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Jan. 31, 2008 - It Didn't Work

Normally, I read through other people's ideas and either try them or dismiss them outright.
If I try them, it's because something sounds like it's a good idea and I figure I'll give it a shot.
I have to tweak of course because, well, it's just that I must.

And sometimes the ideas that look good, and sound good, simply won't work for me.
And if it's an idea that seems to work for a huge amount of people then I know it must be that the problem is me.

So I'll just come out and tell you that planning a menu for my household weeks, or even months in advance, does not work for me.

Now I'm not knocking that a lot of you can do it. I think it's wonderful!

But here's why I can't do it:
1. I look at the list of foods and get bored. Honestly! After I've seen, say, sloppy joes on a list for days I just get tired of seeing it and have to change it.

2. I'm half an hour from a grocery store and just in that time it takes to drive it, I'll change my mind.

3. I'll ask my husband what he wants for dinner next week and he'll say he has no idea.
He'll say, "How do I know what I'll be hungry for next week?"
I'll follow with, "If you don't know what you want next week, how should I know what you want next week?"

4. If I plan to make something that's time consuming, something else always comes up that has me scarmbling for a replacement at the last minute.

5. When the day comes that I'm scheduled to make something, often I just don't think it sounds good.

6. It's not cheaper for us. It seems as if everything I need from my planned menu is at it's highest price when I shop!

7. It's detrimental to my walk with the Lord! I would concentrate so much on "being a good steward" that I would neglect the "give us our daily bread" portion of faith. And He hasn't let us go hungry...

So to relieve my stress of trying to make something fit that just doesn't, here's what I do:

I shop for 5-7 days in advance by simply buying what's on sale that week.

And as I tell my kids, everything in the grocery store goes on sale at some point.
And it's at that point that I buy it.
It's so much cheaper for me to skip the ground beef that's $3.19 a pound (and that's the 73%), and head to the chicken that's on sale for $.49 a pound.
When we left the store the other day, it hit me.
I mumbled something about spending $41.00 for a few things and my youngest asked me if that was a lot.
I stopped and did the math and said;
"Wait! I just got enough food to feed five of us for 6 days for $41.00!
NO! That's not a lot at all!
As a matter of fact, that's CHEAP!"

And that does work for me!

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Jan. 31, 2008 - To each is own..
Posted by nikowa
I understand about saving money by shopping sales-and not having time. :) I try (& tweak) different things too!
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Jan. 31, 2008 - Untitled Comment
Posted by brownie
I don't plan meals. It just doesn't work. I had a friend once who had 10 kids and she cooked her meals a month in advance. Good for her.

She brought me a meal once. I thanked her, and when she left, I threw it. I mean, I like to be able to identify what I eat.

We keep the same stuff in the kitchen and pantry. Sir is boring to cook for: meat, potatoes, peas or corn - and none of it mixed together. Boring, but pretty easy.

The kids and I experiment sometimes at noon.

I guess planning is good... but I have so many other things that need my attention.
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Jan. 31, 2008 - That would work for me too!
Posted by kympossible
I love those kind of prices!

I like to make about a week's worth of menus, but I'm so flexible with them that they rarely work the way I've planned. And I usually plan them based on what meat is on sale or what I have in the freezer. This international menus are REALLY different for me!

Blessings,
Kym
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Jan. 31, 2008 - Untitled Comment
Posted by jsgay97
Ah, I wish I could do what you do. I'm fine on the shopping without a menu thing, but then, when dinner time comes, it's sooooooo easy to order pizza if I can't just look at a list and say "We're having ____." Thankfully if a true creative urge strikes, we usually keep the pantry stocked enough to handle it. Anyway, I love your blog, and you are more than welcome on my friends list!
Jennifer
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Jan. 31, 2008 - Funny!
Posted by MayTheyBeMightyMen
I am so with you on 99.9% of this entry! It made me laugh out loud when I was reading it! Some of this dialog could have taken place at my house, honestly.

I try to come up with a general feel for what I'm going to do. Certain things will mean picking up a few extra items, but I really prefer to shop the things on sale at a couple of stores. Otherwise, Aldi doesn't exactly do sales. So, it's immaterial.

I'm glad I popped in here. I'm thinkin' I gotta come back...maybe often!
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Feb. 1, 2008 - Untitled Comment
Posted by cyndiegirl72
sounds like you have hit on the plan that works for you and yours! I scrounge through my cupboards/freezer and plan out 30 meals for the month. Then I go and buy what we need to complete those meals, if it is on sale. I watch the flyers and buy those things I am missing at that time. I do a big shopping at the first of the month and then little trips here and there for those loss leaders. I need to post about this.....
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Feb. 1, 2008 - Untitled Comment
Posted by mkpierce
I'm so with you! I tried that Once a Month Cooking thing and ended up wasting most of the food. Who wants frozen food anyway?
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Feb. 2, 2008 - Menu Planning
Posted by ichuzchrist
We aren't good with menu planning, either. We shop once a month, which is how often I get paid. We choose several different meals we would like to have, and buy enough for the month. However, we decide each day what we want to eat that day. Mostly because sometimes I don't want pizza, or tacos, or vegetable soup, but would rather have spaghetti. I also don't want pizza 6 days in a row. Although we were almost ready to open a pizza place (exaggeration) when I was pregnant with Aneira. The only thing I could stomach was pizza, so that's what I ate for a solid 6-8 months. I became quite adept at making pizza crusts, and our friends loved coming over to eat them.
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Feb. 2, 2008 - I'm a horrible menu planner!!
Posted by Prodoceo
I "run" to the grocery store regularly...I'm terrible at planning ahead! Oh well, we can't all be domestic divas!!

But I'm impressed by the $41 dollar shopping trip!!
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