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Father's Day Letter Writing Project

    Father's Day is right around the corner, but it’s not too late for your children to write a heartfelt letter to dad. You can use the following guidelines to help them write a letter that will greatly bless their father and be a testimony of God's faithfulness for generations to come.
    I have seen my husband reduced to tears on more then one occasion when the children have read a birthday or Father’s Day letter to him. It’s not that they love to see their father cry, but they do love to encourage him in meaningful ways. There’s something about the written words of a son or daughter that touch a father’s heart.    

    Although a project like this takes a little time, it’s worth every effort to help our children think about the things they appreciate and admire in their father, and to grow in their ability to express those thoughts and perceptions on paper. There can be so much more said on Father's Day than the proverbial, I didn’t know what to get for you!  Father’s Day can be a day of honor if we help our children gratefully prepare a letter of tribute ahead of time.

    Some of the ideas listed in the project below coincide with chapters from our book The Gift of Family Writing, but if you haven’t read the book yet, don’t let that stop you from participating in this project. If you would like to know more about The Gift of Family Writing, visit our website at www.giftoffamilywriting.com. Besides the paperback and CD, we offer a very affordable e-book that you can download and begin reading to your children today!
    Next Monday we would like you to send your letters to us and we will feature them in a special  “Tributes to Fathers” category on my blog. Selected letters will be included in our quarterly E-newsletter.   


Blessings,
Jill Novak
Remembrance Press

            

 

A Father's Day Letter Writing Project

Moms:

  • Pray with your child first. Ask the Lord to lead him in this new endeavor. This isn’t just a spiritual formality, but an opportunity to help your child see that God is involved in the writing process if we invite Him to guide us. Psalm 45:1 (NIV) says: "My heart is stirred by a noble theme as I recite my verses for the king; my tongue is the pen of a skillful writer." Help your child acknowledge God as the source of his words.
  • Let little children (6 and under) narrate a love letter right off the top of their head. Help middle children (7 and up) make lists about their father using the points suggested below and either narrate their letter to you or write it themselves. If your child struggles with handwriting or spelling skills, have him narrate his thoughts to you (no matter how old he is). This isn't the time to make academic strides; it's the time to make heart connections. 


    The Gift of Family Writing includes many examples of children who gave tremendous oral accounts before they could physically write on their own. If your child struggles with writing or can narrate a more detailed account that he can write (for most young children this is true), take his account down for him. He’ll be relieved, and you’ll be surprised at what comes out of his mouth! 
    Have older children (anyone who can write fluently) work through a cluster exercise alone


CLUSTERING EXERCISES (page 71, The Gift of Family Writing)

      We all struggle to remember. Sometimes when we’re asked to write about an event, person, place or thing, it’s hard to sort through all the surrounding information. That’s why I recommend clustering exercises for organizing your thoughts and observations. This exercise sorts information by association and actually enables the mind to recall more specific details.

     Children love clustering and tend to think of it as a game. Eric made the following journal entry after he did a clustering exercise about flying his kite. Notice that his journal entry is not limited to the words used in the exercise. Instead, the exercise serves as a “jumping-off-point” from which he writes freely about his experience.

 

HOW TO DO A CLUSTER EXERCISE

     To complete a cluster exercise, write the five W’s (who, what, where, when, and why) across the top of the page. Write the five senses (taste, touch, sight, sound, and smell) below them. Include feelings underneath the senses. Draw a circle in the center of the page. Write the event, person, place, or thing that you want to write about in the center. Draw circles off of that circle, filling the page with descriptive phrases.

Children:

  • Decide what you would like to write about by reviewing your cluster or narration exercises. You don’t have to write about every single character trait your father has or every experience that you shared with him over the last year (unless you want to). Sometimes it’s nice to choose three or four categories to develop as your main focus.

 

Moms:

  • Read some of the tributes in the tribute section to your children (page 159, The Gift of Family Writing). Does your child want to pick a theme or phrase that he will use throughout his letter? Nancy Baetz used the phrase "I Remember." Kim Wolf used the phrase "Daddy's Hands." Help your child decide if he would like to use a similar phrase as a reoccurring theme and what that phrase could be.    

 

Children:

  • Know your audience. Think about the kind of person your father is. Is he funny? Does he love humor, or is he serious and on the quiet side? Thinking about your father’s personality will help you write the kind of letter that will minister to him the most.

 

  • List the qualities that you appreciate the most about your Dad. Does he work hard, but is not appreciated by fellow co-workers or his boss? Does he support your family by working a job that he hates? Did he have to overcome adversity this last year?  If so, what was that adversity? Can you include something about it in your letter that will encourage him to keep walking by faith in that area?

