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Sep. 10, 2009

Encouragement for tough times

When Joseph was in Egypt, Potiphar's wife accused him of wrongdoing.  He was innocent of this charge, but that didn't spare him from the consequences of another person's sin.  When I read Genesis I sometimes get frustrated that there isn't more 'commentary' from God on the bad things that happen.  Sometimes I think I'd love to hear his heart directly instead of having all of these stories that just 'are.'  However in this story, there is a 'however'!!!  Chapter 39 verse 21 says "BUT the Lord was with Joseph and showed him steadfast love.....

I hope that in this time of uncertainty you can feel encouraged.  Although things that were beyond your control have happened, God feels strongly enough about this type of situation to say "BUT!"  Joseph didn't have the perspective of hearing this, or seeing this in his immediate circumstances, just as you don't now, but, your "BUT" is being worked out by an almighty God who is indeed "with you" and who is even right now showing you His "steadfast love."

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Jul. 24, 2009

A funny e-mail

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Here's an e-mail I got from Jeff on Thursday night.  He told me he sent it so that he would remember to tell me about it...

Kristin,

Grace was picking up her pet hospital stuff tonight and she said that she wondered what happened to the other animals (since she could only find the puppy).  Then she said, "I lost the kitty at the fair."  How could she possibly remember that?  That's crazy!  It was a year ago.

Love,
Jeff

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Jul. 1, 2009

The Exchanged Life

This summer my church small group has been reading They Found the Secret by Raymond Edman.  The first chapter is on J. Hudson Taylor's "Exchanged Life." Which refers to his life in Christ, as it is described in Galatians 2:20.  I loved a reference from a Harriet Beecher Stowe booklet How to Live on Christ,

"How does the branch bear fruit?  Not by incessant effort for sunshine and air; not by vain struggles for those vivifying influences which give beauty to the blossom, and verdure to the leaf:  it simply abides in the vine, in silent and undisturbed union, and blossoms and fruit appear as of spontaneous growth." 


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May. 26, 2009

A great party, with a little guilt!

Posted in Parenting
We had Grace's 3rd birthday party on Saturday and even thought I thought we were going to get rained on, the clouds passes us over and it turned out to be a wonderful evening.  I was so happy that Grace had fun.  I asked her what her favorite part of her birthday was and she said that it was "eating cake with her friends."  She was really into her cake, which she personally picked out.  It was a "Dora cake with a three on it."  Very good choice! 

That night after the party I couldn't sleep.  I kept thinking about the candy in the pinata...I had toyed around with putting non-candy items in because I don't love the idea of over indulging on candy.  I know I was the one who brought home a bag of pinata candy and I filled it up just thinking about how much fun the kids were going to have opening it up and collecting it...only while I was watching them play, seeing how much each kid was getting, I started to have this terrible twisting guilt in my stomach.  That night I lay there thinking about how that activity did not line up with who I want to be as a parent.  I felt terrible.  I could let this go as "just one of those things" but I hope I learn from it.  Even our special occasions and indulgences should ultimately celebrate who we and what's important to us.



 
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May. 19, 2009

How Creative!

Posted in Parenting


Did you ever think to add ice cream to a s'more
Well Grace did and I have to say they were delicious!

I can't believe she's going to be three on Saturday...It's been three years of JOY!!!

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Apr. 24, 2009

Love Food-Hate Waste

Posted in Home
I stumbled upon this website while searching for new healthy dinner ideas.  I love the slogan, Love Food-Hate Waste, but I love the idea even more.  How can I buy more produce and not let even one bite of it go bad?  The answer-cook flexible dishes that can incorporate whatever 'extras' you may have on hand.  This works especially well for me since I rarely use recipes anyway.  YUM, last night we had Vegetable Pilaf and today I made Fruit Salsa...two great dishes that incorporated things in the back of my fridge that would have otherwise gone bad!

Anyone else have ideas for reducing waste in the kitchen?


