Tuesday, October 7, 2008 - BFS# 104 - Don't Leave Home Without It!!
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Don’t Leave Home Without It! (Marketing Credit: American Express)
Memory Verse: Matthew 28: 20 - Teaching them to observe all things whatsoever I have commanded you: and lo, I am with you always, even to the end of the world. Amen.
Intro: Never Leave Home Without It (Marketing Credit: American Express) Diapers, bottles, wipes, bibs, pacifiers, extra clothing, cell phone, PDA, ipod, iphone, credit or debit cards … what would you never leave home without?
Assignment: In the memory verse Jesus tells us that He will never leave us, not even at the end of the world. He assures us in this verse that He will be with us and that means through everything we go through in life. I thought it would be interesting to write about the things we would never leave home without. For some it might be baby needs, others it might be a gym bag and bottle of water, and for some it might be your Bible and a notepad or small journal, maybe even your son or daughters favorite blankie! I’d like for you to write about something that you would never leave home without.
Picture Ideas: planner, books you read, address book, purse, keys, gym bag, water bottles, baby or children things, notepad/Journal, Bible.
Share your favorite scripture and don’t forget the Memory Verse above.

My children are no longer little and don't require me to bring things with us when we leave the house. I don't have to think about diaper bags, wipes, books, changes of clothes, snacks or bottles. There is the occasiona, but rare, reminder to have driver's licenses, military ID cards, money (of their own...not mine! YES!) or cell phones.
However, there ARE two things that we have instilled in our girls to NEVER leave without...they are simple but essential. First...Never leave home without our blessing. When our girls leave to go off on their own (to college, jobs, etc) we always pray over them and give them our blessing. The words change with time and circumstances but the meaning is always the same...that we love them and want things to go well with them. That we are supporting them emotionally, spiritually and occasionally financially! *L*
The second thing we never leave without is saying "I love you!" I learned early in life that those you love may not be with you always and that you must never take for granted the chance to say I love you. This was a gift my parents taught me. I've taught it to my girls as well. We never depart from one another without saying it, never end a phone call without saying it and never close a letter or email without saying it. Our actions speak just as loudly as our words, sometimes louder, and we try to live in such a way that each member of our family KNOWS they are loved by the others. We also tell our children we are proud of them and they things they are doing and choices they are making when we feel that way. I won't pretend we agree with everything they've done...we don't. But for the most part, our daughters ARE a source of pride and joy for us. We take every opportunity to let them know this.
This has been a real stretch for Beloved...coming from a traditional Japanese family, his parents tend not to be demonstrative in their affections. I remember him telling me that his mother (who ADORES him and vice versa) had only said the words "I love you" to him once in his life and that was as he was leaving for basic training over 25 years ago now. Now let me say that his parents love for him, his siblings and the rest of us has never been in doubt...just the words are scarce. Having three very girlie, emotional and affectionate granddaughters has stretched them as well and I am thrilled to tell you that these days, Grandma and Grandpa never end a visit or phone call without saying "I love you!"

This is C1's favorite verse: Ps 119:11 "I have hidden your word in my heart that I might not sin against you." That's something good to not leave home without too!
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