May. 18, 2005

How we homeschool...

We are not your typical homeschooling family.  I would like to have all three of my boys at home learning from me solely...however, I am not their only parent and I am learning what submission (sigh) is all about.  My oldest, James, is 10 and attending the same private school where my hubby teaches.  My 2nd son, Jeremy, is 8 and homeschooling with me - but  shockingly we use a Charter school - something lots of Christian homeschoolers frown on!  And, finally, son #3, Jason is 4 and probably going to be enrolled in a public preschool next year. 

 

Now, before you condemn me - there are reasons for our decisions.  There are many ways to homeschool - and the biggest benefit about homeschooling out there is the ability to individualize the experience to MY child's needs!!  And, that is what we've done.  Well, to be honest I'm still grumbling about #1 being at the Christian school, but I see the benefits and they still greatly outweigh any downsides we've seen.  Darn, I hate when I've been proved wrong!!

 

All our boys were born addicted to various drugs - and thus they are requiring more help in school than I can give them.  The charter school allows for us to easily access these helps without removing our ability to be with and influence our sons on a daily basis.  Our charter allows us alot of freedom and yet there are a few things we have to deal with that a independent HSer would not - monthly visits from a Credentialed Teacher (CT), turning in lesson plans - showing work from those lessons plans, testing for 2nd grade and up.  But even these things (with the exception of the testing which we've not done yet) I have started to view as a blessing.  My CT and I really enjoy our visits - and her view of Jeremy - coming once a month - is very encouraging to me.  Sometimes on the day-to-day I see little growth - but she see improvement!  And, I was creating lesson plans before anyway...and since losing Joshua...I recognize that I need the accountability to actually get up and DO school somedays.

 

Well, anyway...that is how we are doing HS right now. 

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May. 24, 2005 - Thanks

Posted by EmptyNestMom
Thank you for sharing your blog with us. I signed up to be a blogger and didn't know what one was! Your blog brought back lots of memories and hlped me to have a vision for what a blog should be. Thanks again, EmptyNestMom
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May. 25, 2005 - Well said!

Posted by Anonymous
Well said! You might also want to note a little more why #1 son needed to have a different learning situation (at least for a while). Likewise, #3 son is also going to need significant help overcoming language problems he is already experiencing - thus a pre-school for children who need special help with this seems a prudent thing to do (nip it quickly - so to speak - and maybe he can return to normal homeschooling that much faster...).
Anyway, I think you are doing a great job and are very prudent to make individual choices based upon the needs and resources needed by each child. When dealing with learning & language dysfunctions no two kids are alike enough to use a cookie cutter approach.
Nuff said!
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May. 25, 2005 - Thanks Ladies

Posted by BelovedLamb
I wrote that post with a chip on my shoulder - but your comments helped me feel that it really wasn't necessary.

#1 is at the private school because DH felt (correctly) that #2 needed so much of my time that he was getting slighted, and I recognize the truth in that now. He loves going off to school with Daddy each day and sharing that special time in the car with Daddy (they have a 20 min commute).

Yes, the preschool we are looking to enroll #3 at would be to meet his special needs!

Thanks again ladies for your comments!
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Day by Day....we strive to learn together, love each other and have some fun. Day By Day.... we strive to raise our boys to be knights and warriors for the Lord. Some days it's a struggle...

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Me - I like to read and knit. I've been a Christian for many years and loving learning about God and seeing the Lord work in our lives! I also post on my other blog, "Journaling Back To Joy"
DH - Is a theologically trained teacher of 4th graders at a Christian school. He loves astronomy, LOTR and playing with the kids! He is the funniest man I know.
J1 - 12 - our oldest. He came to live with us when he was 16 mos old and completely turned our lives inside out! While he is struggling with self-control right now - he is the one who can brighten the room just by smiling! He loves creating things from our recycling and anything that allows him to move (trampoline, skateboards, inline skates, etc)
J2 - 11 - our middle son. He is the one who I am currently homeschooling. He loves to create things from Legos and he loves movies. He would watch movies all day if I let him :( He has just had a major breakthrough in reading - for which we are praising the Lord!
J3 - 6 - my joy. He has a very tender heart for me and really works hard to make me happy. He loves to cuddle and is just learning about Legos. He wants to be with his big brothers so much, but the age difference is a big hurdle right now.
Joshie - 5/29/02 - 2/22/03 - Our surprise! Our only pregnancy that the Lord allowed - and we were blessed to have him for those short mos. We are all still grieving his loss - you'll hear alot about that from time to time. We look forward to getting to know him someday.

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