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Hey everyone!

So I changed my template again. =) I think it's pretty cute.

So for anyone who wants to know, bluenotes has an amazing sale on right now... two t-shirts for 10 bucks! I bought two the other day and LOOOVE them. :) They fit perfectly.

So for now on my blog is really going to be about reviews, worldviews, and my thoughts on different subjects. So it's not really about my life, it's about my beliefs.

So yeah. :)

This is a small update, i know, but I'm really busy and have to get ready for a craft fair with all my jewelry. So I'll ttyl!

Btw, all comments are being forwarded to my e-mail account now, so I should be getting back to you like 20x sooner now. :) :)

Have a great week!

BeCcA

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Hey everyone!

I'm updating to tell you how this weekend went. :)

My sister and I along with the entire youth group from our church went to a youth quiz meet this Saturday. :) It was SO MUCH FUN! basically we memorize books of the Bible and then answer questions. Only it's really hard. Like freaking hard at times. ;)

So we went to the Met in ottawa for the quiz meet this month, (a church in Ottawa) and it was simply amazing. :) I'm in the top ten for our district, (it's all over Canada and the states) and so if I manage to keep it up I might have a shot for going to internationals. but I don't think I'll be too too disappointed if i don't make it.. but I really hope I do. :)

So yeah. I only got one wrong the entire day, and tied with 8 others for third place. only two people were ahead of me... :D Very very happy.

Does anyone else here (other than Emily Sue) do quizzing? tell me if you do, and what district you're from!

Have a great week!

BeCcA

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Hey girlies! [[ and guys... if any read. ;) ]]

I wrote this as a reply to one of the sisterhood girls on the thread "too young what happens?" under spiritual. I'd advise all of you to check it out! It's a very interesting thread. :) It's on susiemagazine.com under sisterhood, under forums.

So I was replying to a girl who was arguing for predestination. She had some very good points, but here was my reply:

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To the girl who believes in Calvinism:

You believe in predestination, right?

Well, if you believe in predestination, that means that if there is one little girl in Africa who is destined to go to heaven, all of the missionaries can just say "oh well. she's going to heaven anyway. I don't need to do anything about it."

Is that what God wants us to do?

the answer is obvious. NO. But, if we believe in predestination, our argument is valid. We dont' have to do anything at all! We can all sit at our computer screens and watch videos of stars and singers dancing around on a stage all day--completely forgetting about the people who need our help. If we believe in predestination, we are not able to help, and missions are useless.

Also, if we believe in predestination, we believe in a God who picks and chooses who gets to enjoy eternal life with him in heaven. He sorts through all the people and sees who's worthy.

sounds like those annoying girls who put you down every day at school, doesn't it?

But God is NOT LIKE THAT. It says in the Bible that no one has an excuse for not knowing God. That means that no matter what, someone can become a Christian.

God is a just, fair, loving God. He isn't a God who looks at someone and says "I think I'll let them burn in Hell, even if they try and find me."

To be honest, that's what predestination says that God is thinking.

Also, there are two different versions of predestinations. I'm going to clarify right now what I mean by "predestination," and what I think you mean. (they're the same)

The first way of saying predestination means that God knows your every move, your every thought, your every word before you even say it. He planned you from the beginning, but you sill have free will in your life. He simply knows what choice your going to make before you make it. (which gets into more theological discussions like "but then do we really have free will?" But that's beyond the point)

The second point is that you have no control over your life. No matter what you do, you couldn't help it, and you're either going to heaven or hell. You can't control it. So if you're a "good" person, and you try and help everyone in the world, but you're predestined to go to Hell, there's nothing you can do about it.

I'm talking about the second one.

A just God does NOT send people to hell without giving them a chance. A just God sends people to heaven if they find him, and gives everyone an even chance.

Our God is just, loving, kind, and compassionate. He does not send people to Hell without them choosing their path. He urges us to choose the narrow road, and that the wide road will only lead to death and destruction.

why would he warn us if we had no choice over our lives? Why would he warn us if he had already programmed us, like his little robots?

He wouldn't.

It's not logical.

