Nov. 5, 2009 - The Happy Things

I'm not sure why I finally decided to post about this. Maybe it was because of my Mum's post about happy memories. Perhaps.

I could say this has been on my mind lately, it would be the truth, but I could be more accurate if I said, this has been on my mind for awhile. Awhile as in, a year or two.  There have been a few things going on that have really brought this thought forward, making me remember, and feel more strongly about it then ever.

So, what am I talking about? I'll put it simply, the happy things.

I have realized that many, fights, grudges, contention, feuds, arguments, rivalry, and quarrels come into being because somebody, or maybe even everybody, wasn't remembering the happy times.

Let me explain. More then once Eyebright and I have been angry with each other. There have been the times when she has taken the best for herself, leaving me with second best. There have been times when we've yelled at each other, and times when we haven't wanted to speak to each other at all.

However there have also been times when we have laughed so hard together we made each other sick. There have been long walks filled with sisterly conversation, the times when she has given me the best being content with second best for herself. There have been times when she has been so happy and excited for me she didn't have time to be jealous. Times when she has comforted, reassured, and supported me. I didn't mean for this post to be a tribute to my sister though.

My whole point in this was, there have been good times and bad times. Which paragraph was more pleasant for you to read? I would hope the second one. If it's Eyebright reading this, I know the second one. ;)

I have the good and the bad memories of every person in my family. When I've grown up and moved away, which ones will I want to remember the most? 

Many a time I have seen, or heard of complete families breaking up because someone didn't remember those happy times. Someone didn't remember how much time the person they are angry with put into their lives. Someone was only thinking of those times when, as a human, they slipped, and did something not so happy.

I don't want this to happen to my family, I want to always remember the happy times and even if some of the unpleasant family experiences stick with me, I don't want them to blind out the other times.

So here I am today, encouraging you to remember the happy things with me.



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Oct. 27, 2009 - Forever, Holy, Unchangeable, and Loving.

I decided to take a break from my NaNo count down today. For all those interested, don't worry it should continue tomorrow.

A few things about God have really been standing out to me lately and I wanted to share them with you.

~ God is forever.
Psalm 90: 1-2
Lord, Thou hast been our dwelling place in all generations. Before the mountains were brought forth, or ever Thou hadst formed the earth and the world, even from everlasting to everlasting, Thou art God.

~ God is Holy
Isaiah 6:3
And one cried unto another, and said, Holy, holy, holy, is the Lord of hosts: the whole earth is full of His glory.

~ God is unchangeable
Psalm 102: 25-27
Of old hast Thou laid the foundation of the earth: and the heavens are the work of Thy hands. They shall perish, but Thou shalt endure: yea, all of them shall wax old like a garment; as a vesture shalt Thou change them, and they shall be changed: But Thou are the same, and Thy years shall have no end.

~ God is loving
John 3:16
For God so loved the world, that He gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in Him should not perish, but have everlasting life.



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Sep. 2, 2009 - Will I Rejoice?

This morning while I was reading my bible this verse stood out to me.

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And they departed from the presence of the council, rejoicing that they were counted worthy to suffer shame for His name.
~ Acts 5: 41

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Peter and the apostles had just been in jail, had been questioned by the council, and then beat for spreading the name of Jesus.  Yet here they are praising him, and dancing because they were worthy.

I've been thinking a lot about Christian persecution. What does God have in store for me, and am I up to the challenge? Will I come out praising Him because I was worthy to suffer in His name, or will I deny Him to avoid the beatings? 

Only the Lord knows what my choice will be, but I can prepare now for those days by becoming closer to Him. Learning all I can about His loving kindness, and awesomeness.



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Jul. 14, 2009 - God's Gifts

My Mom had way to many papers with her name on them. Yesterday my brother and I spent four hours shredding paper and we are probably about half way through the pile of papers we started with.

As I was shredding though I glanced down at a check I was about to feed to the shredder. It had my birth date on it. The same month, and day. It was two years before I was born.
I went and showed it to my Mum and said, "The funny thing is when you wrote this check, you probably didn't even think twice about the date."

I was thinking about it later and realized how God can make so many things happen. He can give and take away. Ten years ago no one ever thought twice about the date 9/11. Well, the people who were born on that day probably did, but that's beside the point.

