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• Apr. 9, 2007 - My children ARE my ministry

Someone posted this article on a message board I'm part of and it is so wonderful, I'm going to share it here.

Women in Ministry


Now that I've offended most of you feel free to comment. 

It's so sad that most churches don't see our family and our children as  an 'important enough'  ministry.  If we say 'my family is my ministry' we are placated and patronized with 'of course, dear!!' and then told to put the children in childcare/nursery/with a sitter, so we can get on with 'real' ministering. 

My family is important enough.  My family is my first and foremost ministry that the Lord has given me.  Nothing else comes ahead of it.   God, family, then other things if the Lord allows for it.  The church does not equal God, and doing things for the church is not the same as doing them for God.  Put your kids ahead of 'ministry'.  Make them and your husband your ministry.  Don't try to divide your time between the two.  Do the ministry has provided right in front of you.  The Bible says what good is it for a man to gain the whole world but lose his own soul?.   To paraphrase, what good is it for a woman to gain the whole world and lose her own children to the world because she didn't take time to 'bother' with them because they were in the 'way' of her 'ministry.

In Christ, Samantha
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• Apr. 10, 2007 - I Agree

Posted by MiryClay
I've went back through and read a few of your latest blog entries. What an encouragement! So refreshing to have someone that shares the same values and concerns that our family does. I hope you don't mind, but I added you to my friends list so I could have easier access to come back for more shared blessings. Have a wonderful evening!

In Christ,
Miry Clay
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• Apr. 17, 2007 - You have been nominated....

Posted by 2peter318
Please come over to my site and pick up your award. :)
JoAnn
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• Apr. 24, 2007 - Untitled Comment

Posted by Able
The only thing I am offended at is the disregard for God's word that many (dare I say most) Christian women have in this area today, It is sad when our own ambition, love of money, power, etc. control our decisions, rather than submiting ourselves to the will of the Lord. I am a young Pastor's wife and SAHM. I have been very dissapointed and experienced a lot of frustrating moments because of the lack of support I have recieved from other Christian women. It seems the older women I know have been so influenced by feminist thinking that they think I'm "wasting" my life away. It's like theres no concept of our husbands, our children, our homes being a ministry, let alone our most important ministry. All of this said, I have been so encouraged by Godly women (like you) that I have found in the blogger world. I don't feel so alone anymore, so thank you!
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• Apr. 27, 2007 - Isn't God faithful?

Posted by Anonymous
It's refreshing to find other women with kindred hearts who realize the Lord's first and foremost ministry for a mom and wife is her family...to nurture, guide and clean up after! I enjoyed reading your other blog entries...I read the article you placed a link too and of course agree with the just...understand though, that although Ms. Briscoe was sadly misled...the other women listed have all been quoted as saying their most important minintries were their families... they all have children that are grown with families of their own and some are even widowed....if any of us ever find ourselves in the similar situation of grown children and possible a spouse who has left this temporary earth...who is to say what our Heavenly Father would lead us to do? My husband is also a pastor and through years of hardship, trial, gossip and slander --one thing I know is this--He desires a broken and contrite heart...rather than sacrifice, He desires a broken spirit. Am I broken? When I as a mom and a wife I can understand no good thing dwells in me...I am useless without my Savior....Anything positive that comes from my training of my children or supporting of my husband comes only and I mean only from Him! I just don't have time to figure out God's will for other women, I don't have time to anylize the heart and intentions of "women in ministry" --I barely have the time to search my own heart...to constantly cleanse my own intention...to allow the Lord to heal the wounds caused by others who sincerely thought they knew God's will for my life or my intentions and were wrong....Isn't God faithful?
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• Jun. 14, 2007 - I LOVE THIS!!!!

Posted by HeatherC
Hi I just wanted to let you know I loved this, and thank you for posting it. I have 3 beautiful kids, and a wonderful husband, and while we are involved in some ministry in our church, we are involved in things that also include our kids, or in the youth ministries, and never overload on volunteering and I have had people comment on my kids being "in church" rather than in the nursery or wee worship, but they prefer to be in the pew with their mom and dad, and grandparents, and we love that!!!! It is OUR JOB to teach them first, or where will the church end up??
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