Communication FUNdamentals

Jan. 16, 2008

More tips for avoiding an argument: Not every argument should be "won".

Posted in Tuesday Tips
A new year brings some new Tuesday Tips and over the next few weeks, I am going to share some tips for avoiding an argument. 

Tip #3 for avoiding an argument:  Not every argument should be "won".


Sometimes we are so focused on being right or winning the argument that we lose sight of what is really important: the relationship!  We should pick our battles.  Is it really of great consequence that our best friend doesn't find value in our favorite book or TV show? 

Being able to share our thoughts and ideas with our friends and relatives is a precious gift from God.   It gives us a chance to get to know each other better, to hear new ideas...  Once someone feels as if you have condemned them for sharing their ideas, they will be less likely to do so next time. 

There are enough important arguments in this world to be won.  Some things are better left for us to agree to disagree.



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I was raised by two Atheists of Jewish heritage, married a non practicing Catholic and became a non denominational Christian due, in part, to some Amway meetings and a Jehovah's Witness who came to my door. My purple crayon writes with humor and almost always a little out of the lines. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ This blog is my creative and fun way of sharing my thoughts on communication skills relating mostly to homeschooling and sharing and defending the faith. It also reveals a bit about how the Lord took this shy Agnostic girl and allowed her to find her voice and her purpose, a zany voice to the Christian community with insight as to what unbelievers need to hear about Christ Jesus. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ I'll share news items, quotes, family friendly humor, tips, trivia, and my newest feature: Question of the Week. I invite you to come share your thoughts! ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ For more creative fun with JoJo you can visit www.ArtofEloquence.com ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ "A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in pictures of silver." -Proverbs 25:11

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