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• Thursday, May 11, 2006 - The Real Gift in Motherhood

So Mother's Day is fast approaching (right along with my due date... the day before), and the Lord's really placed something new in my heart for this year.  I never really think much of the day in itself... now, don't get me wrong... I'm certainly not against it.  A day to celebrate mothers is a wonderful thing.  There's nothing wrong with calling a mother to say "thanks", giving a card of appreciation, or honoring her with a token of affection.  Yes, a day to give something back to someone who has given so much... or... is there more to the day that we're missing? 

Missing?... What could be missing?  I mean, don't we deserve at least one day to make us feel special for all of the things we so unselfishly do every day throughout the year?  Shouldn't we be honored for all we set out to achieve for the betterment of our home?  Why shouldn't our efforts be recognized for holding fast to the convictions from the Lord Himself?

Sound a bit harsh?... I agree... but it's what the Lord made me see as I thought of Mother's Day this year for me.  My husband, as wonderful and thoughtful as he is, has never really done much for Mother's Day.  I'm not sure if my children even know when it is this year... When I've heard of what some mothers have received, there have been times when I've felt slighted and forgotten.  I know my family loves me... aren't they supposed to "rise up and call me blessed"?

Then it hit me as I contemplated another Mother's Day...
I am the one who should be celebrating the gifts I've already been given...
the ones I wake up to each morning...
the ones I discipline each day...
the ones I teach each moment...
the ones I kiss each night...
the ones I cherish and thank God for every single second...

I have already been given a gift... it's called "motherhood"...
It's not a badge of honor that I've earned, but a touch of the Master's Hand that has honored me.  I've done nothing to "deserve" this high calling, yet He still choose me...

And so this Mother's Day will be different in my home as I willingly serve my family in the honorable calling of motherhood... bringing glory to the One who bestowed such an awesome blessing on one so underserving.

Dear Heavenly Father,
Thank You for choosing me to be a mother.  I am humbled by the lives You have given me to mold and care for on earth.  I'm so sorry for the times that I in some way, thought I deserved to be acknowledged for all I do... especially when I think of all You did for me expecting nothing in return but my love and devotion to You.  Being a mother isn't always easy... and I don't always do it the way I should... I'm sorry for the times that I've disappointed You.  You know my heart though, Lord, and so You know how much these precious blessings mean to me... I just can't imagine my life without them.  Thank You for the man I created them with... and thank You for the many blessings that our love has brought to this world.  Thank You for making me a mother...
In Jesus' name,
Amen.

Happy Mother's Day ladies... may you celebrate the true gift of motherhood!
In Him,
Amy
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•Thursday, May 11, 2006 - Thanks Amy!

Posted by deedeeuk
For putting this weekend into perspective for us! It is so easy to get caught up with the hype and to think we 'deserve' this day. Thank you for bringing us back to earth (with a bump! ;-) )! I'm praying that the Mother's day gift you get this year would be another of you precious gifts arriving on that day! Hope all goes well with the birth, I'm praying for you! - Deedee
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•Thursday, May 11, 2006 - Hello

Posted by Nan
Amy, Carolyn finally found your blog for me through your comment on CJ's xanga. Mother's Day has never been a big occasion in my house either. Remember, Mother's Day has always been fishing opener in MN! I do try to remember all my mothers, including the one's who are special to me, as you and Tonya are. Love you and praying for you as B'day approaches. Nan
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•Thursday, May 11, 2006 - Untitled Comment

Posted by abidinglove
Hi Amy, I so enjoyed your post because the last year the Lord laid the same thing on my heart, that it matters not what is done for me, because He has done it all for me and I have the wonderful privilege of serving those I love every day, including Mothers Day! Be blessed today, In Him, Colleen
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•Thursday, May 11, 2006 - Untitled Comment

Posted by JavaMama
Wow! Like minded we are...........this is exactly what I got to thinking the other day when I was thinking about Mothers Day. It use to be a selfish day for me instead of a CELEBRATION of the gifts that I have been given!!! I truly intend to Celebrate Sunday with my family just enjoying their smiles and never still little bodies!!!! I am so excited! Forget the "gifts" that the media guilts us into buying it is my family that I want...........I love they way you express your thoughts, thanks for sharing them.

