Confessions of a Homeschool Dad

Nov. 10, 2005

Let's Talk About a Cheapskate Christmas

So, I've already revealed to you that I'm a cheap guy.  I notice that I'm also not the only one that finds it painful to spend money on excesses. 

 

Just for the record, I didn't always used to be that way.  At one point in our lives, my wife and I were high income, high-credit-card-debt-having, spend-at-the-drop-of-a-hat types.  If anyone was helping out the US economy, it was us!

 

After a few years' of God's special attention to that area of our life, we have become inveterate cheapskates.  I'll gladly give money to God, but anyone else is going to get the third degree.

 

WHICH BRINGS US TO CHRISTMAS - 47 DAYS AND COUNTING

 

Note that I don't say "shopping days". 

 

We used to spend on Christmas like a drunken sailer in his first port of call after a 8 month tour of duty.  In a submarine.  Who just got paid.

 

In any case, as you may have guessed, that has come to a halt for us.  Our extended family is still in port, spending away, but we're cut back.  That, as many of your are probably painfully aware, creates it's own kind of stress.

 

DEATH IS REALLY UNDERRATED

 

However, the good news is that, my friends call me, to quote an episode of Friends, "dead inside".  That is, I'm rather uninterested in what "everybody else" is doing, never been very responsive to peer pressure, and mostly "steer my own course".

 

However, my wife isn't quite there yet, so we repeatedly have this discussion of what to get particularly our families for Christmas.  Not spending great, pocket-bulging wads of money limits our options.

 

As a result, we've done a lot of hand-making presents in the last few years.  I like this solution except that we have a little difficulty coming up with unique, personalized hand-made presents.  I may still be infected with the "It's Got To Be The Greatest Gift Ever!"-itis, but I'm looking for something really nice that we can hand-make.

 

USING THE ANCIENT INTERNET

 

However, it occurred to me recently that there is a network of God-infused brains working overtime at good 'ol HomeSchoolBlogger, so I thought I'd put these Christmas-gifty questions to all of you and let my brain rest:

 

1) What are some of the more unique and neat home-made / hand-made gifts that you've given or received (for both adults and young children under 7)?

 

2) What are some sources for inexpensive non-handmade gifts that you've found?  The thrift store and liquidation stores like Big Lots are places I'm already headed to.  What else have you found (that works for us citified folks)?

 

3) Somewhat unrelated to the above, but always interesting to me:  What was your best Christmas gift ever?

 

Thanks in advance for your help!

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Nov. 10, 2005 - Untitled Comment

Posted by spunkyhomeschool
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Nov. 11, 2005 - Great questions

Posted by mamaduso
I think we are in the same boat. I'll give you a few ideas of what has worked for us.
First of all I will have to say that I am a very crafty person. I make jewlery (not exactly an inexpensive hobby), knit, crochet, and occasionally basket weave. So I have done all these things in the past for Christmas gifts. But there are some great ideas for the not so crafty. I have recently given "experiences" as gifts for people. There are all kinds of classes that you can sign someone up for or get gift certs. for. This year for one child who makes stuff all the time will be getting a few little card making supplies and then a special mommy /daughter class with a friend who knows how to make rubber stamp cards. Use people you know as resources. That can cut down on cost since they are usually willing to do it for free. I've bought guitar lessons for my husband, dance classes with me, a glider ride, etc. These are a bit more costly and probably not something you'd likely do for a distant relative but it gives you an idea of what an "experience" gift is. It could be cooking class with a friend who is a good cook (or yourselves), free babysitting for a period of time. (great gift for a new family) Special time spent with mom or dad. I plan on taking one child to the do it your self pottery place and painting something with her. We will do it after Christams so that delays the cost, and it's not terribly expensive. Take whatever expertise you have and decide if someone can benefit from it and wa la- there's your gift. I hope that has helped. We have found that we are tired of clutter on nonusable things around the house. Experience gifts can be a great way to show love and build a relationship.

The best gift ever- my husband bought me and a friend a cooking class with local but renowned chefs (Caprial and John). They have their own restaurant and our time was absolutely amazing and the food was...Fantastic
Best of luck!
Susan!
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Nov. 13, 2005 - Untitled Comment

Posted by underthesky
This year we are making greeting cards for family members that they can use all year (not holiday specific). The children will each paint, sketch, color, draw, cut out, etc something for the front of the card, and then do a small corresponding decoration on the envelope. We will give a small stack of these to the adults that would appreciate them in their lives (grandma, aunts, et all) tied with ribbon. We will probably make some yummy bread (cranberry, pumpkin, cinnamon) or some caramel popcorn to go along with it.

Our familes do not do big extended family Christmas exchanges and that is good because we just would not participate! To us, what is meaningful is getting together and fellowshipping. They do buy presents for our children, but it is one gift per child and not overboard.

One of my favorite items to make for young children is playdough. It can be made in white and coloring added to form all sorts of colors. It is a nice idea for older children to make to give to younger ones. (Or you can buy a pack of four colors at K-mart for $2.00.) :+)

Warmly,
Kate
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