Posted in Issues and Encounters

All too often in blogs, forums, and e-mail groups, the notion of being put "on the spot" regarding homeschooling comes up.

Frequently, the questions get personal, and the homeschooling parent is put in the position of "defending" their parental choice to homeschool. 

However, sometimes the situation is totally different, yet eerily the same.

Over the past few years, I've developed a connection with women who share a common passion - needlework - and it's been a wonderful outlet for me.  Sometimes it's restful to talk to others about something aside from homeschooling and children - really, it is. 

But because homeschooling is a lifestyle, the fact that we homeschool our daughter did come up.  And, because this group gathers for at least a few hours at time when it meets, questions about our homeschool (always nicely phrased and inquistive, rather than inquisitorial) were asked. 

Never did I consider that my testimony and our example of homeschooling might suggest to someone in this group that this lifestyle might be right for them! 

Or what a awesome burden that would be. 

Now, my friend who has chosen to take up the homeschool path has not burdened me in any way.  If anything, being available to answer questions for her has been a delight.  Her committment, self-revelations, and honest care for her son are a joy to see. 

But, to realize that I played any part at all in her decision to homeschool her dear child amazes me. 

Often, homeschool parents encourage their children to act "their best" in order to put a good face on homeschooling.  It's even in the field trip notes for our homeschool group!  

But, how often do we consider how our actions, words, and dedication reflect on the lifestyle we've chosen?  How often do we impact others as they deliberate their educational options - and not even know it? 

In fact, it was a family member who initially planted the idea of homeschooling into my awareness.  And though I would have been thrilled to have had her for my mentor as we began our homeschool journey, that was not to be.  Nor does she even know of her influence in this regard.

I have been blessed to be made aware of the small role I played in my friend's decision.  And, I hope to be there to support her in any way she needs me to.

In Titus 2 vs 7-8 we are instructed, "In everything set them an example by doing what is good.  In your teaching show integrity, seriousness and soundness of speech that cannot be condemned, so that those who oppose you may be ashamed because they have nothing bad to say about us."

In doing this, we set a standard for living, no matter what aspect of our life may be examined.

You just never know who might be watching, looking for direction.  It's best to be sure that the example you set is a good one.