Notes, Quotes and Flow Charts, Oh My!  2006

One of the struggles I face in my current teaching ministry is the conflict that arises between the ideal role parents should play in the life-long education of their kids and the reality of overly independent students that sit in my classroom.  Add to that, the number of fellow faculty who see it as their "ministry" to step in and "set these kids straight" in their theology, philosophy and ministry ambition/goals.

While it may be true that many of these students have been woefully prepared by their parents to think biblically and have even less theological training from their father's knee, it is also true that God desires father's to be the faithful instructors of thier children (Deut 6 and 11).  I am becoming more and more convinced that as we drive our students to the Word for correction, we must also encourage them to honor the fifth commandment (after all, the last time I checked the fifth commandment isn't merely a recommendation for children 12 and younger).  As we equip them with knowledge, understanding, and wisdom, we must also turn their hearts toward their fathers.

I remember coming home from my first year in Bible college and challenging my father on "his/our" escatology.  While it may, or may not have been appropriate to discuss the topic, I know that my spirit was not one of humilty or submission to his wisdom, knowledge and understanding.  When the approach is wrong, the discussion is almost always wrong too.  "Knowledge puffs up, but love cast out all fear." 

I believe that this coming year is going to be an important one as I continue to flesh out and apply my personal, family-centered committments to the classroom ministry God has granted, and I pray that God will give me opportunities to bring children and fathers closer together.

From Proverbs 6

My son, keep your father’s command,
      And do not forsake the law of your mother. 
Bind them continually upon your heart;
      Tie them around your neck. 
When you roam, they will lead you;
      When you sleep, they will keep you;
      And when you awake, they will speak with you. 
For the commandment is a lamp,
      And the law a light;
      Reproofs of instruction are the way of life