May. 27, 2006 - Throwing a fit at Wal-Mart!

Posted in Child Training


Well, today my precious little girl threw a big fit at Wal-Mart.  It was very embarrassing and also disheartening for me as we are trying so hard to get past this kind of behavior. 

We walked in, got a cart, put the baby in the seat, walked around the corner and she suddenly yelled out, "I NEED A TISSUE AND YOU DON'T HAVE ANY!"...followed by lots of screaming and crying.  It made me jump..I just wasn't expecting it.  I mean, I hadn't even put anything in my cart yet!!  And I was being accused of being tissue-less.

As she continued to scream and cry, I firmly told her to "cut it out, now!".  She would not stop.  She was screaming at the top of her lungs! As you can imagine, I felt the stares of many an onlooker.  I took the baby out of the cart and led my wailing daughter all the way to the car.  This was supposed to be a quick trip to the store.

As soon as we got in the car she decided she would obey.  I told her not to make a peep all the way home - and she didn't.

At home she was disciplined accordingly and I spent some time getting my courage up to face the general publc at Wal-Mart again.

We went back for a do-over.  I was somewhat incognito - I changed my clothes - can you believe it!?

I'm happy to report that she did beautifully.  Infact, she was lovely for the rest of the day.  When I'd ask her to do something she would say, "I'd love to" or "I'd be happy to". 

I don't know if I did the right thing....I'm rarely sure of that.  I also don't know why she threw such a huge fit.  We are working hard at learning how to control ourselves, but it takes time to see the fruit of your labors.

You know, I am not even sure why I am posting this...I guess because I know that some of you have been there and done that.

Well, thanks for "listening".  I hope your day is tantrum free!

Stacy

 

 

 

 

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May. 27, 2006 - I hear you!

Posted by callmekate
One of the great things about blogging is that it's a place to go when you just need to talk about your day. No judgements here, and most of us understand and can relate. In my opinion, I think you did the right thing. It's tough to make quick decisions in situations like that. Keep up the good work!

God Bless!
Kate
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May. 29, 2006 - Untitled Comment

Posted by lindafay
Sounds like the same thing I'd do. Your time and trouble will pay off in the long run.

warmly,
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May. 29, 2006 - Untitled Comment

Posted by anewcreation
what mom has NOT been there??!!! We have a very peaceful home and we are attachment parents, but sometimes things do get a little crazy! About a year ago, we had a similar incident at Target. It was handled by leaving the store in total embarassment! Everyone was looking at us! I was sooo embarassed! We (dad & mom) handled the situation calmly and rationally; and I think as long as you don't "loose your cool" (yell or hit) things won't easily escalate. As long as you maintain a calm and loving attitude, you handle the situation correctly--but that's just my opinion!
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May. 31, 2006 - Thanks

Posted by
Thanks for the encouragement ladies. It was nice to hear from you!

Edited by AussieinAmerica on May. 31, 2006 at 12:55 PM
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Jun. 9, 2006 - Untitled Comment

Posted by reformingmama
Hi there! I think you did a great job at Wal Mart. Sounds like what I would have done, too. Many parents would have probably bribed their children with candy or toys to settle them down; you took the hard (but better!) road! :) And... great job going back so that your daughter could practice the appropriate behavior! :) I just blogged on this the other day, too... my daughter (4) goes through these stages of fits and is in one now. We're working on it.
Blessings to you from another Stacy
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Jul. 2, 2006 - Untitled Comment

Posted by Titus2woman
Please forgive me, but I am rejoicing in your honesty and knowing it doesn't just happen here! (((((HUGS)))) sandi
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Jul. 23, 2006 - Untitled Comment

Posted by hugs4Him
I have tantrum prone children, so I can relate. This is something that does need diligent attention, & I appreciate you posting this as it's encouraging!
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