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Apr. 19, 2006

Why not here in the UK?

I sit here today while it's pouring rain outside, and I have to confess to being in a rather contemplative mood. Days like this in England tend to turn everything grey anyway. Maybe the whole atmostphere is more conducive to meaningful cogitation, or maybe not. I really don't know. Over the past few days my thoughts have been centring on Christian home education in the United Kingdom--where is it going? what kind of testimony are we displaying? what do we hope to accomplish for our children and for our God?

 

I look at the USA that is probably 15-20 years ahead of us in the whole homeschooling exercise, and I now see that home educated children are, on average, years ahead of their peers. I see that the major universities are now aggressively recruiting home educated children because of their academic abilities, their character, and their habits of self-discipline overall. I see a generation of young leaders that are beginning to influence their respective fields and their world with a living testimony to the power of the message of the gospel of Christ. I see a Christian homeschool community that is rapidly growing because people are seeing the "proof in the pudding" when parents take responsibility for their childrens' education, life-purpose, and eternal destiny. Undoubtedly there are things still to be improved, and I know that everything isn't roses and daffodils, but overall the system seems to be working.  

 

Here in the UK there aren't so many Christian home educators. There aren't big networks and supportive homeschool communities on every corner. We seem to be fragmented, and many feel isolated and often discouraged. Many people that are home educating are doing it for what I call "negative" reasons rather than "positive" reasons. The biggest reason that people in England home educate is because their child has been bullied at school in some way. There are other similar reasons that indicate that parents haven't necessarily wanted to homeschool their child; they just don't want them in school any longer. This means there is no real sense of eternal value in their motivation.

 

I have to wonder, is it time for Christian home educators in the UK to start to give a positive lead? Is it time for us to get serious about the future of our children and how they can affect their family, their church, their neighbourhood, their world? Have we caught the vision that we can be preparing them to be lights of God's truth in this world that is increasingly looking more and more like the "techno-consumed dark ages"? Are we really considering our role as home educating parents as a call from God not only for our children but also for all those they will influence in their lifetime?

 

The positive impact of Christian home education is being seen in other places, so now I have to ask the question: Why not here in the UK? Why not among the Christian home educating community? Why not us? Why not now? 

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Apr. 19, 2006 - Untitled Comment

Posted by Debismumto4
Thanks Bruce for this great entry. I strongly believe God called my family to Home education and I can say that this calling is what has kept us going through the tough times. Without that total commitment to something God has purposed can you really see anything like the challenge of home education through.
God is moving and is calling people to stand up for him in these dark times. We need to make an impression for the good to all those out there living Godless, purposeless lives. They need to see Jesus through us.
Deb
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Apr. 19, 2006 - I couldn't agree more!!!

Posted by deedeeuk
Bruce - Thanks for saying this! It is soooo frustrating. The worst opposition we have encountered to Home education has been from those within our church!!!! Christians in general in the UK seem to be really freaked out by the very idea of Home education. I keep hearing the whole 'Having to be salt and light....' aurgument over and over again! They think we are just hiding from the world and burying our heads in the sand. As my boys are only 6 and 4 it is going to be awhile to see how this 'Home education experiment' as they call it , pays off!
Right now all they can see is that my sons don't just sit down, and follow everybody else in junior church. They are vocal, and indepentant thinkers which is not a popular thing in a kids group. They just see that they aren't as well 'trained' to group activities!!! Obviously we see all these things as good traits, but everybody just sees that our kids are different and since different is not good in the UK we get alot of flack!
We do feel that God has us HE in a very strategic place though. Our senior pastor is the head of the AOG children's department for the whole UK. If he can be won over to the benifits of and reasons for HE, he could potentially influence thousands of christian families in the UK. We feel that we are being watched and measured to see how this whole idea works out.
We really do need to all get together and work together to show reasons for Christians to HE. I believe that the Christian HE's in UK are a minority within a minority. How can we all get together more and find out about each other?
Thanks for flagging this up!! - Deedee
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Apr. 19, 2006 - Great Blog!

Posted by mamasmurf
Thanks for visiting my little home in Blogsville and for today's post in your Blog.
Our son did go to school for a few years (basically because of my health at the time) but was terribly unhappy there. As soon as things started going from bad to worse at his school (and my health was more manageable), we did what we always felt was right and started to HE. This has not gone down well with our extended families or with some of the congregation at our church. However, we have had a great deal of help from an organisation called Home Service (a Christian HE organisation based in Greater Manchester but with members all over the country). We meet for prayer, for HE events and generally as friends united by faith and HE! Have you ever heard of them?

