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Jun. 19, 2008

Computer Safety

One of the blogs I read semi-regularly had a post yesterday explaining that she had a hacker break into her computer and destroy numerous files including photos and family videos.  I began to wonder how safe most of us are.  I am probably safer than most, basically because I'm married to an I.S./I.T. guy who has seen to it that we are well protected.  Actually I had trouble with my internet one time and my ISP couldn't remotely find my computer, they only could get as far as the first router after I shut down the firewall machine (yes, we have a hardware firewall.)

For those of you who are like me and not terribly up on these things, there are a few things I'm going to recommend.  First and most obviously, have antivirus!  We use a wonderful one that is FREE (as are the other products I'm going to recommend).  It is called Avast (found here ), it is the antivirus my husbands company uses.  You can set it up to scan constantly in the background and it has a pretty cool warning if it's detected a potential problem.  It also updates itself (important for me) and it completely deletes any virus you may pick up (this person said her problem was caused by not regularly emptying her security vault.)  It does seem to make my computer load more slowly when I first turn it on, but I think that's a small price to pay.

Another potential problem is from something called spyware.  These are things that can be installed on your computer by internet sites you visit without your knowledge or permission.  Some of them will allow the creators to track where you have been on the internet (and maybe other personal data), they are part of the cause of popups (especially ones that have nothing to do with the site you are visiting) and they can even send out data that allows your computer to be identified.  They are bad, you don't want them.  My first recommendation is to try Mozilla Firefox (found here) instead of Internet Explorer.  Here is what their web site says about security:

Simply put, your online security is our top priority. Firefox includes strict anti-phishing and anti-malware measures, plus easy ways to tell the good guys from the bad like our new one-click site ID info. And, thanks to our open source process we have thousands of security experts around the globe working around the clock to keep you (and your personal information) safe.

I know it is a pain to adjust to a new program, but I really, really like Firefox.  Since nothing is perfect, you will also want a program to get rid of the odd spyware that slips through.  My husband has installed Ad-aware (here) and Spybot S&D (here) on our computers.  They sort of work in tandem, each finding what the other misses.  They will scan and then remove any problems they find, you can select which ones you want to have removed.  I want to warn you though, if you Google either of these, don't click on the sponsored link (in the pink box.)  Those are different companies that claim to have free programs, but they only scan for free then you have to buy them to remove what they find.

Now for you more computer savvy people, we used an old computer to set up the firewall.  My husband uses Dan's Guardian.  I don't know much about it, but I do know that it can also be setup to block undesirable web sites.  He has also set it up for me so that if it blocks a site I want to go to, I can enter a password and I can get on the site.  Now don't think I go to offensive sites!  Actually we have the settings pretty high so if I want a recipe that uses white meat chicken, it will frequently be blocked (I think if br**st appears more than once the page is blocked.)  It also blocks most stain removal sites (bl**d, w*ne.)  I have to use the stars or I'd be blocked from my own blog!

Hopefully you found some of this helpful!  And you learned something new about how to protect yourself.
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Jun. 16, 2008

Guess what we got today?

Storm 1, a little past 1pm



After I took this picture, the boys found some even larger hail stones about the size of golf balls.

Storm 2, nearly 7 just as I was getting ready to post the above picture.


Hail is pretty rare around here, and I have never seen hailstones as large as the ones in the first picture.  Then five minutes later the sun was out again.
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Jun. 12, 2008

Crockpots, sewing machines and moon sand

I am very conflicted regarding my crockpot!  On one hand I love the convenience of being able to start my dinner in the morning, before life gets crazy here.  I love being able to easily make soups and chili in the winter and I love being able to cook in the summer without heating my entire kitchen (if it gets too hot, I will put the crockpot in the garage.)  On the other hand, smelling dinner cooking all day never fails to make me hungry all day!  Maybe I should always put the crockpot in the garage! 

