From Cindy's Heart

How to Destroy Your Man

In Just Five Years!

By Cindy Rushton

• Make it your ambition to NOT notice him!
• Disregard what he says- Look the other way, bring something else up to talk about, DO NOT listen!
• Reject Him…his ideas, his love, his protection, his wisdom, his opinions, his leadership!
• Tell him ALL of his inadequacies AND how YOU can correct them!
• Feed any of his insecurities WITH TRUTH about his weaknesses!
• Each night when he comes home, go about your own business-it helps to be on the phone and keep right on talking! Don’t even get dressed, wear makeup, or brush your teeth!
• Belittle him in private and especially in public! Let him “have it” when you think different than him!
• Compare him to other men AND your daddy!
• Get on the phone and tell ALL about him! Don’t forget to complain and belittle!
• Dishonor him in public and private! Let the whole world know what a wimp he is!
• Disobey him—what do guys know anyway?
• Don’t put much value in him or in what he has to say—you know best!
• Correct him in front of others—especially the children!
• Find all his faults and tell him about them constantly!
• Push him to get your way!
• Never let him know he satisfies you (physically, spiritually, emotionally, mentally…)—don’t ruin a good thing!
• Lead him on!
• Frustrate him ANY way you can!
• Nag! How ELSE do you get a man to do anything? How ELSE will they ever HEAR you?
• Complain! Make him suffer too!
• Whine! Isn’t he SUPPOSED to encourage you?
• Don’t waste your time understanding him!
• Respond to him! ESPECIALLY to his offensive behavior!
• Despise him for being such a weakling!