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Apr. 21, 2009

Our 3 Year PreSchool

We've nailed down a little more of what we're hoping for during this next year at home with Grace.  Knowing that our unstructured time together includes:  household activities, outside play time, math concepts when appropriate, art play, songs and finger plays, we'll focus on...

 

Spiritual Development

Create a tradition of putting 'things' I want to be intentional to share with her into a three ring binder with her name on it.  Now it could be as simple as putting together the handouts from her Sunday school and new little songs for us to learn and sing together.  Later, as she grows, it could contain articles, quotes or discussion topics, maybe even notes that we write back and forth to one another.

Read from our Beginner's Bible at breakfast.

 Language -

We'll start our week, whenever possible, at the library, picking out new books and making sure we have a few books that focus on our 'Letter of the Week.'  A week ahead I'll select two or three activities from Brightly Beaming Resources Letter of the Week Curriculum to reinforce letters.  But these will be done at our leisure and only if she seems to be enjoying them.

We'll continue to read story books aloud.  Right now our pattern is two books or stories before 'Quiet Rest' in the afternoon and two books at night before bed.  Some days we read a lot more during other play times, but this seems to be working well to give some enjoyable structure to our day. 

I hate to admit this, but Grace LOVES 'shows.'  By shows she means TV programs, especially Dora.  I've decided to timidly embrace this love and look for ways that Dora can inspire her to learn new vocabulary and phrases in Spanish.  I'll continue teaching her naturally occurring vocabulary and phrases, but I'd like to keep a notebook, for myself that helps me remember what she's learning so that I can reinforce it.  I'm also going to introduce some Spanish language children's books and maybe Muzzy videos.

Music and Movement -

Can you believe that my daughter is now asking if she can be a ballerina?  Off to our first dance class we will go!

Picture Study -

We'll look at Baby Einstein ABC’s of Art, following along with the letter of the week.



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Apr. 20, 2009

Reality Check

I just read an article in the Wall Street Journal that has my blood boiling....

Ms. Parnell's family earns over $250,000 a year, and after all of their fixed 'living expenses' they have only
$1,200 a month left over.  So in complaining about a potential bump in her tax percentage she says...

"I'm not after sympathy. We are blessed. What I want is a reality check on what rich means," Ms. Parnell says. "I can pay my mortgage and I can buy some clothes. I'm not going without, but I'm not living a life of luxury."
Reality check?!?!

Reality check to Ms. Parnell, myself, and all of us who live in a family where there is an earner who has a stable job.  Thank you God for challenging us with WEALTH.  Yes, WEALTH!  (I almost typed 'blessing' us with wealth, but I changed it.  Money can be a stumbling block to our ability to feel spiritual needs, it can tie us to this world in unhealthy ways, and it causes us to question God's goodness to us when the market goes down....)  Let's stop comparing ourselves with the 1% or so of the world that lives "a life of luxury," and start comparing ourselves with those, around the world and in our own neighborhoods, who daily go without.

I've put myself into this category, not because we earn even close to that amount of money, but because every day I could make that same statement..."I can pay my mortgage and I can buy some clothes. I'm not going without, but I'm not living a life of luxury."   So, here's the reality check for Ms. Parnell and the rest of us....according to the World Bank Development Indicators 2008, "Almost half the world — over three billion people — live on less than $2.50 a day."  And just to hammer in that point, I did the math, and that is less money in a whole year than the DISPOSABLE income that the Parnell family brings home in one month.  God have mercy on us.



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Apr. 18, 2009

We bought bison meat today

Posted in Natural Living
Jeff has been reading a lot lately and is now realizing that we need to reshape our grocery budget to include as much organic and hormone/antibiotic free food as possible.  We're looking into a produce co-op, and in the meantime we decided to visit our local Farmer's Market.  While browsing we discovered that bison is raised without 'growth promoters,' and Jeff decided he wanted to try some.  I'm more or less on board, but I'm worried that our budget might not be able to handle this 'conversion experience'.  Since I do almost all of the grocery shopping I'm not sure that the real price differences have quite sunk in with him yet.

