Most of us wouldn't get through the day without multitasking. However, this can be a mixed blessing of sorts. I multitask on most days. To me, this often means knowing the order in which I need to get chores done. If I have laundry to do and a kitchen to clean, it only makes sense to start the load of laundry BEFORE I tackle cleaning the kitchen. By the time I'm done cleaning the kitchen, the washer is done and ready for the next load of laundry to go in!

However, sometimes we are trying to do too many things at one time. The invention of the cell phone has had a HUGE impact on our lives. Now, we are reachable anywhere at anytime. I have to say that I'm not sure this is a good thing! Our ability to focus on the task at hand is now compromised by the fact that we are often slaves to our phones. Why do we feel that we NEED to be reachable at all times of the day? I much prefer taking my time shopping for groceries without the distraction of talking on the cell phone. I make wiser choices financially and nutritionally!

In a recent issue of Family Circle, there was an article on multitasking and here are some of the rules they suggest for those of us who multitask (I'm paraphrasing here!).

1. Connect with others. Take the time to create a positive environment around you.

2. Ban the "shoulds." You need to decide what HAS to be done vs. what you THINK has to be done.

3. Be realistic. You cannot do it all at one time and are not a failure for you inability to do so.

4. Plan ahead. I think that speaks for itself .... plan grocery lists, lay out clothes the night before, etc.

5. Learn to focus. Set timers for getting a task done and work ONLY on that task.

6. Recognize your options. You can turn off your cell phone or computer. Focus on talking to others ONLY instead of completing another chore at the same time.

7. Think before you act. Just because you CAN add another task to your "to-do" list doesn't mean you HAVE to. Be sure not to spread yourself too thin.

8. Delegate! If your kids or husband can help you with a task, then let them!

9. Decide on what's really important. What is more valuable? Taking time for your children or family .... or .... cleaning the bathroom? Often, the task can wait until another time.

I often fail with #9 and I need to remember that I have my kids for the briefest amount of time and I need to make the most of it. Multitasking allows me to get more done each day, but I need to remember what is really important in my life - quality time spent with my family.