His Poiema
Nov. 29, 2007
Train Up a Child Thursday

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 Train Up A Child Thursday. Or, What we're working on these days.

            With 5 children under the age of 10, what are we NOT working on. That’s my trouble half the time, trying to keep it all straight!  So here is a positive training in what seems to be a sea of negative training. Something I try to incorporate as much as possible every day with every child.  I forget where I first got the idea, but someone gave it to me.  Like all my good ideas!  We call it "Cha-Ching" and it’s all about storing up treasures in heaven.

            Jesus says, in Matthew 6:19-21, “Do not lay up for yourselves treasures on earth where moth and rust destroy and where thieves break in and steal; but lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven where neither moth nor rust destroys and where thieves do not break in and steal.  For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.”

            We want our children to have an eternal focus. To be able to look beyond the temporal and see the eternal.  But how to do that on a day in and day out basis with the mundane things of life?  What does it Mean to store up treasures in heaven? What does that look like for a 3 year old? For a 13 year old? For a 33 year old?  How can we actively practice what our Lord commands?

         Storing up treasures in heaven, for our children, means considering the preciousness of others.  It means thinking of others first, of acting or speaking in a kind and loving way.  So when I catch one of our children choosing the low place, or using kind words, or sharing a favorite toy, or showing initiative or responsibility, etc., I give them a big smile and a cheerful “Cha-Ching! You’re storing up treasures in heaven!”  Sometimes I will be a little goofy and gush about how the angels are marveling at how kind they were, or what cheerful obedience they demonstrated or how thoughtful they were and how their words or actions were “just like Jesus’”  We want Jesus to be our standard of excellence, we want them to learn to think in terms of what He would have them do or say in any given situation.

            We want our children to learn from an early age to be God-pleasers, not man pleasers. To do everything to the honor and glory of God, not because good manners and obedience will get them what they want in life.  A high and lofty goal!  A small tool to help!  Begin as you mean to go.


Comments

Nov. 29, 2007 - Great Way of Doing Things!

Posted by ichuzchrist

I like your idea. What a great way to incorporate the opposite of peer pressure. Wish I had thought of that when my older ones were young. Maybe it's not too late. :)

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Nov. 29, 2007 - Thanks for Dropping by My Blog!

Posted by ichuzchrist

Thanks for the comment. My brother and his wife live in Manchester, and I have many friends up there still. I grew up in Hudson. Most of the family migrated to warm country (SC), except my brother. Personally, I don't like the heat here, and would gladly take the cold winters there over the scorching summers here.

Aneira is pronounced ah-NEAR-ah. It is a Welsh name. We pronounce Arianna like ARE-ee-AH-na insted of AIR-ee-AH-na or AIR-ee-AN-na ::cringe::.

I love your daughter's name!

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Nov. 30, 2007 - Untitled Comment

Posted by Anonymous

I absouletly love your Cha-Ching!! That is such a great idea with an even better purpose :-)

Thanks so much for joining in..I'm really glad you did!

God bless,
Sallie
http://www.angelfire.com/sc/anderklan/blahblahblog

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Nov. 30, 2007 - Nice to meet you!

Posted by mrse

I saw your name added to my friends list, so I came over and have thoroughly enjoyed reading all your experiences and the wise way you daily follow God's leading in raising your children. I, too, have just had the new experience of toddler training (mine is now 2 1/2) in many similar areas! As there is a great gap between my older children and the little one, he was born to a "whole new mama" and I like to joke that he never even "has a chance" of getting away with anything. Right now we are working on "fussing" (he calls it "pussing)," and pestering. I never know what challenge God is going to present to me next in training any of my children, but I know if He is leading, then we are on the right path and it will work!

I really enjoyed reading of your experiences and was greatly encouraged!

God bless!
--Mrs. E

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Nov. 30, 2007 - Untitled Comment

Posted by Anonymous

Good morning, Jennifer :-)

I will add you to the blogroll and I will send you the code for that and the little button.

God bless,
Sallie

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"For we are His workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand so that we would walk in them" Ephesians 2:10 Poiema is the Greek word for workmanship =) This is me, walking.... sometimes missing the signs but the Lord is always kind to make them larger the next time around.

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