A pound of locally grown, pasture fed, frozen bison at the farmer's market was $5.50 today.

I'm wondering, is ignorance really bliss???

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Apr. 13, 2009

Thank you God for Passover

I've been thinking a lot about how Easter and Passover have overlapped this year.  I'm a big picture kind of person, so when I can see how seemingly different parts work together in God's Story, I get excited.  I remember years ago first learning about the 'Passover' story.  While death visited the homes of Egyptians without the sacrificed lamb's blood on their door frames, God's people were saved!  This amazing story points us to Jesus and his death on the cross.

So here's my quote of the week...

1 Corinthians 5:7

Get rid of the old yeast, so that you may be a new unleavened batch—as you really are. For Christ, our Passover lamb, has been sacrificed.


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Apr. 6, 2009

A New Perspective on Anger

I think I'll try a new thing for Mondays...a quote of the week!  This will be either something new that I've been reading, something I stumbled upon, or a favorite that I've long treasured.  So, here we go!  This week I'll share a quote from The Divine Conspiracy.  I'm reading Dallas Willard's reflections on The Sermon on the Mount, or as he calls it, "The Discourse on the Hill".

"Anger indulged, instead of simply waved off, always has in it an element of self-righteousness and vanity." 
(Dallas Willard- The Divine Conspiracy pg. 149)

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Mar. 19, 2009

So big!

Posted in Parenting

Everett is now sitting up, grabbing his feet and rolling over tummy to back.
So big!

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Mar. 18, 2009

A tool in my 'Mommy' tool box

Posted in Parenting
I found a drawing today for a free Mei Tei baby carrier.  I love baby carriers of all sorts, but especially ones that help to distribute weight evenly on both shoulders.
Here' the link...

The best thing about wearing my son is the feeling that we are so comfortable together.  On days when he is just out of sorts, putting him in a carrier mellows him out after only a few moments.

I'm going to try 'wearing' Ev more around the house when I'm trying to get things done and he's not cooperating!!!  It's good to be reminded about tools in the 'Mommy' tool box.


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Feb. 25, 2009

Approach, My Soul, the Mercy Seat

Here's a hymn that I typed out for the ladies in my small group today.   I came to it after studying Hebrews 4:16...

"Let us then with confidence draw near to the throne of grace. "


Approach, My Soul, the Mercy Seat

By John Newton

 

Approach, my soul, the mercy seat, where Jesus answers prayer:  There humbly fall before His feet,

for none can perish there.

 

Thy promise is my only plea, with this I venture nigh:  Though callest burdened souls to Thee,

 and such, O Lord, am I.

 

Bow’d down beneath a load of sin, by Satan sorely pressed, by war without and fears within,

I come to Thee for rest.

 

Be Thou my Shield and Hiding Place, that shelter’d near Thy side, I may my fierce accuser face,

and tell him Thou hast died.

 

O wondrous love, to bleed and die, to bear the Cross and shame, that guilty sinners, such as I,

might plead Thy gracious Name.


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Feb. 24, 2009

Self-Restraint

Posted in Parenting
I can honestly say that the 'terrible twos' did not visit our house.  And for the gift of a pleasant toddler I'm grateful, but I also recognize the great responsibility that I have to her to balance her developing sense of self with the need for prompt and cheerful obedience.

Charlotte Mason wrote some things about 'discipline' that really spoke to me.

"To secure the habit of obedience, the mother must exercise great self-restraint [temptation to use this for convenience]; she must never give a command which she does not intend to see carried out to the full.  And she must not lay upon her child burdens, grievous too be borne, of command heaped on command." (Home Education pg. 163, 164)

I expect Grace to comply immediately with commands, but there are just a handful of things during the day that fall into the category of something that I care strongly enough about  to command.  I hope to continue this practice of self-restraint.
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Feb. 23, 2009

A Formidable List of Attainments for a Child of Six

I found this list on Ambleside Online and it's given me a lot to think about in relation to early learning.  I love how Charlotte Mason's list seems challenging and natural all at the same time.