My Mom did not think about the date I was born two years before, she did not yet know the punishment God was about to spring on her in human form.

Since we have been moving I have tried to imagine what life will be like in our new home, but I can never imagine what will really happen. God has a plan for me, and he is waiting to show them to me, till those special dates that I think nothing of now.

For all this I considered in my heart even to declare all this, that the righteous, and the wise, and  their works, are in the hand of God: no man knoweth either love or hatred by all that is before them.

                                          ~ Ecclesiastes 9:1



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Jun. 25, 2009 - The Promises of God

I have been thinking a lot lately about the promises of God. Not only because of what my family is going through right now, but partly because of the Ignition Outreach challenge I have been joining in.

Anyway my Daddy is searching for a job he has looked all over the country, and even out of the country, he has been looking for sometime now and we have all struggled. It is now that I remember what God has told me, and what promises he has made me. Just like all the other times, when I've needed him, he has been there.

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    ~ Proverbs 3: 5-6
Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understand. In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.

       ~ Isaiah 41:10
Feat thou not; for I am with thee: be not dismayed; for I am thy God: I will strengthen thee; yea, I will help thee; yeah I will uphold thee with the right hand of my righteousness.

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No matter where I go, or what happens as long as I lean on God and look to him he will take care of me. He made a promise, and I know I can always trust God to keep his word.



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Jun. 22, 2009 - Fear of the Unknown

I was reading Matthew chapter 8 yesterday morning. I have not been reading my Bible as much as I should be for awhile now because of all the company I've had, and such. It was good just to open the Word and read what God had to say.
I had reached verse 26 when some red words of Jesus seemed to jump off the page at me. They were simple, yet they made me think more then any of the other words I had seen.

"Why are  you fearful, O you of little faith?"

I continued reading, but had not gotten very far when I went back to look at that  sentence. Why am I fearful?

My family has been going through some questioning times right now, we are not sure where the Lord is going to take us and what things he is planning on teaching us. The road curves ahead of us and we are unable to see what lies ahead. I have been afraid, I have cried, and I have felt sorry for myself.

Why am I fearful? Why should I be when I know my King and Father are watching over me. He loves me and will protect me.

I continued reading in my Bible and the next chapter also held some words that made an impact on me.

"Follow Me."

Even simpler then the last sentence. One command that changed the life of  the tax collector Matthew. One command that changed my life forever. A command that has changed billions of lives through the ages. Two words with more power  then I could even imagine.

I obeyed that command, I am following Him, and yet I still fear.



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May. 9, 2009 - Friends I've Lost, Friends I Still Have. A Prayer for All

I have so much  trouble with the problems of the world. Understanding why they are even there, and how can anyone be so stupid to do any of it?

I remember several good friends that I spent a lot of time with, goofing off, playing games, and having heart to heart talks. These are sweet memories for me, but over the last few years they have turned sad as well.

Many of those friends have "grown up" in the world's eyes. They now go to public school, and they act like it. Boys is all they have to talk about, and words I would rather not hear comes out of their mouths every other sentence.

To see this hurts so bad, to know that these girls, who I always thought would be just like me have changed so much. The world and it's people dragged them down into something terrible. They are no longer pleasant to be around, and any contact with them becomes depressing. I want to stay in touch, I want to be that life line when they realize what they've gotten into, but I'm also afraid. What influence can they have on me?

Now is when I look to my other friends, as well as my God, and my family. Here is where they hold me up, stand behind me, hit me over the head if I start going down the wrong path.

I pray for the "friends" I have lost, and I pray for the ones I still have. Keep their hearts pure Lord.

Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies. ~ Proverbs 31:10



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May. 4, 2009 - New Fashioned World, Old Fashioned God

While we were out in town today in one of the buildings we were in I happened to hear a radio commercial. It went somewhat like the following.

"Ed likes to do things the old fashioned way, shake hands and always tell the truth..."

WHAT!? Since when did shaking hands and always telling the truth become "old fashioned!"

The world needs the Lord more then I ever thought if telling the truth is considered old fashioned! It's bad enough that courting, and modestly dressing is "old fashioned," but now telling the truth is!

After I think about it, if always telling the truth is old fashioned to the world, would not that make God himself old fashioned?


