the algebra she ever learned, not even allowing a bit of it to linger as a bad memory.  She was thrilled to be done with it, knowing that she'd never need it again.  Oooops.  So now we're trying to relearn it all in a few weeks.)

Her constant question is Why?  "Why do we need to know algebra?  Why is it so important?  When will I ever use it again?"  The answers that Jay and I have given do not satisfy her as she has been able to see other answers to the hypothetical problems that we pose, ones that do not require algebra for the solving.  So I am asking for real life occasions that use algebra.  I know that she would be more content to pour herself into this if she saw a practical application for her future beyond the college entrance exams.

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Feb. 17, 2008
Flu pt.2

My fever has broken.  Thanks for your prayers, OPCKid!  Abigail's came back, however.  Anyway, now that I am feeling a little better, I wanted to post these two amusing conversations overheard around here recently.  The first is thanks to Alexandra.  And in the second, Ethan is talking about his immune system.

Eliza: *squeals* STUCK!
Emma: Stuck in what?
Eliza: My shirt!
Emma: What's stuck?
Eliza: Me!!


As I make the rounds checking temperatures.
Ethan: I'm 98.8!  My little soldiers sure are doing their jobs!
  *then to Emma*: You're 99.  Not as good as me.  That's cause you're a girl!
(So, obviously, girls cannot have as good an army as boys!  )

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Feb. 17, 2008
Blegh

Influenza here.  It has hit our town hard.  Jay, Madeline, Abigail and Emma are nearly back to normal and Alexandra, Eliza and Ethan never got it.  (Yet?)  Sophia is improving - no fever but her "cold-like" symptoms are hanging on; and I'm still very sick today.    I owe several of you emails or letters and I'll try to get back to you when I'm on my feet again.  Right now, it's back to bed! 

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Feb. 9, 2008
Happy Birthday!!

You will never believe what we just bought for Madeline!!  I'd almost like to have a contest, but I know the girls would tattle.    So here it is.  Today we got Madeline ----



her wedding veil!!! 

It's true.  It has daisies on it (and it was 62% off)!!  We couldn't resist.  If you know Madeline, you know that this veil was made for her! 

No, there is no wedding in her foreseeable future (although her brother is another story!).  We got it for her hope chest.  Each of the girls gets a hope chest at 16.  Well, actually, that's the plan and we are working on execution now.    When Madeline turned 16, we barely had grocery money so she had to wait for her chest.  We've looked at them a couple of times recently but she hasn't found the right one yet.  But we saw no reason the chest had to come before we could begin filling it! 

(We will have it professionally preserved so that it looks brand new on her special day.)
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Today is Ethan's birthday  and next Wednesday is Madeline's.   Happy Birthday!!!!  We had a wonderful and silly celebration last night.  I so wish that I could remember more of the quotes.  Alexandra, as usual, was the source of much hilarity, especially when Abigail began laughing with her mouth full of water.  Alexandra shielded her plate, yelling, "She's gonna blow!"  Unbelievably, this time Abigail actually managed to swallow eventually!  (Uh, yeah, that implies there was another time when she did not!  )

Ethan got a cool RC car and a robopet - what a hoot!  But Madeline thinks that perhaps the little creature is a bit too real - "Oh!  How rude!" 

Madeline was showered with chocolate, her very favorite thing!  And Alexandra got her a frog to kiss until her prince shows up!    This thing actually makes a loud, wet-sounding kiss.  It is so cute.  Madeline loves it.  But so does Daisy.  It's been quite a show.  Madeline has been keeping it with her but still Daisy manages to sneak in and grab it.  Then she's off, with Madeline in hot pursuit!  Daisy is very, very fast and Madeline has only been able to catch her when someone else helps to corner her.     What can I say?  It's the little things that amuse me.

Speaking of Daisy, she is very large as well as very fast, and she jumps extremely well.  I never knew that poodles are great jumpers!  Our evening entertainment usually includes someone chasing Daisy and vice versa.  She now leaps over the entire couch without touching any of it!!    It is not safe to be sitting there when the running begins.  She frequently leaps onto the couch from the back or side then races the length of it to head someone off!  She gallops right over anyone sitting there.  And, while she can clear the couch in a single leap, she doesn't always clear the person sitting on  it!  What?  Doesn't sound like your kind of family fun?  Oh, but remember - we're weird!

And, finally, here's a couple of Alexandra quotes.  She often complains that she never learns anything in school.  But she is always the one who so often comments on history out of the blue.  The other day she says to me, "Oh, Mama!  That face you made was just like Elizabeth I's 'I am not amused!' look!"

Bursting in:  "Thomas Morton is a punk!"  - her estimation of the man who raised a Maypole in 1627 America, bringing the ire of the Pilgrims down upon him.  This was followed by her very modern retelling of that bit of American history.  "...And he sold guns to the Indians so that they could shoot the Pilgrims!  So they tell him, 'Stop!'  And he says, 'Make me!"  What a punk!  Then he goes and gets all his friends and they have a big party with lots of liquor and Indian girls and stuff like that.  What a punk!  Then Miles Standish shows up with his soldiers and says, 'Stop!'  And Morton says, 'Make me!'  But he and his friends were too drunk to even lift their guns so Miles Standish did make him, and no one was hurt except one guy who was so drunk that he ran into a drawn sword and cut his nose!  What a punk!"  And then she was gone! 