"A Formidable List of Attainments for a Child of Six"

A reprint of a curriculum outline from a CM school in the 1890's. from Summer 93 Parents Review pub by Karen Andreola

1. to recite, beautifully, 6 easy poems and hymns
2. to recite, perfectly and beautifully, a parable and a psalm
3. to add and subtract numbers up to 10, with dominoes or counters
4. to read--what and how much, will depend on what we are told of the child
5. to copy in print-hand from a book
6. to know the points of the compass with relation to their own home, where the sun rises and sets, and the way the wind blows
7. to describe the boundries of their own home
8. to describe any lake, river, pond, island etc. within easy reach
9. to tell quite accurately (however shortly) 3 stories from Bible history, 3 from early English, and 3 from early Roman history (my note here, we may want to substitute early American for early English!)
10. to be able to describe 3 walks and 3 views
11. to mount in a scrap book a dozen common wildflowers, with leaves (one every week); to name these, describe them in their own words, and say where they found them.
12. to do the same with leaves and flowers of 6 forest trees
13. to know 6 birds by song, colour and shape
14. to send in certain Kindergarten or other handiwork, as directed
15. to tell three stories about their own "pets"--rabbit, dog or cat.
16. to name 20 common objects in French, and say a dozen little sentences
17. to sing one hymn, one French song, and one English song
18. to keep a caterpillar and tell the life-story of a butterfly from his own observations.

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In thinking about this list I've sketched out a Kindergarten overview that I think matches up to the most important points.

Age 5-Kindergarten/Foundation Year

Daily-

Bible- Continue Hymn study and begin a Bible Notebook of dictated narration, response drawings, beginning copy work, and scripture memory verses etc.

 

Math- Consider beginning a number sense/ mental math type curriculum depending on the child's interest and readiness, maybe Singapore Math?

 

Language Arts- I'm expecting Grace to be ready for some 'early readers'?  Continue reading aloud books of interest.

 

Once a week?-

Social – Weekly home school/play group and Create ‘Friends of the Week’ Notebook.

 

Nature Study- Continue focus on child’s interests.  Learn names of wildflowers and trees in Nature Notebook

 

Spanish- Continue in-home Spanish group.

 

Art Play/Picture Study-

Come Look with Me: Exploring landscapes, Gladys S. Blizzard
Preschool Art, MaryAnn Kohl

 

Music/Movement- Continue with a dance or gymnastics class?

 

Handicrafts-?

 

I've still got a lot of 'question marks' to learn about.  Much of this depends on what any individual child may be ready for, while avoiding 'academic' type lessons.  While I'm still slightly uncomfortable with the idea of homeschooling the elementary years, this outline has given me some understanding of what it might look like for us. 





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Feb. 20, 2009

What does a homeschool preschool look like?

I'm sure there are as many answers to this question as there are families that desire to teach their children at home.

Here's what I'm thinking through...  What might teaching our extremely bright preschooler at home look like?  What do you do with at age 3 year when she already knows her letters and their sounds at 2.5?  How do we continue to spread a rich buffet of life experiences for her without pressuring her into academic material?

These are preliminary thoughts...I'd love any feedback or comments on this one.

Age 3 Pre-School …

 

Bible –Read from our Preschool Story Bible.

 

Language Arts –Select activities from Brightly Beaming Resources Letter of the Week Curriculum to reinforce letters and continue to read story books aloud.

 

Spanish- Continue teaching naturally occurring vocabulary and phrases.  Introduce some Spanish language children's story books.

 

Picture Study-Go back to our book Baby Einstein ABC’s of Art and follow along with the letter of the week.

 

Social-Arrange for a playgroup one morning per week.

 

(Unstructured time together includes, household activities, outside play time, math concepts when appropriate, art play, spontaneous songs and finger plays.)