It has been quite warm here for the last week, and I don't have any summer skirts.  So while my guys are camping this weekend I am going to get out my sewing machine and make myself a few lightweight skirts.  The pattern I have is very easy, just a simple 4 panel skirt, and I can make about 3 skirts in 2 hours including cutting out.  That is if my sewing machine will cooperate.  My machine is about 20 years old (not terribly old in the sewing machine world) and it is in desperate need of a tune up.  I keep telling myself I'll get it in "next month" and for the last 8 years, "next month" hasn't arrived.  Oh well, maybe next month. 

Does anyone else have a child who is in love with Moon Sand?  My youngest loves it!  He loves sand in general, we always have grit on the floors all summer because he loves his sandbox and is constantly tracking it in.  So this past Christmas my mom (I think) got him some Moon Sand so he could have sand all winter too.  It molds like wet sand, but it doesn't need water.  I also think it cleans up easier than the regular stuff.  Here he is having a blast!  Check out the elbows.
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Jun. 10, 2008

New Projects

The temperatures here seem to be beginning to moderate here a bit today.  We had quite a bit of rain last night and this morning which helped.  This is my favorite time of year to be homeschooling!  The boys are usually done with their lessons, or very nearly so.  And they can spend most of their time outdoors or helping others.  They have helped my dad put a new roof on his porch, helped my sister spread mulch, dirt and then lay sod and helped my MIL with some of her yard work.  They have also been working in my gardens and they have planted their own patch of Atlantic Giant pumpkins that they want to try to milk feed (ala Farmer Boy). 

There is also DS1's newest project:

Yes, that's a bee hive!  The bees were his birthday gift from my parents.  He actually installed them about 2 weeks ago which involves turning the box they arrive in upside down inside the hive and gently shaking them out.  He was telling me how 'cool' it was to have a bunch of bees swarming all around him.  Unfortunately we were not able to get back to the hive for a couple of weeks to remove the box and in that time the bees were mighty busy as you can see:

That's comb in the circle and it's attached to the box the bees arrived in rather than the frames where it is supposed to be.  The new comb was filled with larvae so he put it back in the hive, hopefully they will now start filling the frames.
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Jun. 5, 2008

Here comes the heat

It is finally getting warm here!  May was unusually cool, including several nights of frost.  I had to move my plants in every night or I would have lost them.

Tonight's dinner was supposed to be chicken pot pie, but it's going to be way too hot to have the oven on that long this afternoon.  Especially since we live in an area where air conditioning is not generally needed and therefore we don't have it.  Besides after paying to heat the house all winter I like having the summer off from high electric/gas bills.  So I decided to take the chicken I was going to use in the pie and make it into chicken salad.  I also made biscuits when I first got up to have with it.  So I won't need the oven on at all today.

Tomorrow is supposed to be my biweekly shopping trip, but since it is going to be near 90, the boys and I have decided to go today.  The grocery store, drug store, bank, hardware store, butcher shop and dollar store are all within about a mile of our home and the library is only about 2 miles (but only 3 blocks from my mom's), so we are trying to walk to all of those places as much as we can.  To make that a bit easier I bought this grocery cart from Bed Bath and Beyond.
The boys call it my "granny cart" but it is larger than the typical 2 wheel carts I have seen and will hold 2 weeks of groceries for my family of 5 if I don't need too much, 1 week if I do.  We have also begun buying all of our meats from a local butcher shop, the prices are a bit higher than the grocery store, but the quality is much better.  And it's only about 2 blocks from our house.  I just hope it doesn't rain, at least not until we get home!
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Jun. 4, 2008

Happy Birthday


My "baby" turned 14 yesterday.  I can't believe how fast the time has gone!  He is growing into an amazing young man.  He is now a Star scout (nearly Life) and was just elected into the local chapter of Order of the Arrow.  He is going to Sea Base in Key West this summer and is working to raise the money to pay for the trip.  No matter what he learns ON the trip, he's learning a lot getting there!
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Jun. 4, 2008

Blog Break Over

My unplanned blog break is over.  In the last 2 months we finished school and cub scouts for the summer and have 1 boy scout meeting left (which just leaves camping trips).  We also planted our big vegetable garden and the flower beds around our house.  We decided to move our tomatoes and still have to rototill the new bed for them.  The strawberries have taken over the bed they were sharing with the tomatoes and I don't want to weed out the strawberries.  Maybe THIS year I'll have enough for jam after the kids eat their fill (is that possible?) 