Therefore each of you must put off falsehood and speak truthfully to his neighbor, for we are all members of one body.
                                                                                                                           ~Ephesians 4:25



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Apr. 20, 2009 - My Thoughts on Acting

When I watch a movie, I want to be taken into that place, that time. I want to look at the character on the screen and say it is the character they are in the movie, not the actor who is playing the character.

When an actor can become the character they are playing that's when I'm impressed. 


One of my favorite actors is Johnny Depp. In every movie I have seen him in he has become his character and made me forget, at least until the movie is over, the other characters I've seen that he has played.

Orlando Bloom on the other hand... he is one of my least favorite actors. In Lord of the Rings, he is okay. I accept him as Legolas (although I would have liked someone else to play the part, don't ask who because I'm not sure) and forget about him in the movie, although every once in awhile he does something that makes me realize who he is.

When he is playing Will in Pirates of the Caribbean though, every time I see his character (along with Keira Knightley's *shudder*) I look at him as Orlando Bloom, not Will.

I've been told that I can be really picky about what actors I like. I'm not picky, I just expect the best.

The lives of actors though... that's a whole new post.



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Mar. 25, 2009 - Oh am I Thankful!

Yesterday was shopping day. As I was walking through the store looking at everyone around me I suddenly realized how incredibly lucky I am.

God gave me two wonderful parents who have  raised me to know, and love Him, and for that I am grateful. I thank Him for giving me my earthly parents, and for teaching them His ways!

 I will praise the LORD according to His righteousness,
         And will sing praise to the name of the LORD Most High.
                                                                                                                 Psalm 7: 17



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Feb. 23, 2009 - Respect, As Kids We Need to Start Showing Some

 

Hold thou me up, and I shall be safe: and I will have respect unto thy statutes continually.
Psalm 119: 117

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Respect: To show consideration, or thoughtfulness in relation to somebody, or something.

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Respect is something that has really been on my mind lately. Not only do I need to show some more, but I’ve noticed some things while out and about that has shown me the lack of respect in the world.

I’ve pretty much divided people into three groups that all need to be shown some respect. Even if it’s just the little things, those are the kind of things that catch my eye.

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Respect for Parents

Honor thy father and mother; which is the first commandment with promise;
Ephesians 6:2

It is towards these people I have seen the most amount of disrespect. You are not only making things harder on yourself, but your making things hard for your parents when you show them no respect. It can be shown in many ways.

When told to do something, or told not to do something, don’t argue. By not accepting their choice, you are showing them they have none of your respect. They have made that choice for a reason, not just because they felt like it.

Body language is one of my biggest problems. A lot of the times when asked to do something I roll my eyes, stomp off, or act like it’s taking a huge amount of effort to accomplish the small task. You guessed it, major disrespect.

Not only can you show respect to your parents when your around them, you can also show them respect when you are at a friend’s house, at school, (for those who go) or any other time you’re not with them.
I know several people who seem to their parents to accept their authority, but when their parents aren’t around they can be a completely different person. Telling your friends that your Mom is stupid and your Dads a pain proves your disrespect for them. It shows your lack of honor.

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Respect for Elders

Let the elders that rule well be counted worthy of double honor, especially they who labor in the word and doctrine.
1 Timothy 15:17

It drives me crazy when I hear a 12 year old call his 40 year old acquaintance just plain John. To me, not calling your elders by their proper title is rude, and shows disrespect, unless asked, or told otherwise.
By saying Mr. Smith your are accepting his authority as an adult. This also goes for aunts and uncles. By saying Uncle John you are showing respect.

When told by adults to do something, unless you now it’s wrong and your parents have told you otherwise, do it. If Grandma says to wash your hands before dinner, you are showing your respect for her by doing it without comment, or complaint.

Another small way to show your respect is to move from your seat if an adult comes in the room and there are not other places for them to sit.

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Respect for Others

Honor all men. Love the brotherhood. Fear God. Honor the king.
1 Peter 2:17

Showing people around you that you respect them as a person, makes them feel a whole lot better about you. It also gives them a respect for you.

Here are some small things that are great ways to show respect to everyone.

Boys
1.Take your hats off when you enter a building.
2. Hold doors open for others.

Girls
1. Dress modestly.
2. Don’t throw yourself at boys.

Everyone
1. Say please, thank you, excuse me, no thank you, etc. etc.
2. Don’t interrupt when someone else is speaking.
3. Clean up your messes.
4. Keep your hands to yourself. Do not touch what is not yours.

