Our second son's birthday is around the corner and I don't know what to do.  Growing up, my family did not have birthday parties.  Possibly because of the cost, possibly because my parents were alcoholics and didn't like to deal with poeple.  Whatever the reason, I find myself dreading the thought of planning a party.  I geuss I try to please all of the people all of the time, an accomplishment I logically know is impossible.  Everything I think of doing, will not work with everybodies schedule, diet, location, whatever.  I know that I should focus on my son and not on other issues, but it all ultimately effects HIS day.  I trust everthing will work itself out, but in the mean time, I'm stressed!