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• Tuesday, March 14, 2006 - Defining "A Mother's T.R.E.K."

So there have been a few questions about what "A Mother's T.R.E.K." is and how it started, so I thought I'd share the orginal link to "Introducing A Mother's T.R.E.K." posted on August 25th, 2005.

There were many responses to how we tried to go about the day (in honor of Missey)... some of us tried to do something "extra special" and out of the ordinary, while others let their children choose the day of fun.  Some have even said they would be making it a "habit" in their home.  Still others said they tried to do this kind of thing every day, so they just didn't understand the "point"...

I guess I just wanted to make "A Mother's T.R.E.K." clear, in that, it's original intention stemmed from reading things about other mother's heartaches.  One moment life was "normal" and the next, a turn of events sent their world into "survival" mode.  I know especially as a homeschooler, I can get caught up in this as well.  I try to get everything done on the "list", but when I child gets sick (or when I do for that matter) we have to adjust and make exceptions.  A Mother's T.R.E.K. was just another way of reminding us to take a moment to evaluate our lives, our homes, and more importantly... our call as moms.

It would be wonderful if I could "get it right" every day... but I don't.  Even with the best intentions, I fail (sometimes miserably) as a homeschool mom.  But God's grace is sufficient (But he said to me, "My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness." Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ's power may rest on me.  2 Corinthians 12:9 (NIV)), His mercies are new every day (This I recall to my mind, Therefore I have hope. Through the LORD’s mercies we are not consumed, Because His compassions fail not. They are new every morning; Great is Your faithfulness. “ The LORD is my portion,” says my soul, “ Therefore I hope in Him!” The LORD is good to those who wait for Him, To the soul who seeks Him.  Lamentations 3:21-25 (NKJV)), and with His strength I can do all things (I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me. (NKJV)).

As moms, we're all on a "trek" (a slow or arduous journey), but how we go about it is different.  I pray that A Mother's T.R.E.K. will help us to remember why we do what we do, and encourage us one more day to seek our Lord and thank Him for each blessing He sent to us to care for.
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•Tuesday, March 14, 2006 - Untitled Comment

Posted by preschoolmommy
I want to encourage you, if that's ok with you (ha!). I loved the idea of this and really did look forward to it. (ok, so it didn't work out real well for me either, but that's ok). I was very excited about it. I do think that as a SAH, homeschooling mom, I do tend to forget the purpose of motherhood and need to be reminded of it. And it was a day to totally concentrate on the children. I love that idea. I do have activities planned for most days and we do our schooling, but some days just need to be about the kids and we need to let them have fun and decide what they wanna do. I take for granted that I may not be here tomorrow. I want them to know me NOW and I want them to have special days that they can recall of the times we spent together.

Now, I will say, I did have things planned, too and none of it worked out. I had the phone ringing off the hook. I couldn't get much done (my FIL is still in the hospital). Then, I had big plans of a day outside with a picnic, and it turned out that the rain the night before (which I slept thru) brought in a cold front. so, we did open the back patio doors and eat at the table and still enjoy the outdoors, until my 5 yr old son said he was freezing and he had chill bumps all up and down his legs. But in the end, we climbed into my bed and read Junie B. books and just hugged and cuddled. We may do that everyday, but the realization that we won't do this forever, whether it's do to one of us not always being around or the kids just plain growing up, but I'm glad I had a day like this and hope to have many more.

So thanks for the reminder and the suggestion. We need to do this more often and I'm glad that it was there! THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU!
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•Tuesday, March 14, 2006 - I would like to add...

Posted by preschoolmommy
...after reading posts from yesterday, I noticed that alot of us had days plans and it just didn't work. I realized something. At least for myself. I had forgotten to dedicate this day to the Lord, a day of family and remembering what it was that we were doing. I think if I would have remembered to do that first, my day wouldn't have been shot to timbuktu! Satan allowed the distractions of the day to get to me and to take over. I forgot that the reason I decided to homeschool and stay at home with my kids was because God called me to. When I start to remember that God is my reason for EVERYTHING, than Satan can't creep in. Yes, he was aware that this was supposed to be a day for family to reunite and he took full advantage of that. When will I ever learn??
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•Tuesday, March 14, 2006 - Right on sista!!!

Posted by DandelionSeeds
AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAMMMMMMMMMMEEEEEEEEEEEEEENNNNNNNNNNN!

Thanks for sharing!
Amy
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•Tuesday, March 14, 2006 - Hello

Posted by OurLittleSchoolRoom
Hi Amy

Thanks for the advice. I need to breathe more often. :) And thanks for visiting my site.

It is nice to know I am not alone and that other second-graders struggle with reading too.

Blessings,
Karen
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•Wednesday, March 15, 2006 - Thanks

Posted by Rebeca
Hi Amy,
Thanks for all the encouragement! I had an encouraging thing happen with my boy yesterday and just posted about it.
the Lord bless you today as you love your family!
Rebeca
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•Wednesday, March 15, 2006 - Thanks for the TREK idea!

Posted by deedeeuk
Amy - I'm sorry your TREK didn't go as planned. I guess it is important to be reminded now and then that it should be God ordering our days and not us! I'm glad I listened to Him and decided to leave it till today! Part of me wanted to force it to happen on Monday, but the day looked too crazy!!! In the end Monday would have been a NIGHTMARE!! Today went quite well! Have a look on my blog to read all about it! Please be encouraged that this was a GREAT idea and an important reminder to all of us to make time for what is REALLY important while we can!! It also made all of us who felt so devastated by the news of Missy feel we could do something that would be positive in memory of her. That really helped alot! Even if your day didn't go to plan, know that you have been a blessing to others!! Smile!
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•Thursday, March 16, 2006 - Untitled Comment

Posted by Titus2woman
Thanks for checking in on me, Amy, and I am sooo blessed by your Mother's T.R.E.K. ideas! It helped me to better think outside of MYSELF and all that has been going on, as such things really are just distractions from the MAIN thing. (((((HUGS))))) sandi
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