By showing people respect, they will learn to respect you, as a daughter/son, as a child, and as a friend.

Respect does not end at your behavior around people though. It goes right into your heart and what you’re thinking. God knows if underneath you really can’t stand the girl who lives up the street. By doing and saying the right things, you have shown your outward respect, but don’t forget to visit your heart, and take a look at what’s inside there. It may be time for a major revamp.
God can help; all you have to do is ask.

 

 



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Oct. 6, 2008 - Set the Example

Thank you so much for all the encouraging comments on my last post! I am slowly getting used to Eyebright’s absence.

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I have been thinking a lot about what example I have been setting for my younger brothers.

Let me list a few things you need to watch to set a good example.

1. What you say... I can say a catchy phrase once, and they will pick it up. The family will be hearing it from little mouths for months on end.

2. Your clothing... young minds can be incredibly influenced by the world. Look out your window while driving through the parking lot at the store and you will see what is influencing your younger siblings. Not very nice is it? Counter attack!

3. Watch your body actions... When your Mother tells you to wash the dishes it does not set a good example to roll your eyes, and mumble under your breath. They see that.

4. What you read, watch, and listen to. If your parents don't approve of something, don't do it!

That pretty much covers everything I think. I may be forgetting a few things.

My point is, by doing what is right you are not just making things easier for your parents, and everyone around you, but you are showing your younger siblings, that it's the cool thing to do. Hopefully, they will catch on!

Also something that would be really good would be to have a good relationship with your younger sibling! You won't get them to want to do something if they can't stand the sight of you! So if you have trouble getting along with younger, or even older siblings. I challenge you to go do something kind for them today. Speak nicely to them, and keep doing it even if they don't answer the same way. It may take awhile, but if you work at it, you will succeed!

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By the way, I would love for you all to go and comment a huge welcome to my friend SmartyJones and her younger brother, jedimasteryoda, who just started blogs on HSB not that long ago.



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Jul. 31, 2008 - Fingerprints of... Who?

Just a few minutes ago I was listening to Fingerprints of God, by Steven Curtis Chapman.

Every time I hear that song it makes me think, do people see the fingerprints of God on me? Can they see that he made me, and that I am his. That I believe in him, and worship him? I sure hope so.

Yesterday was the first day of fair for us. Since a few of the family members had entered something we decided to go see how they did and check everything else out.

Both Eyebright and I left saying, "There are a lot of scary people in this world."
To tell you the truth, I do not see any of my Lords fingerprints on someone who is showing more skin then needs to be seen, has more then I can count body piercings, with a purple mohawk.

I don't see anything in that person that glorifies God. I don't see his fingerprints anywhere that say, "I molded this person into who he is. He is my creation."
All I see is Satan's work, and I don't know about you, but I would much rather have God's thumb print on my forehead, then Satan's.

Who's fingerprints our on you?



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Jul. 29, 2008 - The Color Green

Realizing I had not posted for awhile I searched my puny little brain for something to post about.

I finally decided on the color green. No really, I'm going to write a whole post about green.

To start with I'll have to get you strait on one thing, my favorite color is not blue. I know the title of the blog is Out of the Blue, I am Bluejane and my blogs base color is blue. The reason for this is simple because my family often describe my as out of the blue. A lot of the times after I say something they will all just look at me and say, "well that was out of the blue."

I guess I should move on now before this whole post turns out to be about blue.

As you may have guessed by now. My favorite color is green. It has been for a long time. I think I first decided green was my favorite color when we went to visit my Aunt in the valley. The valley is a very green place. The whole place is simple covered in green because plants our everywhere.

I think before this my favorite color was yellow, probably because that's my Dads favorite color and I wanted to be just like him.

It's funny, if you take the color people describe me as (blue) and mix it with my old favorite color, (yellow) you get green. My favorite color now. How interesting.

Now more about the color green. To read about what Wikipedia has to say about green go HERE.

You can live in the city of Green.

There is even a rock band called The Color Green.

According to the Sensational Color website this is how the color green effects you.
1) It soothes you.
2) Relaxes you mentally as well as physically.
3) It helps to alleviate depression, nervousness and anxiety.
4) Offers a sense of renewal, self-control, and harmony.

