Marybeth's Musings on
Motherhood and More

Nov. 29, 2006
About My Friends

I got an email not long ago from a woman who was unhappy with me.  She did not like that I had removed her from my friends list and wanted to know why.  She wondered if she had done something personally to me to warrant this decision.  Now, I hardly know this person.  So, there was no way that she could have done anything to me.  It turns out that she and I just had very different ideas about the friends list in general. 

 

To me, the friends list displays the blogs that I visit regularly.  These are people that I keep up with via their blogs for various reasons-- they make me laugh or make me think or inspire me in one aspect or another.  So, I list them as people that I can vouch for as truly being "friends."  If someone is listed, that means I visit their blog regularly.  I can't visit that many blogs on a regular basis, so I don't have a real long list.  That is how I see the friends list.  Recently, I went through and cleaned house.  If you were on there and are no longer on there, it probably means that you were no longer posting regularly.  I don't like sending people to inactive blogs, as that can be quite disappointing!  If you get back in the habit of posting regularly, please let me know so I can add you back!  (And don't feel bad-- I deleted my own husband's blog-- it's nothing personal!) 

 

I take my friends list very seriously.  But I don't want to hurt people's feelings.  Personally, I don't like going to blogs where they have like 100 friends listed, as I know they can't possibly be visiting all these blogs regularly.  So, that's how I approach the whole friends idea.  I know this goes totally against what most folks do, but then again, that pretty much sums up my life!


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