DUCT TAPE DAD
Dec. 8, 2005
I guess I'll Blog

I had thought about blogging for a while.  It seems like a pretty good outlet when you are an outspoken introvert. 

I have to be honest though.  As much as I do love duct tape, my blog handle, Duct Tape Dad, may give the impression that I am a little more handy around the house than I actually am.  For any of you have used duct tape on a regular basis, you know how scary this is. 

My wife does not know this but there is at least one time that I just had to repeatedly assure myself that I had not cut through a part of the house that was critical to holding it up. 

Also, just about every time I have ever done anything electrical I have gone to bed praying that the house would not catch on fire.  They say there is satisfacation in a job well done.  There is immense satisfaction in waking to another day knowing that your job once again has not resulted in a fatal fire. 

They also say you can learn things by reading instruction books.  However, I say an electrical arc that lights up the next room and all the way down the hallway is a much more memorable way to learn.  That is how I learned that dishwashers were hardwired into the house and not plugged in to a hidden outlet. 

Well with that confession out of the way, I think I am ready to blog. 

Post A Comment! Send to a Friend!

Comments

Dec. 8, 2005 - The apple ...

Posted by Duct Tape Dad's Dad


... doesn't fall far from the tree.

Have you considered ways to flood the house instead of burning it down? Oh wait ... you did that when you were three.

DTD^2


Permanent Link


Dec. 8, 2005 - Untitled Comment

Posted by DTS


I love what you've done to the yard!

I'll look forward to reading drafts of "The Panic Driven Prayer Life" on this blog and if you ever want to take on contemplative prayer instead, consider weeding. Mom will probably still give you a quarter for every brown paper bag full of weeds, pressed down, shaken together and running over with seeds.

DTS


Permanent Link


Dec. 9, 2005 - Ummmmm...okay....

Posted by asformeandmyhouse


So which house IS it that ~may~ or ~may not~ have had structurally important portions sliced and diced???

Love,
your adoring wife


Permanent Link


Dec. 9, 2005 - Welcome!

Posted by ByHisGraceInColorado


I think you might be on to something here.......I really like the duct-tape theme. Hmmmm. Did you know you can not only fix things with it, but you can make things out of it? Some homeschooled kids we know made their dad a neat tie for his birthday, yes, out of duct-tape. AND my son made a wallet. I think this could work into a new source of income for you! I am sure my son won't mind if you made wallets. But I am just not so sure how the remodeling and home repair by duct-tape will go over. Just as I am the queen of the hot glue gun around here (since hubby takes all the power tools to work, the rascal) and my "fixes" aren't the prettiest. Martha Stewart would have me for lunch......so to speak.

LOL. I love your sweet wife and am so glad to have been able to check out your blog. Don't you dare stop writing now!

Nancy


Permanent Link


Dec. 9, 2005 - Untitled Comment

Posted by JenIG


this comment is actually for your wife. i could not find a link to post a comment on her page, so i'm using yours. she gets this point.


Permanent Link


Dec. 9, 2005 - Untitled Comment

Posted by redmom


LOVE the term "outspoken introvert". That fits me to a "T"! I also love having more men around here! Welcome!


Permanent Link


Dec. 10, 2005 - Mandatory Blogging....

Posted by ByHisGraceInColorado


You have been tagged......http://homeschoolblogger.com/ByHisGraceInColorado/54296/

it is ok, you are in good company with a whole bunch of other dads.

Nancy


Permanent Link


Dec. 11, 2005 - I BEG YOU!

Posted by Amber


Please lower the numbers of comments in the contest, PLEASE, PLEASE, PPPPLLLLEEEEEEEEEEEEEAAAAAAAAAAASSSEEEEE!!!!!!!

God Bless,
Amber


Permanent Link


Dec. 11, 2005 - Ahh duct tape

Posted by Jammie


My son just made a "Kon-Tiki" look alike model and he had to waterproof it....with duct tape of course. But now we're outta duct tape so can you please send some over, duct tape man? :)
~Jen aka Jammie


Permanent Link


Dec. 12, 2005 - Untitled Comment

Posted by kentuckyjourney


Well, at least your mechanical/constructive endeavors bring you closer to the Lord. The saying around my house is, "If you can't fix it, duck it!"


Permanent Link


Mar. 2, 2006 - Sex Offender Legislation “Wish List”

