A Simple Question ...
  
A few weeks ago, a woman who writes a blog I read regularly posted this question:  If there was a group of homeless and needy families in front of you asking for help, would you give them money knowing that while some of them would use the money to buy food, others would use it to buy drugs?
 
The blog's comment section filled up rapidly.  Some people pointed out that the question is a great analogy for the U.S. government's $700 billion economic bailout plan.  Others said they never give money to people on the street while some said they always give money to people on the street.
 
I was in San Francisco about eight or ten years ago and a guy came up to me as I was entering a BART subway station.  I had my wallet out because I was getting ready to buy a ticket.  The guy approached me and said, "Hey, can you spare a dollar ... or a twenty?"  While he was asking, he had glanced into my wallet and spotted a couple of twenties - so he figured it was worth a shot.  I laughed out loud, but still only gave him one dollar.
 
I have always tried to give money to those who ask, even if I didn't have much money at the time.  If someone is standing at a grocery store or in front of a Wal-Mart saying they don't have money for gas, I try to help them out.  My kids saw me do this when they were young and I hope it left an impression on them. 
 
My reasoning is actually quite simple - we're supposed to help those in need.  The Bible says that if I have two coats, and my neighbor has none, I'm stealing from him.  It does not say, " ... if your neighbor has none, you're stealing from him unless he's addicted to crack."  What my neighbor does with my gift is between him and God. 
 
What would you do?  Give me some feedback.
 

11:18 AM - Oct. 12, 2008 - post comment


I think...

Instead of giving that money directly to the homeless, I have a better idea...

Give it to Feed Your Faith...get a tax write...allow us to have a loud Christian rock concert or a Kirk Cameron event... then let us give that money away to homeless ministries that can make it make a difference!!!

What could be better then that!?!?!?

Mike Williams

Anonymous - 4:48 PM - Oct. 12, 2008


For the most part...

we tend to get whatever it is the person says they need. $$ for gas? Sure, follow us to the gas station and we'll fill your tank, or we'll bring the gas to you. Also, most of the time I don't carry cash. If I did, would I give? I guess it just depends on the person.

Regarding your "...unless they are addicted to crack" line... somehow I just don't see Christ encouraging us to give the guy money if it is likely he will use it to harm himself or someone else. (I suspect that He would offer the drunkard a solution instead of a glass of wine.) I believe that He would encourage us to do what we can to help the addict recover and find Him. I would much rather give a sandwich and information about an addiction recovery center than $$. Of course... I carry sandwiches around about as often as I carry cash.

One last thought, if I lived in Asheville, I would have a dozen sandwiches and pamphlets with me all the time. Last time I was in downtown I was asked for money every 10 feet or so.

TheMonkeyParade - 12:43 AM - Oct. 14, 2008


Good question

I've stressed over this one. I worked in downtown L.A. for years and was solicited probably hundreds of times.

But in the end, I figured my obligation was to give. The recipients obligation is to use the money appropriately. I'm sure I've been "taken." But I don't have to answer for that -- the Taker does. Usually when you hand the money over, you have to hide some tears, thinking how blessed you are to have the luxury of giving instead of begging. Nothing bestows gratitude like the gift of giving.

So hand it out, and count your blessings one by one! :D

QueenTeamX365 - 9:45 PM - Nov. 1, 2008


give to those who ask...

I always try to give to those who ask. The verse that you give as an example is my very reasoning--as a matter of fact, I believe the instruction is that if someone asks for your shirt, you're to give them your coat, too, giftwrapped. I have a strong belief that if I do what I'm told to do, the rest will work out just as it's supposed to. I believe that if I refuse to give when asked, I remove the opportunity for the Holy Spirit to work in the person's life.

denice - 7:25 PM - Nov. 22, 2008


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