Tender heart today...
One of my close friends lost her mother last night. In the past year and a half, she has lost her husband and beloved aunt.
My friend told me that the most important lesson she learned from losing her husband was to enjoy right now, rather than planning to enjoy life later on. She reminded me that we never know how long we'll have those we love -- and that we need to grab those opportunities to spend time with our spouses and kids -- even when it is inconvenient.
I teased her about that a few months after she told me that. I'd spent an entire day sitting in the truck at various parts stores and tractor repair shops, waiting on my husband to make the necessary purchases and repairs so we could have the farm equipment up and running. Thankfully, I took several books along to read while waiting.
My friend and I laughed at the irony of it all -- trying to seize the moment of being with my husband -- yet fighting frustration at all I should be getting done at home! (I'm sure the laundry multiplied like bunnies while I was away.)
Interestingly enough, my Word friend shared some insights today that once again point back to the wisdom in enjoying and appreciating RIGHT NOW. So... I praise the LORD for the blessings of today: healthy family, paid bills, good food, nice home, mostly running vehicles, strong friends, and much, much more.
God is good...
and I WILL notice His blessings and be grateful for them!
Selah. |