Chrissy
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Apr. 19, 2006 - Untitled Comment

Posted by jayfromcleveland
Right-O, old chap! I'm always lecturing Gena at her blog that people should homeschool for the right reasons, not because the schools are so bad. It's mildly amusing to read your rosey portrayal of US homeschooling. We see ourselves are beleaguered non-conformists who are only now gaining a small measure of respect. But you guys are in the place of people like Harvey and Laurie Bluedorn, who homeschooled in the late 70s. Their story would curl your hair. You might find it somewhere at their site -- triviumpursuit.com.

If I had any tips for UK hs'ers, it would be "strengthen the things that remain." Hold onto what rights you have and be willing to dig in for a fight if the authorities start leaning on you. Also, you should identify a barrister amongst your ranks and get something started like HSLDA -- the Homeschool Legal Defense Association. In fact, you should contact them, it might be possible to organise a UK chapter.

But unlike US hs'ers of the 70s and 80s, you guys have the benefit of all our Ameri-centric curriculum available. If someone hasnt done so already, a UK curriculum distributorship might be a great homebiz for some enterprising family.

BTW, thanks for the Honorary Brit Blogger status. In commemoration, I whipped up a logo that we all can use to indicate trans-Atlantic HSB friendship. Check out my blog. Also, I'm behind in my email and will respond to yours soon. Thanks for the Cyril cite, that's exactly the stuff I'm looking for! I might use that in my book! You da man! Thanks again, j
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Apr. 20, 2006 - Untitled Comment

Posted by Harrier
How right you are! As my wife (debismumto4) has already put, we were called to home schooling by God.

God blesses our whole family through home schooling and I know that people comment on how well behaved and mannered our children are. This is because we give them God's love and God's purpose in there lives. If our kids were at school we would be dealing with bad behaviour, bad language and our kids would certainly not be as advanced as they are now.

As far for support, although at first reluctant, our family provide a lot of this. Also we are fortunate that we have quite a few Christian HE families nearby, that means that we can support one another.

Opposition wise, oh boy when we started the biggest opposition was from the church we were at then! One surprising proponent at the time was the headmaster of the school we took out daughter out of!

But now we are in a church where there are three HE families! We support one another enormously.

Although as Deedee comments we are a “Minority within a Minority”, we can still be encouraged by one another. This blog means that even though we are spread thinly throughout the UK, we can still meet, bless and encourage one another. But also we have our American HE brothers and sisters here as well. There is a wealth of experience that we can tap into there. Although we are separated by distance, we are united by purpose. First and foremost, by our love of God and secondly by home schooling.

I’m going to put Jay’s logo (see previous comment) on my blog when I get chance. It shows that we are not alone in the UK. If you want the logo and don’t know how to get it, post a message on my blog and I’ll see if I can help.
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Apr. 20, 2006 - Untitled Comment

Posted by OreoSouza
What an amazing post. It gave me whiplash. Looking at your country now as it is, then whipping around to look at our country 20 years ago when American homeschooling families were feeling the same way British homeschooling families feel today. Then whipping my head back around to U.S. homeschooling today and seeing it from your perspective, then whip my head in another direction to look at England and homeschooling in another 10 years.

Wow! What an amazing perspective. Thank you!
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Apr. 23, 2006 - Untitled Comment

Posted by BattlementsofRubies
Amen! Great post. I feel that, true to the pioneering spirit of their forebears, America has gone ahead of us and made it happen, providing a well tramelled path for us, their more cautious cousins. God bless America, and the UK and our efforts to raise our children for Him. It is a Holy calling.
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Apr. 27, 2006 - Untitled Comment

Posted by jayfromcleveland
Bruce my dear fellow, its about time to freshen up the blog, don't you think? -j
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Oct. 12, 2006 - Homeschooling Materials

Posted by janefromAmerica
I embraced your post above. Could you possibly put me in touch with American homeschoolers in London? I was a Reading Specialist in the states for 18 years and helped out the homeschoolers from my evangelical church in Norfolk, VA. I am now a missionary called to London and living in Fulham, London. I have a library of children's books and creative whole language ideas written in American english. I would like to disperse them to those who could effectively use them in their homeschooling, and also offer my services where needed. And yes, it is a holy calling.
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