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Nov. 14, 2006

Are Women More Easily Led Astray?

My wife has always said that she's glad that she doesn't have my position.  She doesn't want to be responsible before God for our entire family's behavior.  She doesn't want that kind of pressure weighing on her.

Recently, she showed me a Bible Study book (by a famous Evangelical Christian authorette) that she and some ladies in the church were working through that I wanted to get your input on.

Basically what it said (and backed up with Scripture) was that, while men and women were equal before God (both having the Spirit and, hence, direct access to Him), He put men in a position of authority because women are more easily led astray.

It gave lots of examples, starting, of course, with Eve and going on and on and on throughout the Bible.  The essence was that women are more often busy being, to put it into today's language, "in the moment" and, given a well-crafted "moment", are more liable to be led astray.*

In any case, this led me to two questions:

1) Do you think that this (women are more easily led astray) is true?

2) How does this affect what we teach our daughters as they grow up?  Is there anything specific to this topic that you're teaching your daughters?


* DISCLAIMER: The fact that I put "women" in a subject of a message or that said message contains potential failings of women does not mean that I hate women, that men are perfect, or that men have no failings.  Furthermore, there is no expressed or implied idea that women aren't Godly creatures, can't be good Christians, or aren't good Mothers.  It is assumed that the sometimes abusive audience of this blog understands that both women and men are flawed, imperfect beings.  It is also assumed that the readership of this blog believes that those flaws and imperfections are worth examining in the pursuit of becoming better, more Christ-like people.

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Nov. 14, 2006 - My $.02 worth

Posted by Somerschool
I have observed that Christian men will cheerfully do exactly what they know God forbids, on a fairly regular basis. I know hardly any Christian women who will knowingly violate God's standards.

If my observations are accurate, then there are only two logical possibilities. Either Christian women are vastly less sinful than men are, or they persuade themselves that they are doing right BEFORE they do something that violates God's standards.

If it is the latter, then Paul's comments would be easy to understand. Men are much more likely to rebel, women are more likely to rationalize.

I'd appreciate help in confirming my initial observations, though. Is this just my warped view of gender differences, or am I basically on target as to the difference between Christian men and women?
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Nov. 14, 2006 - Untitled Comment

Posted by a4givensinner
I don't think women are more easily lead astray...For one thing, Esther. That right there would at least "balance" the whole "Eve did it" thing. (Of course, it's interesting that even though Eve took the FIRST bite, sin still entered the world through Adam...I think there was always the chance for him to fix her mess had he been obedient, but that's another post).

I think that men are generally better at trying to be "Mr. Fix it". I'm a "fixer" by nature, but I've still got moments where I "act girl" (i.e. get emotional/think emotional). This week I've struggled a lot with that this week (being emotional) I find that when I talk to my female friends, I get sympathy, love and understanding. But I leave those conversations lacking focus.

Women can contribute amazing insights into things, but from my experience (and I believed this before everything happened over the last two weeks, but the last two weeks has certainly confirmed this for me): Women tend to want to comfort and care about problems. Men tend to want to find the problem and fix it. Both are important, but one involves standing still and seeking God (the women) where the other involves taking action on what God has said to do (the men).

If you reverse that, you have men doing what they haven't sought the Lord on, and women seeking the Lord but never taking any action. (These are ALL GENERALITIES so please no one over-read into anything I'm saying). It's easy for women to want to "talk about their feelings" when the time has come to take action...Men just generally don't seem to have that tenancy.

My $0.02.
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Nov. 26, 2006 - Untitled Comment

Posted by Anonymous
Just my observations -
Men and women are both easily led astray but in different areas. "Mens' sins" are more blatant and easy to see. (for example being led into pornography addiction and abusive anger) Womens' are usually more subtle and they are more likely to justify themselves by convincing themselves and others that they "feel at peace" with God about whatever they're doing. I don't know how many times I've heard women say when they know good and well they are in the wrong "but I feel that God understands and He wouldn't judge me." We're equally stupid and in need of Christ.
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Nov. 26, 2006 - Untitled Comment

Posted by Anonymous
Just my observations -
Men and women are both easily led astray but in different areas. "Mens' sins" are more blatant and easy to see. (for example being led into pornography addiction and abusive anger) Womens' are usually more subtle and they are more likely to justify themselves by convincing themselves and others that they "feel at peace" with God about whatever they're doing. I don't know how many times I've heard women say when they know good and well they are in the wrong "but I feel that God understands and He wouldn't judge me." We're equally stupid and in need of Christ.
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