Ok ladies, if you plan on getting married, the book, Making Sense of the Men in Your Life by Dr. Kevin Leman, is a must read. It will help you understand things about guys that, I am convinced, would help every married couple if every wife or future wife was willing and/or wanting to improve the relationship.

Here is something that Dr. Leman says in the book. It’s not the main message or anything, but I was like "YES!" and totally agree. When he said what I am about to quote, he was particularly talking about the abortion issue and about it being the woman’s choice and that the guy is supposed to just say, "Whatever you say, dear". And I quote: "The women’s groups are saying that there is no ’objective’ male responses. Being a ‘responsible male’ has been turned into doing whatever the woman wants you to do. Don’t have your own opinion; just follow along." -Dr. Kevin Leman.

Whether or not equal-rights-as-guys females want to admit it or not, being pregnant DOES affect the father very much so in more ways than one and he deserves the right to an opinion. I don’t agree with the past ways of abusing wives and females (considering I am a female that would make sense), but they have gone SO far the other way that they’ve illogically taken the males rights away with it. Balance people, we need balance. It is good to protect the abused, but it is bad to totally take everything out of proportion and, these days, that is way too easy to do.

Ok, so back to the book lol. Basically this book will help bring you to a "guy’s world" and help you understand what it is to be a guy. Now I can see some of my guy friends freaking out already, I can already hear you thinking "You’re reading WHAT?!", as if you feel like maybe someone’s reading your diary or something. So here is a reassuring note to all of my guy friends; don’t worry at all. The more females that read it, the better life is for you in the long run if the ladies closest to you really care about you, your feelings and how hard it may be for you at times. I would say that all females and mothers of boys should read this book. People have life hard enough on earth without other people making it more complicated so we should do all we can to simplify others’ lives as much as possible when it comes to relationships and such. We should work towards understanding each other so that we can live in better harmony and help each other through life. I love reading about people and how I can better my relationships so it is not hard at all for me to read this book. But even if you’re not a big reader or at least maybe not relationship books you really NEED to read it if you want the most out of your opposite sex relationships.

Anyways, I chatted WAY longer than I planed about this so I needa go! I would LOVE to hear your input on some of the things I specified and would also like to hear if any of you start reading it. KEEP ME POSTED!!!

LOVE YOU ALL FOREVER

~Dory