 

Age 4-Pre-School…

 

Bible (add Hymn Study)- Read Big Picture Bible and sing favorite Hymns, possibly responding with drawings and narrations.

 

Language Arts- Brightly Beaming Resources -Sound of the Week and continue reading aloud.

 

Once-a-week…

Family Math/Number Sense projects

 

Nature Notebook with labeled specimens, drawings, photos etc.

 

Begin an in-home group Spanish class with friends

 

Art Play/Picture Study- Come Look with Me: Exploring Art with Children, Gladys S. Blizzard

 

Music/Movement-?

 

Social- Continue with a weekly play group


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Feb. 17, 2009

New Baby Recommendations

Posted in Parenting

I guess I'm on some sort of advice giving kick right now, after my cloth diaper posts I got a request for some


New Baby Recommendations…


 I don't have opinions on everything, but off the top of my head here are a few thoughts...


Gear

 

Infant car seat-  Consider carefully before paying more for an infant car seat that is usable for higher weight limits.  Sure your baby may be able to use it longer, but are you really going to want to (be able to) lift that ‘heavier’ baby in and out of the car in the seat???? 

 

Convertible car seat-  This may seem a long way off, but research is showing that the 40ish pounds that most convertible car seats go up to with the 5 pt. harness just isn’t good enough.  I'm investing in seats that go up to 65lbs.

 

Strollers- Check out Phil and Ted’s.  The option of getting the single stroller now and then a second seat later, to make a double stroller, is very appealing.  I think this will save you my agony now of trying to decide weather to ‘splurge’ on it.

 

Baby Wearing- Get a good multi-purpose baby carrier, ie- one that can be worn multiple ways, not just on the front like a Baby Bjorn.  I have an Ergo, but I like the looks of the Beco too.  Use this for nice long walks, grocery shopping, getting stuff done around the house.  Look for one that is 'masculine' enough and encourage dad to try it too.  My husband wore Grace on his back all around Sea World when she was almost two.  She loved being up high and he was very comfortable.

 


Nursery


I like the 'Pack and Play' concept.  Use it as bassinet for your newborn in your room initially and then as a travel crib and play pen later on.

 

 

No need for a changing table if you get a desk or dresser with a removable changing pad.

 

If you really want to go crazy on nice crib bedding go gender neutral…I don’t mind how much mine cost for how long it’s used because we’re using it again.

 

Layette


At one size or another you’ll probably just end up with ‘too much.’  Hang on to clothes and blankets with gift receipts to see if you’ll really need them.  If not, return them for the next bigger size, or shop the clearance rack…I returned one outfit to The Children’s Place and walked out of the outlet with seven!

 

Immediately return anything you can’t machine wash and dry.

 

One additional thought, if you're at all interested in natural childbirth and/or breastfeeding, prepare  in advance.  I used Hypbirth to prepare for labor and it was a tremendous help to me.  Also, I didn't do this, but I wish I would have asked a friend if she would let me watch her baby latch on for a feeding.  I had never seen this in person and I just don't think that books do it justice. 


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Feb. 12, 2009

Cloth Diapering Part 2

Posted in Natural Living
I like how much money I've saved on diapering. 
I like that my family is not making huge deposits into our local landfills. 
I like that I can use eco-friendly laundry products and do a lot of line drying to help even more. 
I like that they are not nearly as hard to take care of as people might initially think. 
And mostly, I think they are really cute!

What I've used...

-Basic Infant Cotton Prefold-  This is a very inexpensive way to diaper.  They can be used as burp cloths, additional stuffing for pockets in the larger sizes, and even cleaning rags once you're not diapering anymore!

-Kissaluv's size 0- A popular newborn diaper.  I liked them, but I didn't love them.

-Covers-I've bought Prorap and Bummis for myself and they're ok.  Most recently I got a hand me down Dapi cover.  I actually like the Dapi the best, and it's the cheapest!  The Dapi is 'crunchier' because I think it may have plastic in it, but it does not leak...A Dapi cover is only $2.99!

