Some days are just easier than others.  Unfortunately, today was not one of them.  We got school done, or at least most of it.  We made it to all of our activities.  The basement fort from two days ago is finally cleaned up.  Dishes are done and kids are in bed.  By all accounts it should be considered a successful day.  But. . .that doesn’t mean it flowed smoothly today.  In fact, it seemed to have a lot of rough patches and unexpected curves in it. 

It started early this morning.  One of my wonderful children, who will remain nameless, has days where arguing seems to be a favorite pastime.  It really makes no difference what it is about – just that their voice is the last one heard.  Does anyone else have a child like that?  I’m sure people do.  At these times, though, I simply don’t see it.  So on days like this it feels as if I’m the only one who has to deal with it.  Yet, I know I am not.

When this child is in an argumentative mood, the only thing I can do is sit back and wait it out.  Strong-willed pretty much defines this child.  And since I am a marked conflict avoider, this makes for a stressful day for me.  Through a lot of prayer, grace, and clear cut boundaries and consequences, we both make it through the day.

Thankfully, in the evening, we still have book time on the couch, with a bit of laughter.  Was it a successful day?  Yes – just a hard won type of day.  The ending is the best.  I get to pray with my little arguer, and give and receive butterfly kisses in bed with the sweetest smile and brightest eyes ever gazing up at me.  That, I will always hold dear.