What do you say about a daughter who is like a best friend? What do you say about a young lady who makes decisions based on her convictions and denies herself those things that are harmful to her, both spiritually and physically or things that are dear to her because it is God’s will?

That I am amazed? That I am proud? That I am thankful?

I say, “I love you.”

I say, “Thank you, Lord, for the opportunity to know her, to be her mother.”

Honestly, I can write these words about Jocelyn or Amanda. They are both my best friends and confidantes, and I am proud to call them friends and daughters.

Jocelyn, if I could give you the world, I would wrap it up for you. As it is,we got you a better gift. I am so glad that Grandma and Aunt Jen can be here for your birthday party, even if you did find out the surprise before they got here. Oh, and your siblings, another best gift… seven of them. And a marriage the is not perfect, but is a part of my life I can live out faithfully before you, struggling and victoriously, to teach you that God is God, and I am not.

I know that this is going to be the best birthday ever! Happy Birthday, my girl, and congratulations on seventeen years!

Thank you, Amanda, for throwing a blog party for your sister!