ElCloud Homeschool: Busy Minds, Busy Hands, Busy Feet - Times of feasting, and times of fasting

Jul. 12, 2006

Times of feasting, and times of fasting

Posted in Spiritual Life

We're in a financial crunch right now.  We've had a loss of some extra income and now we're having to reduce our spending in many ways and look for more ways to save money.  We're also trying to think creatively of ways to earn more money. 

Part of the problem lies in the fact that we now have two homes.  God provided the extra work that enabled us to purchase Steve's family homestead last year.  And now we are trying to pay for two homes on less income.  We are confident that God provided for the purchase of the farmhouse last year and we are confident He's going to work this situation out, too.  He may provide work for us out by the farmhouse so we can move, or He may guide us in how to continue to reduce our spending, or He may provide another means of earning extra income while still owning two homes.  We're waiting for His direction and provision.

But in the meantime, we've had to tell our children "No" to many things, such as ordering pizza.  They're getting tired of hearing it.  They've asked us if we're poor now. We said no, but they have decided we are.  They've asked us why we have to be poor now.  They've said they don't like being poor.

The other day I reminded them that we're right in the center of God's will.  That He has led us into this time.  That sometimes He uses times of fasting to grow us.  When we're feasting we get lazy.  We become lazy about being wise stewards.  We become lazy about saving money.  We become lazy about working with what we already have, thinking we need something better instead.  We forget to be thankful.  We become lazy about our faith, and lazy in our prayers.

When the fasting begins, we are stretching our muscles.  We learn again how to wait patiently.  We learn again how to deny ourselves.  We learn how to trust God to provide our needs.  We learn to pray diligently.  We learn to be creative as we use what we already have in new ways, and as we think of new ways to earn money.  We learn what's really important.  We learn the difference between Needs and Wants.   We learn to be thankful.

In these times, we learn to depend on God, and we have the privilege of seeing God work in our lives.  We get to see Him answer prayers as He provides for our needs.  And we learn what is important to Him as we see which prayers are answered No, and which are answered Yes. 

That had to be a God moment.  When I told that to my daughters, it ministered to my heart so much.  It just had to be a God moment.  He put those words into my heart, and into my mouth.  He used me to teach my daughters something, and He encouraged me at the same time. 

As I was thinking about that this morning, God reminded me that they are watching me.  If I act deprived and resentful and stressed and fearful, they are going to pick up on that negative attitude and mirror it back to me.  If I am thankful, patient, prayerful, creative, resourceful, and faithful to praise God, they will learn a very important life lesson.  The way that I react to this situation will affect them as they go into their adult lives.

Oh, Lord, help me to trust You during this time.  Help me to focus on the truly important issues.  Help me to keep a positive and resourceful attitude.  Remind me that You're stretching me and growing my faith muscles, please. Help me to lead my children through this time in a way that would be pleasing to you.  Give me creativity, wisdom,  and resourcefulness, Lord.  Give me patience, peace, and faith, Lord.  Thank You for providing for our needs, Lord, and guide us during this time of change and transition.  Amen.

I need to spend some time seeking out Bible verses for us to focus on during this time.  When I find some, I'll add them to my blog.  Does anyone have a favorite verse for these times of fasting to share with me?

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Posted by qfbrenda
Very good thoughts, April. I'm glad God brought them to mind at the right time. :)
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Posted by ejoyce,ink
I was thinking along similar lines the other day (we are in similar circumstances!) You can read the scriptures and bible stories that blessed me at this link.
http://www.homeschoolblogger.com/ejoyce,ink/163783/
God bless you.
Eleanor
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Posted by Happyhome
What beautiful words of wisdom you shared with your daughters. Thank you for sharing them with us. They were an encouragement.

I was thinking just this morning of a difficult time I went through several years ago and all I learned as a result. If given the option, I can say now that I would not erase that period in my life because it was such a learning/growing time. Growth can be painful (usually is), but oh so rewarding.

Blessings,

Angela
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