Well, I didn't realize my post would receive any responses! I thought gracebydesign had and interesting comment. She said,

"However, I am wondering if alot of our intolerance to girly things is because they all seem so WEAK. They aren't all though, and apart from those that are purely ridiculous (here I refer to the likes of gossip mags) I know I am challenged to let down my super strong capable guard and explore being a (vulnerable) girl again. It is indeed an interesting thought."

Her comments really convicted me. I think that I do have an intolerance to girly things for this very reason. I am sure my husband will agree that I cannot stand weakness in people. I view strength and resolve as important character traits. I think of people who are weak as incapable and needy. But my problem is this, I try so hard not be seen as weak that I am also not meek. Which is something that I should strive to be. This is the definition of meek-showing patience and humility; gentle

I then did a search for meek in the bible and found the following verses.

Psa 37:11 But the meek shall inherit the land and delight themselves in abundant peace.

Isa 29:19 The meek shall obtain fresh joy in the LORD, and the poor among mankind shall exult in the Holy One of Israel.

Mat 5:5 "Blessed are the meek, for they shall inherit the earth.

Obviously being meek is a good thing. Jesus was meek. Since I want to be more like him, patience, humility, and gentleness are things I need to work on.

That being said, does being meek require the wearing of dresses? I am still not sure, my first inclination is to say no- that is just legalism. But in this culture of androgyny should I try and make a stand for biblical femininity but making some changes in my appearance? Does this mean I need to act and dress like someone I am not-no. But maybe I do need to pray for a change of heart on this issue. If I wear pants as a statement of my "girl power" then my heart is in the wrong place. It I wear pants because I just happen to find them comfortable, and my attitude and behavior is one that is honoring to God and my husband then I can wear them everyday for the rest of my life without regrets.

Well enough said.... I'm off to sleep. I will try and actually post something about what is going on with the family next time so my husband can get an update!