The moment I read this paragraph I knew I not only needed to post it, I needed to make it my logo, my disclaimer, link to it and set it in flashing lights. It's not so much helpful to you in your life (or maybe it is) but it will be helpful to you in reading my work.

If I seem to show too little respect for your opinions or thoughts, be assured I have equal doubts about my own, and I don't mind if you think I'm wrong. I'm sure I'm wrong about many things, although I'm not exactly sure which things I'm wrong about. I'm even sure I'm wrong about what I think I'm right about in at least some of the cases. So wherever you think I'm wrong, you could be right. If, in the process of determining that I'm wrong, you are stimulated to think more deeply and broadly, I hope that I will have somehow served you anyway. Brian McLaren, A Generous Orthodoxy