In my opinion that's all hog wash. I have never felt soothed while looking at the color green, I am hardly ever relaxed mentally, or physically. I must admit I have very little self-control.

Anyway, I've got to bring this post to an end as I've got some things that need done, but please, let me know what your favorite color is!

 

 



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Jun. 23, 2008 - I am a Witness for God

Witness.

I am a witness. That sounds pretty important, but it is even more so when you add, for God, to the end of it.

I am a witness for God.

Wow! Can you imagine what would happen in today's society if you stood at the front of a public school class room and said that to everyone there?
I don't think I want to know.

When I hear the word witness in that context I think, "Someone who tells others what they believe, in this case, about God."  If you think about it a little longer though, it takes in a whole new meaning.

Being a witness does not just mean going door to door and handing out tracks. It doesnt mean that you have to go on as many mission trips as possible, and starting new ones when you have enough time.

These things are great, but just because I'm not doing them right now does not mean I'm not a witness.

I am a witness for God, but by saying that I don't mean I have to walk up to people and just start talking to God.

You can be a witness by simply smiling and saying, "Have a great day", to the lady at the checkout stand or by dressing modestly.

You can be a witness by refusing to do what you know is wrong. By caring for those in need.

You don't have to be holding a Bible to be the kind of witness I try to be.

All you have to do is let God's love shine through you.

I am a witness for the Lord.

Are you?

 



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Jun. 2, 2008 - Wow! What a Promise!

One of my favorite verses is is Isaiah 41:10.

Fear not, for I am with you;
Be not dismayed, for I am your God.
I will strengthen you,
Yes, I will help you,
I will uphold you with My righteous right hand.

I think the biggest reason why I like this verse is because of the promise it has in it.

I am with you.

I am your God.

I will strengthen you.

I will help you.

I will uphold you.

See a pattern there. God does not say, "Well I'll be with you, but only if you..."

"I'll be with you if the sun is shinning, but as soon as it starts to rain, I'm out of here."

"I might give you strength, I'm not sure though."

HE WILL! He IS my God! He WILL help me, and the sentence ends there. That's it. He WILL uphold me.

That promise means so much to me.



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Mar. 22, 2008 - How Can you Not Believe?

I have really been trying to pay a lot of attention to science, because I admit, it's not one of my best subjects.

Anyway I was studying the human body. Yeah! (I'm really trying to get into this)

The last module was titled The Human Digestive System, and I learned about,  (You won't believe me when I tell you) the human digestive system!

Getting on with it, I was so amazed at how complex the whole thing is!

This module I am studying the human respiratory and circulatory systems, again, I can't believe how intricate the whole thing is!

In this module you look more closely at the human heart.

The other day we listened to a silly country song and the singer said "you touch every place in my heart" I said,
"That would be the right atrium, the left atrium, the right ventricle, and the left ventricle."

Really though, how on earth do people think that this all happened by accident.

BANG and would you look at that there's a beating heart functioning perfectly!

I just can't see that.

 

 



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Feb. 9, 2008 - I Still Wonder

First of all I would like to say that in no way am I trying to say the bible is not good enough, or that God did not do a very good job in putting it together.
These are just a few questions I had about the Old Testament, questions you could have at the end of every story.

At a church we once went to I really enjoyed my Sunday School Class. However it occurred to me one day that we had gone over the story of Jonah 3 to 4 times that year, and I mentioned this to my teacher. She told me that it didn't matter how many times you read the story you should always learn something new from it.
This is true, but I still wonder if the whale was sick for the whole three days Jonah was sitting in his stomach, or did he become vilently ill all of the sudden, on the third day.
My Sunday school teacher never  told me about that!

I just started reading Leviticus, and the other night I read the verse,

Then the priest shall take some of it's blood with his finger, put it on the horns of the alter of burnt offering, and pour it's remaining blood at the base of the alter.
Leviticus 4:30

 

It suddenly hit me, I wonder what Aaron's hands looked like? This guy's job was to burn blood and guts.
However it says in Exodus 40:32

When they went into the tabernacle of meeting, and when they came near the alter, they washed, as the Lord had commanded Moses.

So he must have been washing his hands more times a day then we probably do in a week.

I ask again, what must his hands look like?
I never learned that in school.