To sum everything up, here's the whole thing in a simple syllogism :

If we believe in predestination, we believe that no one has a choice in whether they are condemned to suffer in hell or not

However, we know that God is a just God, and we know that a just God gives everyone a choice, as does our God in multiple places in the Bible.

Therefore, everyone must have a choice whether they enter heaven or hell at the end of their life because our God is a just God.

BeCcA

(And I have Bible references to back up every single thing I said. )

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What are your thoughts? Please tell me! I love debating, and I'm open to learn more about my heavenly father. :)

BeCcA

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Lest we forget.

A list of all of the soldiers who have bravely died serving our country during the afghanistan war up to now:

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Marc D. Léger, Ainsworth Dyer, Richard Green, Nathan Smith , Robert Alan Short , Robbie Christopher Beerenfenger , Jamie Brendan Murphy ,Braun Scott Woodfield ,Timothy Wilson , Paul Davis , Robert Costall , Matthew Dinning , William Turner , Myles Mansell , Randy Payne , Nichola Goddard ,Anthony Boneca , Francisco Gomez , Jason Patrick Warren , Christopher Jonathan Reid , Vaughn Ingram , Bryce Jeffrey Keller , Kevin Dallaire , Raymond Arndt Master , Jeffrey Scott Walsh Master , Andrew James Eykelenboom , David Braun , Frank Robert Mellish, Richard Francis Nolan , William Jonathon James Cushley , Shane Stachnik , Mark Anthony Graham, David Byers , Shane Keating , Keith Morley,. Glen Arnold , Josh Klukie , Craig Paul Gillam , Robert Thomas James Mitchell, Mark Andrew Wilson , Darcy Tedford , Blake Williamson , Robert Girouard , Albert Storm , Kevin Megeney , Donald Lucas ,Aaron E. Williams , Brent Poland ,David Robert Greenslade , Kevin Vincent Kennedy ,Christopher Paul Stannix , Allan Stewart, Patrick James Pentland T, Anthony Klumpenhouwer,Matthew McCully, Darryl Jason Priede, Darryl Caswell , Christos Karigiannis, Stephen Frederick Bouzane ,Joel Vincent Wiebe, Matthew Johnathan Dawe ,Jordan Anderson, Cole Bartsch , Lane Watkins, Jefferson Clifford Francis , Colin Bason ,Simon Longtin ,Mario Mercier, Christian Duchesne ,Raymond Ruckpaul,. Nathan Hornburg , Nicolas Raymond Beauchamp, Michel Levesque ,Jonathan Dion ,Hani Massouh, Eric Labbé ,Richard Renaud, Etienne Gonthier, Michael Yuki Hayakaze ,Jérémie Ouellet, Jason Boyes, Terry John Street,Michael Starker,Richard Leary, Jonathan Snyder , Brendan Anthony Downey ,Colin William Wilmot , James (Jim) Hayward Arnal , (Josh) Brian Roberts , Erin Doyle Master ,Shawn Allan Eades ,. Dustin Roy Robert Joseph Wasden , Stephan John Stock , Andrew Paul Grenon ,Michael James Alexander ,Chadwick James Horn , Prescott (Scott) , Robert John Wilson , Mark Robert McLaren , Demetrios Diplaros , Thomas James Hamilton , Justin Peter Jones , John Michael Roy Curwin , Michael Bruce Freeman ,Gaetan Joseph Roberge ,Gregory John Kruse ,Brian Richard Good ,Sean David Greenfield , Dennis Raymond Brown ,Dany Oliver Fortin,Kenneth O'Quinn , Marc Diab , Scott Vernelli ,Tyler Crooks ,Jack Bouthillier ,Corey Joseph Hayes , Karine Blais , Michelle Mendes , Alexandre Péloquin, Martin Dubé, Nicholas Bulger ,Charles-Philippe Michaud ,Pat Audet Master ,Martin Joannette ,Sébastien Courcy , Christian Bobbitt, Matthieu Allard, Yannick Pépin, Jean-Francois Drouin ,Patrick Lormand ,Jonathan Couturier , Justin Garrett, Steven Marshall

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One hundred and thirty three names. One hundred and thirty three families. One hundred and thirty three stories.