Doing dishes with Abigail and Emma, who were having a disagreement:  That's it!  I'm leaving!  I will not stand here between you two and be shot full of the daggers that are flying out of your eyes!

Hope that holds you for a while.  Don't know how many months it may be before I'm back! 

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Nov. 3, 2007
I'm back!

Wow!  It has been such a long time since I updated.  I'm sorry, to those (few) of you who have been waiting on me.  Time has flown and I really have been extremely busy.  Most days I never get half of my to-do list done.

One reason for that is that we have all gotten very involved in our new community, especially the children.  They are volunteering at the assisted living apartments and at MOPS, they are in youth group and AWANA, taking piano lessons, taking online classes (okay - that one is not community involvement, but it takes a lot of their time), and so on.  We have settled in very quickly and are very happy here.

Ethan has joined the Cub Scouts and we spent October selling Boy Scouts popcorn - lots of popcorn!  He was the second highest seller in his pack, with over $1500 in sales.  He won several prizes for his efforts.  He did most of the work, but it was a family affair.  His sisters were a big help.  So they will share in one of his prizes - a $50 gift card to WalM.  We'll get something for the entire family.  He also won a pizza party to be followed by a trip to one of our state university's football games.  He is not sure that he wants to do that, though.  He knows nothing at all about football and thinks the idea of sitting out in the cold in December for around 3 hours does not sound like fun!!  lol
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One day, I stopped for gas with the children in the car.  A hearse pulled in to the pump in front of me.  There was rock music blaring from its radio and the bass was thumping, so much so that we felt the vibrations in our car.  When I answered the kids question about where it was coming from, Alexandra exclaimed, "That is so cool!  That's what I want when I die - I want the hearse to drive me around town with the bass cranked up and the hearse thumping!"

She went on to ponder aloud the songs that she knew, looking for one that has a really hard bass.  "Another One Bites the Dust," she announced.  "That one has an awesome bass!  That's my last wish - to be driven around while the hearse blares Another One Bites the Dust!" 

She entirely missed the irony of it until I finally stopped laughing long enough to say, "Alexandra, no funeral director will ever do that for you!  The entire community would think he was sick!" 

It was almost as much fun to see the realization dawn on her face!  Once it did, she said, "That makes it even better!!  Now I know that's what I want!!"
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And we did get that standard poodle puppy that we wanted.  Her name is Daisy and she is wonderful!  She really doesn't act much like a dog!  She doesn't lick much and likes to sit and sleep like a person.  She is very smart and has been easy to train.  The flip side of that is that she is bright enough to actually think about whether she wants to obey!  She is also growing very fast and looks to be on the large size of standards.
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That's all the time I have this morning.  Gotta get back to that to do list!

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Aug. 17, 2007
Another dinner story

This one is told in their own words.  I have lifted, er - borrowed, borrowed without permission  - comments made on another blog by Alexandra & Madeline as they told this story to friends.

Alexandra:

Comment on August 11th, 2007.


well, at devotions yesterday, ethan was holding one of those super-small pickles. and then he just randomly decapitated the poor thing. he had such a serious face, and the noise was so weird and random, and the ‘head’ of the pickle happened to fly through the air and land *on my foot*…so i had to very quickly take a huge gulp of water from my cup, and pretend that the huge smile spreading across my face was not from amusement, but from trying to open my mouth wide enough for all the water to go in. :P

Madeline:

Comment on August 11th, 2007.

Alexandra, I was just about to tell that story! Unfortunately, I couldn’t keep from laughing. All the other kids started laughing too, which got us several vicious glares from the other end of the table. *looks sheepish*


And now for some editorial comments of my own.  I would say that those "vicious glares" from the other end of the table were actually very stern looks.  And if I remember correctly, they were accompanied by a reproof for not giving due attention to the speaker and the subject under discussion.  And though our illustrious leader, having been in the right, does not need any defense from me, I will point out that our end of the table had entirely missed the unusual cause of such hilarity, causing him to presume that it had originated in the ordinary way (an outbreak of silliness).  Thus, he was stern in calling your attention back to the question at hand.
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Time for kudos
to Emma & Abigail - for your initiative and help today!  You saw what needed to be done and did it!  Gotta tell you , girls - that's a sure sign of maturity. 
to Madeline  - for sticking with a tough lit assignment and even learning from it!! 
to Emma & Alexandra - for sliding so smoothly into the next level of work and doing it well! 
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As there have been some break-ins in our little town, and as we are "celebrities" around here, (might make us an inviting target), I have requested that we take some measure of security.  Jay has opted for a dog rather than an alarm company because "they're more fun" and "all the kids want one".  Each of them is a dog-lover.

We want to get a standard poodle puppy for the following reasons.
--I am allergic to dogs so we need one that is hypoallergenic.
--She will gets lots and lots of loving around here.  So we need one that can physically handle all the attention and romping.
--We believe that a puppy would be best so she can adjust to our "pack" early on.  When we have tried adult dogs in the past, each of them has tried to raise her status/rank in the pack by turning on one of the younger kids.
--We want her to function as a watch dog too.  And, believe it or not, standard poodles are frequently used for guard dogs and make great watch dogs.
So, please pray for us as we try to find just the right dog this coming week.  And continue to pray once we get one.  Jay and I feel a little old to be going through a "baby" stage again!

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