The Imperfect Homeschooler
Feb. 20, 2007
What Should They Know Before They Go?

I'm reviewing my notes for two workshops I'm giving at a homeschool conference this weekend. One is about blogging; basic and fun. The other is about preparing our teens for life on their own. One of the hardest things about that subject is deciding what are the most important things they should know before they go?

The answer to that question is very subjective, of course. It depends on you and your life experiences, really---what you think is important, but also, what you wish you'd been prepared for when you set out as an adult.

One thing I was prepared for, that helped me a lot, was knowing how to stretch a dollar when necessary. I passed that knowledge on to my dd23, who uses it a lot these days as a self-supporting young person living in an expensive city. One of her habits is to bring a home-packed lunch to work. She has found that doing so saves a lot of money, but reports that she is the only person who does so where she works. The others go out to lunch or pick it up and bring it back, spending at least $5-6 per person.

Most of her coworkers are young and have college degrees but were not able to find work in their field, so they ended up working retail. They complain about being poor, being hounded by credit card companies, not being able to afford their own place like dd can, etc. But do the math: they're spending at least $5 a day more on lunch than dd does. Five days per week times 50 weeks/year equals at least $1,250 they could save annually, just by bringing a lunch. (I won't even go into the health benefits of choosing homemade over fast food!) They should have been taught to stretch a dollar; it would make their lives a lot easier financially.

(Simulposted at my new blog.)


Comments

Feb. 21, 2007 - It all ties together.

Posted by BarbaraLee

Just read the last few blogs. I wish I was a little wiser in the buget department. My parents didn't talk much about money. Never knew if we had hard times or not. But talking with my kids I told them they are going to help w/the buget more so they have a better understanding of the value of money. They do pretty good w/$ looking for sales and such but the what it takes to finance a household. I feel this is important as a family. Which goes into the quality of stuff in general. Our sofa & loveseat is over 8 years old and still looks like new. Taking care of things to last. If you need something repaired try and find a repair guy. It is impossible. I'm trying to find someone to sharpen my knives. Parents aren't teaching their children the value of a dollar. They would rather go broke buying them stuff to please them.

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Mar. 8, 2007 - It's not what you make, it's what you spend!

Posted by SheilaG

Your daughter is definitely on the right track! I think that's what we all need to be taught how to do--to live within our budget so there is still some wiggle room for emergencies and to meet a need that God brings to our attention.

I think another really necessary thing for teens to know how to do is to make at least five meals. Even the boys! That'll get them started right!

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Nov. 2, 2007 - Untitled Comment

Posted by Anonymous

The best way to teach your kids the value of a dollar is to give them an allowance and then stop buying them things. I've known kids -school kids, I live in NYC so homeschooling requires a tight budget for most- who get $50 a week in addition to their parents getting them clothes, non-school books, music, games, et cetera.

I keep half the house clean and get $40 a week, which I use to pay for all nonessential clothing, food outside the house, music, books, video games, transportation, and anything else I can think of. We rarely go on vacation anywhere cool -just family- but if we do, I'm the one paying for gift shop swag.

While my 15-year old self does its share of grumbling, I think it's worth it. To be honest, it sucks sometimes when everyone else can go out for pizza and I can't because I might have to spend that $5 to get around that week. But, it's better than being 21 and having a cool car, new sound system, $500 PS3, and $100,000 in credit card debt.

Sorry if this was pointless, I'm catching up in an online AP history class and my brain is splattered all over the 18th century legal document I just read.

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