Anyway, I'm back and I'll be updating often.
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Apr. 4, 2008

Paint, math and more!

My husband took a few days off this week with the intention of repainting our living room.  Our boys were excited to help, that is until they had to calculate the square footage of the walls so we knew how much paint to buy.   After the hard part was done they thought the painting could begin.  Dad burst that bubble though when he told them the walls had to be washed first.  Then the spackling and then FINALLY the painting began.  Actually the priming began.  Everyone but me got involved.  Dad did most of the cut in work, DS1 and DS2 rolled primer on and DS7 had his own little brush to cut in around the outlets and heating vents.  I washed furniture, molding and swept the floor.  I'm a terrible painter!  I can't seem to even pick up a brush without getting paint all over.    So yesterday the whole house smelled like old gym socks and today my walls are a blotchy white.  My DH and I are going out this morning to buy the paint, we picked out a sort of light pumpkin color and then the guys will finish painting, hopefully it will only take one coat.  I am going to wash the slipcovers and drapes.  By the end of the day the room should look completely new!
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Mar. 30, 2008

Snowy Sunday

This weekend was Maple Weekend in NY. Participating sugar 'shacks' open their facilities to the public, many give tours, have demonstrations and have loads of samples. The place we went to this year did a tree tapping demonstration. They sure have come a long way since buckets! Although there was a tree with a bucket low enough so the kids could see the sap running, unfortunately it was too cold. They also had horse drawn carriage rides through the woods which DS3 really wanted to do. But we pointed out that his Grandpa John has horses and bought a buggy last year so he could have his very own ride and not have to share it with 25 other people jammed onto one wagon. For me it's a chance to buy maple covered peanuts, a once a year treat. My boys prefer the maple fluff though, think cotton candy made with maple syrup instead of sugar. We also decided to sample the maple cream, the best way I can think to describe it is whipped maple syrup so that you can spread it like butter. And of course we bought syrup, I'm not sure if it's cheaper that buying the real stuff from the grocery store (around here it goes for about $16 per quart) but I like supporting local farmers. Real maple syrup is much better for you than the flavored syrups most people use and I am trying to switch to natural sweeteners instead of the man made ones. So I plan on experimenting with this a bit, my husband's company has a store less than a mile from the farm we went to so I can have him stop and pick some up next time he's down there if I need more. Now I just have to order more bees! Our bees died about a year and a half ago and when my dad tried to order them last year all the suppliers were sold out. I just broke down and bought a bunch of honey, I can't remember the last time I paid for it. Makes me think we should have been selling our honey all this time, I'd probably have the house paid off! :)) Not really, we only had 3 hives at most, usually only 2 though. But more than enough for our family every year.


My boys just called me, they are out in the woods sledding down the steepest trail, dubbed 'scary hill' due to a bit of an incident during a hay ride several years ago when the tractor slipped out of gear as we were going down. We got about 2 inches of snow Thursday night and there is still some on the ground. There is just a bit of snow left in the open areas, but apparently there is enough left in the woods to sled. And to think some of you are planting seeds, mowing your lawn, watering your garden. Yesterday the boys started a fire in our outdoor fire pit so that they could "forge a sword." They found an old broken tool handle that they wanted to turn into a sword, they heated it and pounded it flat. Next they plan on using a file to sharpen the edge. I'm thinking it will be like the dugout canoe they started a few years back. The log is probably going to rot in place before they finish it. But it keeps them busy.


