We have solved the telly-problem. After all the fuzz I decided to put the telly out of focus and placed it now in the closet in our bedroom. There the kids can still watch videos if they like. :-)
It really works!! Because the TV is not visible it is out of their mind. They watched a couple of videos today - short ones as well, and that was it. Even in the evening - Ayla's prime telly-time - they don't ask about it. Hurray!!! This is just how I like it: I don't have to get upset about it anymore and the problem was solved without me putting more attention to it by making rules or forbidding them to watch. :-)
It is nice to watch now if there will be any changes... | 