-For different sized pockets, the go-to diaper it seems to me is the Fuzzi Bunz brand.  They are very trim and seem to fit a lot of different babies.  I had one in medium and it was my absolute favorite for Grace.  I couldn't afford a whole new set of these for Everett so I got 10 of the newborn size from Hugga Buns.  The ones that I got are not as accuratly sized as the Fuzzi Bunz, but they worked well and I loved the insert- very trim and absorbant.  I recently noticed a good price for Fuzzi Bunz is for 'seconds' so this may be an option if you're on a budget.

-For one-size I bought BumGenius from Cotton Babies.  They have been such a joy!  At first I thought they were too expensive, but I deciced to try them out and I was not disappointed.  I know that Happy Heiny's has a one-size and also Fuzzi Bunz just came out with their own one-size.  You might want to get one of each of these and see which one you like best.


What I'd like to try...


-Something I'm intregued by is a Bamboo fitted diaper.-I'd really like to try this package from Costco, but I don't really need any new diapers right now.  :(

 

-I just bought some hemp baby wipes, I'll give an update on how those are working in a few weeks!



If I were starting today with a new baby I'd buy...
 

-12 infant size prefolds ($18) (use as long as you diaper)
-The bambo fitteds w/ boosters package (6 diapers) ($60) (small fits to 22lbs)
-4 small Dapi covers ($12) (small fits to 14lbs)
-6 Hugga Buns with the inserts (newborn fits to 15lbs) ($78)
-One of each of the one-size pockets to see which I liked best ($50ish?)

So, for just over $200 you would have everything you would need to get started with a new baby, and lots of things that would grow with your stash.  And everything here could be used with any future children for even more savings! After baby got to that 14lb. mark I would buy 2 size medium (or one-size) covers to continue to get more use out of the prefolds and fitteds and more of the pockets depending on what was working best for me.
 

 

Enjoy!


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Feb. 11, 2009

Cloth Diapering Part 1

Posted in Natural Living
I've had several people ask me about our cloth diapers recently...

Here's a brief description of what's available out there now.  I feel like I could talk about this for days and days, but I'll do my best to be brief (oops, was that a pun?)

There are three basic types of cloth diapers....

#1-  Anything that requires you to use a separate cover.  There are many types of covers and many types of 'fillers,' so the options on this one are pretty much endless.  The cheapest thing you could possibly do is use 'prefold' diapers as the filler.  Prefolds look like the old fashioned diapers that our parents used to use with the pins, but with the new covers you don't have to use pins anymore!  That's a BONUS!  The other good option is something called a 'fitted' diaper.  These are good under covers because they can contain even the biggest messes, but like all 'cover needing diapers', the babies skin touches the wetness all the time, so I wouldn't recommend using this full-time.  Another reason this is the most economical method is that you don't need as many covers as you might think because you only have to wash them if they get 'soiled.'  Covers from wet diapers just need to air out between uses.

#2- Pocket diapers...These are my favorite and I think the person who invented them is my hero!  They are a diaper with a slit in it that you stuff with your desired amount of absorbancy.  They come in different sizes for a trimmer look, or in one-size diapers which are a bit bulker but grow with your child.  Different sizes and one-size each have their advantages.  Buying different sized diapers pretty much assures you that those diapers will be in good to great condition to be used for another child/children or even sold for a pretty good resale value.  The one-size are good because you don't have to rebuy diapers again so soon and if you have children of different ages that are both still in diapers you don't have to dig through your piles to find the right size diaper for the right kid.

#3-  All-in-ones. These are just like disposables, but you wash them.  I like the idea, in theory, because it sounds so easy.  However, I've been told that they don't wash and dry as well as pockets.  I would probably either avoid this kind, or if you're interested just buy one or two to see how they handle in the wash.

Tomorrow I'll post about what I've used, what I really like, and what I'm intregued by...


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