I really intended to write my own column this week instead of just linking to my friend Chautona again.  Really.  

Alas my regularly scheduled column will have to wait.  Chautona's 56 Days is just too good to miss!  Her challenge consists of 8 weeks of daily tasks for taming the chaos of domestic disharmony--starting with mom.  (Ouch!)  I've read all 8 weeks and they are phenomenal. 

I'll be doing it as well.  I've gotten grouchy lately and it isn't pretty or effective.  I need a kick-start to get my priorities focused and my attitude joyous--who will join me?

We start on Monday and focus on each day's tasks--one day at a time.  Visit her blog each week to get your new assignments. It is very simple--but it isn't easy!  

Here's your first day's assignment (click here to see the rest of next week):

For the next eight weeks, you’ll need a small notebook. You want something you can fit in your purse and take everywhere. You’ll also need a pen that is with it at all times. You don’t want anything to be an excuse not to do your assignments. 

Day 1. (Monday) Today is the first day of the rest of your life. Your goal is to observe your children all day. If you’d normally correct behavior, by all means, do it now but don’t start worrying about new problems to fix. Just identify them. Write it down.

Something like:
John- Disrespectful expressions when he doesn’t like my answer/direction.

Sally- Whines for what she wants. Other kids seem to give in to quiet her.

Mary-Tantrums around nap times. Need to de-stimulate her earlier.
 
Just keep the list running all day long. Write down your areas too.

Things like:.

 When I’m tired, I tune them out.

I ignore behavior when I don’t want to deal with rebellion.

I dread naptime.
 
Whatever needs changing, write it down. Even things as simple as, "We need to bake cookies more often." Or "The children need more frequent baths."

Take the 56 Day Challenge with me! 

Domestic Chaos Tamer and Homeschool Mom of Five, Dell writes about home, heart and hearth.