 

  • Make a list of his hobbies. Maybe you will want to mention some of them in your letter. Has your dad taught you a lot about gardening or fishing? What particular hobbies has he passed on to you?  

 

  • Make a list of the special things he has done with you over the last year. Do you want to capture a special time that you and your father spent together? Can you write creatively about it? Use descriptive words to write about your experience. Read the section in The Gift of Family Writing on writing the personal essay (page 155). How can you use descriptive language to show what it was like to have that experience with your dad? 

 

  • Does your dad have a favorite Bible verse or book of the Bible? Ask him today if you don’t know what it is. Quoting scripture from his favorite book of the Bible will be very meaningful to him.

 

  • What is his favorite hymn? Ask him today if you don’t know. You might tie his favorite hymn into your letter.

 

  • Conclude your letter with a benediction to bless your father in the Lord. 

 
We look forward to hearing what the Lord does on this special day. It's the perfect opportunity for your children to bless their father with a letter from your heart to his!    

1:39 PM - Jun. 12, 2006 - post comment



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What a lovely gift!

JoJo

CommunicationFUNdamentals - 3:07 PM - Jun. 12, 2006

Jill

I am printing this out for us to work on as a family for Father's Day.
What an encouragement!

Thank you for your ministry, Jill!

Warmly,
Ann V.

HolyExperience - 3:44 PM - Jun. 12, 2006

Father's Day idea

Love this idea of the kids writing a letter to their dad. We will definitely be doing this! Thanks for sharing.

homesweethomeschooler - 4:53 PM - Jun. 12, 2006

What a wonderful idea, Jill...

Thank you so much! Love ~ Patricia

PatriciaWHunter - 6:30 PM - Jun. 12, 2006

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As always, Jill, you warm hearts with your genuine thoughtfulness. Wonderful and loving project ~ thank you!

Harriette Jacobs
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jacobsacademy - 7:34 AM - Jun. 14, 2006

oh, how neat

It is SO much more than commercialized gifts....and needs to be!! Thanks for such a great idea. As usual, big hugs to you Jill, you are very special to us.

Nancy Baetz
www.homeschoolblogger.com/byhisgraceincolorado

Anonymous - 10:35 AM - Jun. 14, 2006

Wonderful Idea Jill!

I recently purchased the eBook of Gift of Family Writing and absolutely LOVE it! I went out and bought composition journals for myself and my 3 children. I wasn't thinking, though, and didn't get one for my husband :(. So...I am going to sit down today with my kids and do this writing project with them. Then I will record all the letters in my husband's own journal and give it to him for Father's Day! I might even make a "contribution" myself ;)!

Thank you, Jill, for sharing this project with us! So many fathers are going to be mightily blessed this Father's Day! I think I will do one for my father too!

Blessings to you,
Sheri Graham

school4jesus - 4:55 AM - Jun. 15, 2006

Awhh....

Thanks, Jill, for the wonderful ideas! I am so excited to spend time with my kids celebrating their daddy!!
In Him, Beckie

LittleEblingsAcademy - 8:11 AM - Jun. 15, 2006

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I wrote my letter for my daddy today. Should I put it in your comment box?

Anonymous - 7:47 AM - Jun. 17, 2006

Ack

I missed this... too late for Father's day... but I'll copy it to use in the future.

Blessings,
Theresa

OurHomeSweetHomeschool - 8:07 PM - Jun. 19, 2006

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This is a great idea! My daughter started a "book" for her daddy this year. She will add a chapter to it for each holiday. Fathers Day was her first chapter, and she called it, "You were with me." Every paragraph began with that. It did reduce my hubby to tears. Thanks for all the tips!

Cindy

Cre8iveMom - 8:40 PM - Jun. 20, 2006

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Jill,

I will happily share my dd's letter with you. I'll email it to you tonight.

Blessings,

Cindy

Cre8iveMom - 10:04 PM - Jun. 21, 2006

Father's Day letter

Great Blog Jill,

I can't wait for my Gift of Family Writing to Arrive! You have so many great ideas for helping our children to become writers. I know what I will be doing this week ;o) God Bless, Heather W.

Tha Patchwork Heart Co. - 8:50 AM - Jun. 13, 2007

On point

Thanks for the writing guide for dummies, this will help stir up thoughts and put them into words. Thanks

Ted - 6:32 AM - Nov. 8, 2008

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Jill Novak shares from her heart and the pages of her journal about God's faithfulness through life's everyday teachable moments.Jill encourages families to write and draw from life. She and her husband Robert have been married 28 years and are the parents of five children. Together her family has founded Remembrance Press, publishers of The Pebbly Brook Farm Series: Character Building Stories for Boys and Girls, Becoming God’s Naturalist, The Gift of Family Writing, and The Girlhood Home Companion.

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