Is it just me or have any of you noticed a difference between homeschooled boys and those that go to public/private schools in the way they are growing up? My boys seem to be maturing completely different than some of their friends. In some ways they are much more mature, they are more responsible, they seem less peer dependent and more secure in who they are. But in other ways they seem more child-like, they are more imaginative in their play, less in a hurry to extend their boundaries and seem to 'need' less in order to be happy. Of course, those things may also be a sign of maturity. I have to wonder if developing in a secure environment, rather than the dog-eat-dog environment that develops in most school settings, allows them to develop more as individuals instead of the more peer dependent adolescents that seem so typical. It will be interesting to watch them grow into adults, to see how different the process is.

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Mar. 27, 2008

"Bugs" Going Around

Just as I was getting into my spring cleaning we got hit with a virus. I'm only just today feeling better after having it for over a week. My oldest is still suffering a bit. Thankfully we didn't have any terrible messes to clean up.

My spring cleaning is a bit behind schedule, obviously. I have just been (sort of) keeping up with my daily work but I haven't had the energy to do anything extra. I hope to be able to do the Master Bedroom tomorrow since it won't take too much effort. I try to keep my bedroom clean and free from clutter all the time. So I will have to vacuum under the bed, wash the windows and curtains and dust behind the furniture. If I have time I'll tackle the upstairs bathroom while I'm working up there. That will take longer. :)

Next week my husband is taking a few vacation days and we are planning to paint the living room. I am leaning towards a medium pumpkin color to match my moss green drapes and slip covers. The walls right now are a sort of lilac with a brown glaze rag rolled over it. I hated it as soon as we finished it, about 8 years ago, but there was no way I was painting over it right away. Besides we removed some paneling from one of the walls before we painted and that wall was in pretty awful shape and the textured paint hid the imperfections. Otherwise we would have had some major spackling to do. Of course the wall hasn't healed itself, so we will have to smooth over the surface of the wall before we paint it. Actually I can't wait until it's done. The first in a long list of home improvement projects we are doing this year.

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Mar. 23, 2008

Happy Easter!!

Alleluia! Alleluia!  Alleluia!

The strife is o'er, the battle done.
The victory of life is won;
The song of triumph has begun.
Alleluia!

The powers of death have done their worst,
But Christ their legions hath dispersed:
Let shout of holy joy outburst.
Allelulia!

The three sad days are quickly sped,
He rises glorious from the dead:
All glory to our risen Head!
Alleluia!

He closed the yawning gates of hell,
The bars from heav'n's high portals fell;
Let hymns of praise his triumph tell!
Alleluia!

Lord by the stripes which wounded thee,
From death's dread sting thy servants free,
That we may live and sing to thee.
Alleluia!

Alleluia!  Alleluia!  Alleluia!



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Mar. 5, 2008

Still On

Well we did get a bunch of ice, but our power is still on.  Yippee!  I could hardly sleep for awhile last night because of the ice hitting the windows.  The storm began as snow, which is good because that makes the ice easier to shovel up.

Today I'm going to 'unprocrastinate' my linen closet and my refrigerator.  I'll update later this afternoon.
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Mar. 4, 2008

Tuesday

Flashlight?  Check.  Extra batteries?  Check.  Extra food?  Check.  Lamp oil?  Check.  Gas for the generator?  Check!  Well that's about all I can think of for the coming ice storm that may or may not hit here.  The winds passing over Lake Erie can be a bit very unpredictable.  But I can hear the sleet hitting the windows as I type.  I think it's sleet, but I haven't actually ventured outside to check.  I just hope whatever it is we don't lose power until the load of laundry in the washing machine is done!    I can always hang them to dry in the basement.

I ran out to the grocery store this morning.  I hadn't actually made time to do my regular grocery shopping, but with the threat of a storm I made sure I got out and finished it.  Then we stopped at the gas station and made sure we had gas for the generator.

Now on to my closet.  I am going to admit that these are embarrassing!  Hopefully though my openness will give someone hope that they are not alone.

