What do you do when someone you love dearly(not my daughter - but another young person very dear to me) is going to do something to ruin their life and you are powerless to stop them?  No one even wants to hear the truth.  It is a shame when parents let their kids manipulate them to a point that the parents are blind to what's going on in their kids life.  It's not just secular parents who are like that.  Christian parents are the worst, in my opinion.  (And I AM a christian parent, also.)  I guess the parents don't want to believe their kid would lie to them, do things behind their back, or be anything but good kids.  Boy are they fooled.  That just shows that the devil has his clutches on christian parents too.  He has put blinders on them so he can take their "good little sons and daughters" and they won't know what hit them.  Christian parents out there - YOU NEED TO WAKE UP!!!  You are loosing your children and you won't even realize it until it is tooooo late.  If you love your children - please wake up.  I will be praying for you that God will take those blinders off your eyes and let you wake up and see what's really going on.  If not, then you will loose your children for an eternity.