They died for us.

They died for me.

They died for you.

What are you doing for them?

Are you showing you appreciate them?

Or are you putting them down by telling them they're not helping?

They need our support, whether we believe in the cause or not.

They`re willing to risk their lives for people who don`t even appreciate them. What are YOU doing in this world?

Wear a poppy. Say a prayer for our troops. Read all the names. Honour them.

Lest we forget.

I will finish with the most famous poem of all time, in Flanders Fields
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In Flanders fields the poppies blow
Between the crosses, row on row,
That mark our place; and in the sky
The larks, still bravely singing, fly
Scarce heard amid the guns below.

We are the dead. Short days ago
We lived, felt dawn, saw sunset glow,
Loved, and were loved, and now we lie
In Flanders fields.

Take up our quarrel with the foe:
To you from failing hands we throw
The torch; be yours to hold it high.
If ye break faith with us who die
We shall not sleep, though poppies grow
In Flanders fields.
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BeCcA

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Marianne Dashwood--a romantic, poetic, young lady who is easily swayed by any man who can recite poetry with feeling.

In the movie sense and sensiblity, we meet this young lady and immediately love her. We know she always has best intentions at heart, and she loves her family more than anything in the world, but her romantic side makes us laugh.

When they move to a small cottage, Marianne meets a certain heartbroken colonel who falls in love with her. She likes him, but he's not as romantic as she has always dreamed of. Because of some rumours which have been spread about the two of them, when he calls she takes a walk to escape from the house--and consequently changes her entire life.

It begins to rain, and she slips and sprains her ankle. Out of nowhere, the most charming, dashing man she's ever seen runs over to help her up. He carries her back to her house where they realize that they both love poetry, and in the blink of an eye Marianne falls in love.

Willoughby and Marianne do not care what other people think about them, but show their love to each other more openly than anyone else in the entire area they lived in, and rumours began to spread like wildfire--but Marianne is too in love to notice.

Suddenly, the formerly rich willoughby loses all of his fortune, and he runs to London on urgent business--leaving Marianne.

Marianne does not give up. She thoroughly believes that he will come back, and continues to write him letter after letter with no reply. Suddenly, the perfect oppurtunity comes up! They are all invited to London! she goes, and sees Willoughby at a dance where she sees him with other ladies. She goes to talk to him, but he is indifferent to her, and treats her the same as he treats her sister. She spends days after days crying, and her heartbreak eventually leads her to putting herself in danger of death. Eventually she learns that Willoughby lost all of his inheritance because of an affair he had with a girl which he then abandoned, so she was now alone with his child she bore.

The Colonel has not given up on his beautiful Marianne, though, and through it all he helps her. I always start crying when he runs out to save her while she is standing in the pouring rain on the hill overlooking Willoughby's house--even though he knows that she's only going because of her love for his enemy. While she is on the brink of death he does whatever he can, and at the end they get married.

How often are we like Marianne, girls? How often can we look past a man's character and only see the romantic outside? How often do we focus on the sweet things he whispers to us or the hugs he gives and look past the past relationships he's had and what he did to them?

We may say "he loves me. He'll change." But he might not. "How do you know, wife, whether you will save your  husband? And how do you know, husband, whether you will save your wife?" we don't know. that's the point. Don't open yourself up for heartbreak. To quote Taylor Swift, "Look before you fall."

Even if someone is the most romantic, sweet guy you've ever met, they can hide terrible things. Some of the most amazing looking guys are great actors. Be careful. Guard your hearts, for they are the wellspring of life.

But there is a happy side! There will be a perfect husband for you. God is preparing him for you right now. Save yourself for him, mind, body, and soul.

If the guy you have a huge crush on right now is the one for you, HE CAN WAIT. Hear that? If you're 14, and you think you're in love with someone, give him the biggest test of love in the world -- TELL HIM TO WAIT FOR YOU.

I'm praying for you all girls! Don't give yourself to a guy who doesn't deserve you. Wait for the perfect prince.

BeCcA