• Friday, June 26, 2009 - COUNTDOWN... 65 days

We're getting closer to moving, yet with the exception of a few boxes, you would never know.  I knew that packing up our life after living here for over 16 years was going to be "less than easy"... but I didn't really think about the fact that our life is already busy enough without adding a move into the equation.

I also didn't think about the stress of packing on the kids either.  While we've been preparing them for a move for awhile (our house had been for sale for almost 3 years), none of us really thought that we'd be moving into a smaller space for short period of time.  They've had to make decisions on what things to pack and store away for 9 months and that's "forever" to a kid.

Moving into a place for only 9 months makes the overall packing difficult as I try to decide what we'll need and what we won't.  I've looked for some helpful moving tips online, but haven't been able to really spend much time reading.  Wish there was some check-list or workbook... tee hee...

I was given the helpful info. on Fly Lady's site that has moving tips.  I will be looking at a little more and start making some sort of timeline next week on our move.  We leave for family camp this Sunday, and the hardest thing for me will be to NOT THINK ABOUT MOVING and just spending time with my family.  I'm feeling pretty overwhelmed with everything that isn't getting done and wish I were running ahead of schedule instead of feeling behind.

Another thing I've encountered that I hadn't anticipated was having the "moving blues".  I've always wanted to move and I'm so excited for this next step in our life, however, I've been feeling lonely lately as I know some of the friendships I have will change with distance... if for no other reason being simply the distance. 

I have been praying for God to bring new friends to my friends, and while I'm so thankful for His answers to prayers, it's also hard to watch and know that I will not be the first to hear everything in their lives.  I've prayed for my children to make new friends when we move, and my husband to have deep friendships he can count on as he moves into what can be a lonely position... but I haven't thought about myself until today... and I felt lonely.  I know God will provide... I know we are doing what He has called us to do and going where He has lead... and it will all be okay... it's just a moment that I'm having.

I'm looking forward to the "get away" with the kids and Mike, and know that when we get back next Friday, life will be moving at even a faster pace... and so for the week at camp, my "to do list" is as follows:
  • celebrate "A Mother's TREK" on Sunday
  • enjoy time with family
  • relax
  • laugh
  • spend quiet moments with hubby
  • cuddle children
  • relax... uh... just in case I forget...
  • spend time with God enjoying his creation
  • pray for peace when we get home
  • have fun!
So, if you've moved before,  what are some helpful tips that you used, or advice that you would give to do or NOT do?

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• Thursday, June 25, 2009 - The Hunger Site

Thanks to a friend of mine, I heard about a great site today... one I will visit every day, if for no other reason than to click to help feed people around the world.  It's that simple... you can even sign up to be reminded every day in your email to go and "click". 

It's FREE... no cost to you... but means everything to someone on the receiving end of your "click"... so check it out... and tell others!  (Oh, and the next time you're shopping for a special and unique gift... why not buy something from their online store (only $3.95 for shipping).  Each item bought buys food as well!)

The Hunger Site was founded to focus the power of the Internet on a specific humanitarian need: the eradication of world hunger. Since its launch in June 1999, the site has established itself as a leader in online activism, helping to feed the world's hungry and food insecure. On average, over 220,000 individuals from around the world visit the site each day to click the yellow "Click Here to Give - it's FREE" button. To date, more than 300 million visitors have given more than 500 million cups of staple food. The food funded by clicks at The Hunger Site is paid for by site sponsors and distributed to those in need by Mercy Corps and Feeding America (formerly America's Second Harvest). 100% of the site's sponsor advertising fees goes to our charitable partners. Funds are split between these organizations and go to the aid of hungry people in over 74 countries, including those in Africa, Asia, Eastern Europe, the Middle East, South America and North America.

Visit The Hunger Site and make your free click daily!

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• Thursday, June 25, 2009 - Day 25: His Repentance

MY THOUGHTS on Stormie OMartian's "The Power of a Praying Wife"
Chapter 25: HIS REPENTANCE
 
Unfortunately, the world has become a place where pride thrives.  People feel they are "owed" everything, and instant gratification seems as necessary as water, shelter & foodWith this "serve me" attitude, it's not surprising that pride is such a huge issue in the hearts of people, as blaming others has replaced a good ol' fashioned apology.
Everyone makes mistakes.  That's not the issue.  But there is an epidemic in the world today of people who can't admit they did something wrong.  -Stormie OMartian (p.173)
Whether your husband is a Christ follower or not, his repentance is vital to his walk with God and who he is as a man. 
According to God's way of doing things, there are three steps to changing our behavior.  First there is CONFESSION, which is ADMITTING what we did.  Next there is REPENTANCE, which is BEING SORRY about what we did.  Then there is ASKING FORGIVENESS, which is BEING CLEANSED AND RELEASED from what we did.  The inability or resistance to do any fo these three steps is rood in pride.  A man who can't humble himself to admit he's wrong before God and before man will have problems in his life that never go away.  -Stormie OMartian (p.174)
A man who either says he's sorry over and over and over again or never admits that he's wrong needs a repentant heart.  As a wife, you must fervently pray for your husband's heart.  While it's not okay for your husband to be prideful or view himself as blameless, you must not wave his sin in his face.  As I've shared before, IT'S NEVER OKAY TO WANT TO BE RIGHT MORE THAN WE WANT TO DO RIGHT.  Pray for your husband to seek true repentance... the kind that turns a man around to walk in a different direction (p.173).
True repentance means having so much remorse over what you've done that you don't do it again.  Only God can cause us to see our sin for what it is, and feel about it the same way He does.  - Stormie OMartian (p.174)
Read what I underlined again... ONLY GOD CAN CAUSE US TO SEE OUR SIN FOR WHAT IT IS.  What a relief that you no longer have that burden to bear huh?  I mean, you have been completely released from TELLING your husband what he's doing that is wrong!  (tee hee...)  You see, it won't make any difference.  It's miserable to live with a prideful man, but you must remember:  YOU CANNOT CHANGE YOUR HUSBAND'S HEART.  YOU CANNOT MAKE HIM SORRY.  YOU CANNOT CHANGE HIS FEELINGS.  ONLY GOD CAN... so pray for Him to do just that!

Dear Heavenly Father,  I pray that You would convict my husband of any pride that's in his heart.  Lord, make him see it as You do so he can deal with it and get it out of his life.  I don't want it to destroy him Lord, so please give him Your eyes to see any issues that he needs to deal with.  I pray for him to be a man to quickly apologize for his faults, and never repeat the same ones again.  Lord, help me to pray for him and not become angry or feel the need to be right.  Help me to not become prideful either, but encourage my husband through prayer.  May he find time each day to reflect on his actions, thoughts and words of the day, and repent if there is anything that needs to be forgiven.  Give him a heart of humility Lord so he will receive all You have for him.  In Jesus' name, Amen.

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It's not too late to join us for the month of June as we pray for our husbands!  You can check out more about it by clicking the following link: S.H.M.I.L.Y. for 30 days of prayer...  Please share a link to your blog post if you've made one on this chapter!


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