I have finally had a day to just read and catch up on my cyber friends. I am sorry I haven't posted yet, but I should have even more time tomorrow.
Dirk
is doing better in some ways and worse in others. He has multiple
infections that are very drug resistant. A big part of his problem
stems from the fact that his thyroid went wacky and they told him to
stop taking his medication for 6 weeks, this gave the infections just
enough time to really take hold and ravage his whole body--especially
his endrocrine system. Just about every gland you can think of is full
of this resistant infection.
While
he was in the hospital they also found a hyrnea (sp?) that they
repaired, but the surgery made him weaker and left him in even more
pain.
He has
appointments with three specialists this week. The good news is when it
is all over he will feel better than he has in years. Personally, I
think it all needs to start with the thyroid! His doctor wants him in
the hospital, but the insurance company won't let him stay because
there is no "specific" treatment plan yet.
I
have never been prouder of the kids! All of those who come over to
study are really chipping in and helping me out. With Dirk down, Mom
fighting the weather change(and visiting colleges with Athena), and my
stepdad now over the road as a truck driver, I am the only adult doing
the "chores". Athena is helping some, but she is traveling a lot,
Kayleigh is in NYC and Nathan is at school everyday and dive or dance
practice at night. I only get to see him on Sundays now and it is
usually to do homework, not yardwork or chopping wood anymore. All the
little things he used to take care of that I didn't even think about
are mostly going undone.
I am realizing how spoiled I used to be with how I spent my time! |