JOYfully in Him,
Kelli
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•Friday, May 12, 2006 - Beautifully Said!

Posted by dinomomm
Thank you so much for this beautiful post! What a wonderful reminder of the selfishness that comes with most man-made holidays, and of the priceless gifts that we mothers have already been given! All I can say is AMEN!
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•Friday, May 12, 2006 - Untitled Comment

Posted by sajolley
Thank you so much for this post, Amy.
Last year I dealt with such a blow of selfishness because my family did not acknowledge Mother's Day. I knew my feelings were wrong and cried out to God to help me deal with them. All I wanted was a day to be queen, and became so discontent when this didn't happen. Anyway, God had a great opportunity for refinement on my part and I am all the better for it. Thank God He is allowing me to see my family through His eyes and not my own.
I am so glad He has brought this issue to your heart to share.
Amanda
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•Friday, May 12, 2006 - Untitled Comment

Posted by KayinMaine
A beautiful thought. Thanks for sharing.
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•Friday, May 12, 2006 - thanks

Posted by Bek
sometimes we get caught up in everything and it is nice to sit and remember what and who made us mothers in the first place. i never really care about getting gifts, just being able to have a nice quiet day with dh and dd .... and an "i love you beautiful wife and mother" card is nice too :)
i hated more than anything when on my due date people would say "when are you due???" and i would have to answer "now." and it only got worse as i had to say "yesterday. two days ago. a week ago." i hope you go soon!!
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•Saturday, May 13, 2006 - Untitled Comment

Posted by anyachristine
Amy,
This was a very encouraging post. Thanks for sharing your heart. May you have a blessed Mother's Day.

Christy :)
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•Saturday, May 13, 2006 - I hear ya!

Posted by amada
Wow, you expressed in words the same thing that the Lord has been teaching me this Mother's Day! In Peru, it's the biggest holiday of the year, and although I have always done something for my mom and my kids have always said "Happy Mother's Day" faithfully every year, it has never been a real big deal. My husband isn't the big celebrator either, and so I had come to not expect much on this day. But this year, something is different, somehow it struck me that I have so much to appreciate. I LOVE my family. I love how God has planned it. I love my husband without whom, I wouldn't be the mother I am. I am SO thankful for my beautiful children. They are evidence of the love between my husband and I. They are evidence of God's faithfulness to me and his loving kindness. Anyway, your post was such a representation of what the Lord is doing in me! Maybe it's an Amy thing! :) heheh

Amy
Cajamarca, Peru
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•Saturday, May 13, 2006 - on the same wave length

Posted by quietcajun
This is exactly what the Lord has been impressing upon MY Heart too...

see my post yesterday!
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•Sunday, May 14, 2006 - Untitled Comment

Posted by HeartnSoul
Awesome. That was in effect my DD's Sunday School lesson today. Pastor H (I'm relating this from memory) was doing a skit on complaining or saying EW! to something we dislike, but in reality by doing that it takes away from praising God for the blessings we DO have already. Neat!

btw Happy Mother's day! I'm having a Mom's day contest on my blog, come check it out :)

Denise T
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•Monday, May 15, 2006 - Untitled Comment

Posted by Rebeca
Hi Amy,
Thanks for sharing this. My friend was just saying this the other day to me... maybe we Mothers should use the day to do something extra special for our family instead of expecting things to be done for us. This year I let go of my expectations and I think it's the first time I haven't been disappointed. And it's because MY attitude changed, not because of what my husband did or didn't do. I was truly able to enjoy and appreciate my family and be thankful for the simple expression of love from my husband (which consisted of a heartfelt note written on graph paper, three poppies picked from the yard, and scrambled eggs made with love!)
Bless you,
Rebeca
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