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The Byrd's Nest
Oct. 14, 2006
Adjusting.......
| Well, my oldest has been home for two weeks and we are beginning to settle in. She just seems more relaxed. Being in the hostile environment that her school had become just sapped all the joy from my daughter's demeanor. It is difficult concentrate on learning when your school doesn't feel safe. She may never have been in any physical danger, but she was pummeled emotionally. What a blessing to see a smile on her face again!
I fretted about integrating her into my schedule. My previous schedule had evolved into a well-oiled machine with every day efficient and predictable. Now, I am learning to juggle but nothing has been dropped thus far. Adding another child, with different needs, is a challenge but not an insurmountable one. It is imperative, however, that my 3 year old get attention, too. Ahh.... if only I could clone myself on school days. When my oldest was three (and an only child at the time), she received so much attention. We played for hours, attended the library's story times, took walks, went on outings. Everyday seemed open to whatever possibilities life might present because time seemed in plentiful supply. Now, with four kids, the days seem too short to accomplish what needs to be done and spontaneity a rare luxury. I have to remind myself that my youngest also enjoys the fun of having older sisters. You lose something; you gain something ....... I just need to remember to enjoy these days of having a young child around the house; they are so fleeting. |
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Oct. 18, 2006 - Praise the Lord!
Mary