Posted by Anonymous


This is what we need now, enough coddling of these offenders. We need to protect our oved ones and stop giving offenders all the rights, Sex Offender Legislation “Wish List”
1- GPS and lifetime supervision/treatment Law The failure of today's solutions regarding sexual offenders is because we are stuck in the strategy of “public notification” rather than “controlling offenders”. The current model puts the burden on parents rather than offenders, and makes the wrong people work to prevent abuse. Remotely (GPS) knowing where an offender is at all times throughout his lifetime can help to prevent that offender from creating new cases of sexual abuse.
2- Include all known offenders in the management plan-for life. It is wrong to include just those under supervision since the Meagan’s Law was written. People do not ever age out of this behavior so why an old is charge less important than a new charge. Sexual offences are the most under reported crimes (according to the FBI). The fact that a molester has not been arrested recently does not necessarily means he has not offended. In my opinion all offenders should be included in any plan, regardless of when their offense occurred. I believe some states have done this already.
3- Put all offenders , levels I, II or III on the website . I believe Florida does this. The leveling tool is very poor and pedophiles often end up with only a level I because they did not use force, and they superficially complied with treatment. The way the leveling system works pedophilic “groomers” who do not use force (and are the most busy of all offenders with hundreds of victims) are often not level III’s and therefore are able to have their offense relatively unknown. In New York for example offenders can lawyer up and reduce the “level” they get at their hearing. Molesters can assert they are “non violent”, “sober”, ect, and get the “points” reduced or get the judge to “override” the scale. Currently the public notification system is failing. All offenders of all levels should be on the website.
4- “Victim Shield Law”. As you know one of the few protections we offer rape victims is “Rape shield laws”, in order to at least try and prevent a rape victim’s sexual history from being put on trial rather than the rapist. In child sexual abuse cases there are no “Rape shield laws” to prevent the victim, or the victim’s family (often the mother) from being made the center of negative attention. In the past defense lawyers for rapists would portray rape victims as promiscuous, today child molester’s lawyers portray victims and victim’s mothers as manipulative, litigious, unreliable, angry, mentally ill, sociopathic, medicated, or undedicated. Because we as a society love to blame women, especially mothers, molesters have been able to harness the misogyny in our culture in order to escape responsibility for their offences. Like the old rape cases that would revolve around the victims sexual past, today molester cases revolve around a child or a mother’s real or fictional problems instead of the focus of attention being the sexual abuse committed by the offender. I do not know if there can ever be a “victim shield law” to prevent the victim/victim’s mother being put on trial rather than the molester, but I know it would help victims avoid being re-traumatized in the system and help society hold sexual offenders accountable. One of the things to always remember with offenders is they are control seekers, and will take any opportunity to attack rather than just defend. They feel entitled to their behavior and see being held accountable as an injustice they are being forced to suffer, and they have zero guilt in harming any number of people (even their children) in order to escape the consequences they deserve.
5- Plea deals down to “Endangering the welfare of a minor”. Despite the underlying behavior being the sexual abuse of children offenders are often given convictions that hide the nature of their behavior. When this happens offenders can get employment that gives them access to children, offenders are not on the State Sex Offender Registry. The other consequence to their being given non-sexual charges is that it cuts their supervision time in half. Misdemeanor sex offences carry 6 years probation supervision but “Endangering the welfare of a minor” carries only three. I feel the law should be changed so offenders cannot be given non-sexual abuse charges.
6- Make “Endangering the welfare of a minor” registerable , if the judge feels it was a sexually motivated crime. The registry is to narrow and limited as to what crimes can be registered. Laws be changed so “endangering the welfare of a minor” is registerable when the behavior or motivation was sexual.
7- “Standardized” conditions for those on sex offender probation. Right now offenders with good lawyers can get specific (or all) sex offender conditions removed from their sexual offender conditions of probation. This means that sexual offenders are on probation but are allowed to drink alcohol, work with children, have computers, go to bars, and do other things that will create a higher risk for the community. I feel there should be a “Statewide Sex Offender Conditions of Probation” that conditions cannot be removed from (but conditions can be added to suite the offenders issues).
8- Sexual Offender Contraband law- Strangely it is legal for sexual offenders off probation to own all kinds of things such as handcuffs, police lights, spy cameras, and software to make their internet behavior more anonymous.
9- Sex Offender use of technology law- When bank robbers use technology such as wearing body armor the penalties are increased, why are sex offender allowed to use any technology without added consequences. Offenders choose the internet because it allows greater access to children and greater anonymity. They should be punished for use of technology to harm a child. (technology such as Computers, digital cameras, webcams, ect)
10- “Secrecy Bind Law” The offender getting his victim to not report the crime he committed should be a separate crime that he suffers added consequences for. The pain that a victim suffers because the offender threatened, tricked, or manipulated the victim into silence should be seen as a separate and deserving of added consequences.
11- “Parental Alienation Syndrome” is a pseudo syndrome that is being used to get offenders off the hook by saying (incorrectly) that sexual abuse allegations come from a manipulative ex- playing head games with a child rather than because the child was actually molested. This “Parental Alienation Syndrome” is not a legitimate disorder, has not been subjected to peer review, has been ignored for 20 years by the APA, AMA, NASW, ECT because it is just a sophisticated way to say your wife is crazy and turned everyone against you. It is being pushed by hired guns such as Doctors, PhD’s, and lawyers to get their child molesting clients out of trouble. It is a favorite of the “Fathers Rights” groups who see men as victims of the Family Court system. By the way, these “Fathers rights” groups, “wrongly accused” groups, and “victims of allegations” groups are very organized and spend a good deal of time and energy networking and paying professionals. These angry, entitled molesters are organized and work hard, and I feel we need to work just as hard against them. My point is I feel we need some legislation to block this fake disorder from being used in court.



Permanent Link