Communication FUNdamentals

Nov. 24, 2008

Mail Bag Monday: Is it necessary to be nice?

Posted in MailBag Mondays
During this Thanksgiving week, I would like to challenge you to think a bit more about the communication you send-especially when you are giving someone feedback.  Is it necessary to be nice?  Or, in the interest of saving the time you would have to take to choose your words carefully, is it acceptable simply to be blunt and blurt things out? 

I receive a great deal of correspondence, mostly from Christians and sometimes from Pastors.  You would be surprised at how often a Christian is unkind in his or her writing.  Sometimes it is directed at me and sometimes it is directed at someone else.  Either way, I am sure that many times it isn't how they meant it to come across. 

It only takes an extra moment to check over your email before you hit that send button.  It only takes a brief period of time to make sure the words you choose are said in grace.  After all, there is a real, living, breathing, feeling person behind the other computer screen too. 


"Let your conversation always be full of grace, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer everyone." Colossians 4:6



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I was raised by two Atheists of Jewish heritage, married a non practicing Catholic and became a non denominational Christian due, in part, to some Amway meetings and a Jehovah's Witness who came to my door. My purple crayon writes with humor and almost always a little out of the lines. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ This blog is my creative and fun way of sharing my thoughts on communication skills relating mostly to homeschooling and sharing and defending the faith. It also reveals a bit about how the Lord took this shy Agnostic girl and allowed her to find her voice and her purpose, a zany voice to the Christian community with insight as to what unbelievers need to hear about Christ Jesus. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ I'll share news items, quotes, family friendly humor, tips, trivia, and my newest feature: Question of the Week. I invite you to come share your thoughts! ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ For more creative fun with JoJo you can visit www.ArtofEloquence.com ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ "A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in pictures of silver." -Proverbs 25:11

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