3. How long dated?  We dated for 1 year and 8 months before we got married.

4. How old is your man? 33

5. Who eats more? Probably him....

6. Who said "I love you" first? I did.  I was in love with this man from the moment I saw him.  I told God that if he ever brought me a man like that I would never let him go...and I haven't.

7. Who is taller? He is!  He was 5'11 when we got married but is now 5'10" after breaking his back.  I am only 5'4".

8. Who sings better? I don't know...neither one of us would make money at it...but we can be found belting one out with the kids in the car if one of our favorite songs comes on the radio.

9. Who is smarter?  We are both very smart.  He is very good at math and history.  I prefer science and language arts/literature.  We compliment each other well....guess that's why homeschooling works.

10. Whose temper is worse?  I have to do some confessing here.  Ok, so I have a temper...who knew?  Tommy can get mad but it's very few and far between that he shows anger.  I tend to do this on a daily basis.

11. Who does the laundry?  We both do.  Since I work nights...he had to help...but I hope that one day soon when he's done with school and working I can take over this task and he will just know that there will always be clean clothes in his closet and drawers.

12. Who takes out the garbage?  This is primarily the guy's job (Tommy and Bryce).  I will take it out of the can and tie the bag, but one of them will take it out of the house and later to the road.

13. Who sleeps on the right side of the bed? Looking at the bed...he does.

 14. Who pays the bills? Are you talking Buffalo Bills? Our football team?

Oh, you mean the things that come in the mail each month...I pay them.  I have a system and it works.  I know what we have and what's due when...one day I will get this all on paper and out of my head.  If anything ever happened to me he'd have no idea about the bills.

16. Who mows the lawn? My brother does! Of course we pay him, but since we have rented out the house it's just easier to pay him to do it...at the apartment we have no lawn and at my mom's.....well, my brother does he lawn, too!

15. Who is better with the computer?  We are both very good with the computer...he took classes in college and I taught myself. But we don't do anything technical...if it needs to be fixed we take it to the Geek Squad.

17. Who cooks dinner?  This comes along the lines of laundry.  He has to cook more than I would like for him to have to (due to my work schedule) but he is VERY good at it!  And one day soon...I hope that he won't have to cook as much and that he will know that dinner will be waiting on him when he gets home at night.

18. Who drives when you are together?  I do, mostly. (ps...I agree with you Marsha re: wives vs. husbands driving but I love to drive. I do find myself giving up the wheel for reasons you described though.....).

19. Who pays when you go out? The money belongs to both of us, but it's usually me who physically pays....because we choose to have one debit card.

20. Who is most stubborn? Me, hands down!

21. Who is the first to admit when they are wrong? Well, since I am usually in the wrong (see above regarding temper and stubborness), that would be me.  But Tommy has no problems admitting he's wrong if that's the case.

22. Whose parents do you see the most? Well, since we are going to be living with my mom for a while, it will definetly be my mom.  But his parents live "right around the corner" and he sees them all the time, too (but usually on the weekends when I'm working).

23. Who kissed who first? He kissed me! 

24. Who asked who out? He did....we spent the night talking and then he asked me out to lunch the next day.  But because he kept me up all night, it ended up being dinner with friends that evening.

25. Who proposed? He did!

26. Who is the most sensitive? We are both rather sensitive....I just show mine more easily...

27. Who has more friends?  We both have our friends from before we met...who are now mutual friends...but I have to say he probably makes friends easier...

28. Who has more siblings? Me! He has a sister and I have two brothers and a few other siblings from my dad.

29. Who wears the pants in the family? Tommy does! I tend to be more vocal about my opinion but let it be known that he has the finally say.  God wants it that way and it's always better to do things the way God wants them. I trust that Tommy would never do anything that wasn't in the best interest of our family.

30. How did you meet? Unofficially, I seen him talking with his ex- (who shall remain nameless) at a Valentine's Day party and noticed how loving and sincere he was with her (totally attractive).  I never ended up saying anything, but a few days later he asked one of my friends about me and a few of them conspired to introduce us....the best things my friends have ever done for me!!