 

As somewhat of an animal lover I've got a few questions I could ask Samson.
For instance if you read Judges 15:4-5

Then Samson went and caught 300 foxes; and he took torches, turned the foxes tail to tail, and put a torch between each pair of tails.
When he had set the torches on fire, he let the foxes go into the standing grain of the Philistines, and burned up both the shocks and the standing grain, as well as vineyards and olive groves.

I want to know if any kind soul took the time to stop, and put all those torches out, or if half of the foxes had to learn to walk backwards to make it to the nearest stream, and sit soothing their sore undersides, and if they ever got untied from one another for that matter?

 

 

I guess the guy I should be asking about animals would be Noah. I wonder if he had any trouble keeping his lions away from the zebras, or if God made all the animals friends for 40 days? Then again God could have made them all lethargic, I get sleepy on a rainy day.
When I brought the subject up with Mommy, she wanted to know if any of the animals ever got sea sick. I mean this wasn't just a pitter, patter type rain, the skies were opened up, you can read about it on my sister Eyebright's blog here.
 

 

Well like I said, I just had a few unanswered questions.

 

 



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Jan. 21, 2008 - You're Talking to the Queen of Complaint

I could complain from dusk to dawn without stopping if I wanted to. I am not proud of this fact.

I complain unconsciously, I just say something then realize that I was complaining. I obviously need to think before I speak, not one of my better qualities.

I could not find a lot of versus that really went with what I was saying, but here is one that I found.

Acts 25:7 And when he was come, the Jews which came down from Jerusalem stood round about, and laid many and grievous complaints against Paul, which they could not prove.

This kind’s shows that not all complaining is the truth. When you complain you make things up to complain about after awhile, even if it’s not really true.

I have been trying my hardest lately to STOP complaining, there is not point to it. It not only puts me in a bad mood, but it puts every one around me in a bad mood as well, and if there around me then they are probably just a miserable as I make out to be myself.

My goal is to be a better happier person, no matter what happens, even if I have to eat oatmeal for the fourth day in a row for breakfast, I will do it with a happy attitude.

 

 



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Oct. 11, 2007 - The Side Art of Blogging ~ Commenting

In my previouse post titled Blogging is an Art I told you I would write another post about the side art of blogging. As for the last post, I could go on forever, but right now lets talk about the side art, which is as I said, commenting.

The art of Blogging is not only learning to write good posts, but also learning to write great comments, and if you are a really accomplished blogger you will know how to use the HTML to make awesome templates and neat stuff like that, but for now we are talking about the comments.

One of the most importent things is responding to comments. I can not brag of being good at it, but here we go. 

It is just proper etiquette to respond when someone says something to you.

The same with comments. Someone is saying something to you. You should let them know your listening.

An easy way to remember to respond to a comment is to go to your last post, and answer all the comments there. This is the method I have been using, however, it dosen't seem to work, but maybe it will for you.

Another way is if you get the e-mails notifing you that you have a comment, save them to remind you to respond. This is the method my sister Eyebright uses. It seems to work.

Now that you know to respond, it's time to learn how to write a comment.

One like the following will not do.

yo that was so like cool.

you shold check out my blog it is awsome lol lol

First of all, you should use no slang like yo. I personally think when people use the word yo it is rude, and disrespectful. Act civilized when writing a comment, that is what will draw people to your blog.

A good comment would contain more about what had been posted about, and more about the person that you are commenting to. Remember that the comment is not about you, and your blog, but about them, and their post.

Here are a few things I look for in a good comment.

Spelling is just like it would be in a post. Try to make the comment so that it is readable.

Don't feal bad about leaving a long comment. Just so it's not several web pages long, I enjoy long comments, and I think other people do, too. This dosen't mean you have to leave long comments all the time, short and sweet is nice too, but if you have something to say, don't feel bad about saying it.

If you are a Christian, act like one. The way you comment is a big way for other bloggers to decide if you are someone they would like to have on their friends list.

If the post you are commenting on is a big "thinker" post, let the writer know what you think, even if you don't agree with them, just put it in a nice way.

Last, but not least, remember that you could be making someone's day, who was wondering why she still has no comments on the post she thought was great!

A great post to read about commenting, and blogging is on totustuus's blog, please stop and read it.

Please think about this the next time you leave a comment.

Thank you all for reading, and please, leave a comment!



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