Before (Yikes!  Seeing a picture of it makes me realize how awful it was!)
before
All of it onto my bed.  I didn't think I was going to be able to sleep tonight!
all out and on the bed
Less than one hour later.  The bed is clear, I have a large trash pile, a donate pile and a tote of "1 and 2 sizes too small" clothes.  Anything smaller than that I donated.  Now my closet looks like this:
after
 Best of all look at what I found!
what I found The instructions to my sewing machine which is desperately in need of oil, but I needed the diagram in the book so I could figure out what to oil!  And my crochet hooks.  I bought more so I could make a couple of Christmas gifts because I couldn't find them.  But it was the container I wanted back the most.  It is an old glass Alka-Seltzer bottle that was my Grandmother's and it is where she kept all her crochet hooks.

The errands I had to run this morning meant the I had less time to work on this project than I planned so I didn't get to my linen closet.  But I still feel good about what I did accomplish.
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Mar. 3, 2008

The best laid plans of mice and men...

Did I get everything done that I planned to?  Um, no.  Did I get ANYTHING accomplished on my list.  Not a chance.  Instead of cleaning closets I made a quick trip to the pharmacy to pick up an antibiotic for my husband and then sat for another 2+ house in the dentist office while DH had an emergency root canal.  Poor guy has been having tooth trouble for awhile.  He was at the dentist office a few weeks ago and the dentist tried to treat the tooth with some topical antibiotics after drilling it out.  He said that it may clear the problem up, but it may not.  This weekend DH was in pretty serious pain, so he called this morning from work and scheduled the appointment.  About 30 minutes before I had to leave to meet DH, DS2 slipped on a bit of slush/ice and hit his leg on the newspaper box on our porch.  Poor thing was really in pain, so I put him on the couch with ice on the injury.  He still couldn't walk on it when I finally got home again, so off we went to the urgent care center for x-rays.  Fortunately nothing is broken, he's just badly bruised.  The doctor has restricted his activities for the rest of the week, but he should heal fine.

Work will wait while I take care of my family.  I'll just move today's list until tomorrow.

On a much happier note DS3 finished the 2nd reader (out of 3) for 1st grade.  He read 2 stories today so that he could start his green book tomorrow.  He's big on green.
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Mar. 3, 2008

National Procrastination Week

This is National Procrastination Week.  A week to take care of all the things we have been putting off.  So I will be blogging this week about the projects I am tackling.

Monday:  Since today is my upstairs cleaning day, I will be cleaning my closet and the linen closet.  My closet is a disaster.  I can't remember the last time I saw the floor.  The linen closet isn't too bad, but if I let it go much longer it will be. 

So is anyone joining me in 'celebrating' National Procrastination Week?  If so, leave a comment.  I'd love to hear about what you're doing, if you blog about it post a link and I'll visit.
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Feb. 28, 2008

More?!

My oldest came up to me yesterday and asked why we were not doing as much school anymore.  I explained that after our Christmas break I scaled back on the amount of work we were doing because I was tired of all the resistance I was getting to school.  In actuality I didn't change much.  We have doing History, Math, Reading, Bible and English daily.  He does Science every day and his brothers do it occasionally.  DS2 will do 2 or 3 weeks worth of Science in a day and then take some time off and we do informal Science with DS3 since he's only in 1st grade.  Art is once a week when their grandmother comes and gives lessons.  But all the same I'm amazed he is ASKING for MORE schoolwork!  Part of me is still wondering what the catch is.
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Feb. 26, 2008

How to motivate a reluctant 7 year old

My 7yo is usually very reluctant to do his school.  Most days we do 1 or 2 things then he goes to play for a bit while I help his brothers.  Later I bring him back to another subject or 2 with much gnashing of teeth.  He's supposed to do 4 things every day (math, English, phonics and reading/history- he reads a story, I read a chapter)  He's just not a 'sit down' kind of kid, not anywhere for any reason.  I try to make things as active and fun (and short) as I can, but I am just not able to ride a bike and read a book at the same time.  

This morning I had to run over to our local Boy Scout council to pick up a few things for my husband (he's the cubmaster of our youngest's pack and Committee Chairman of the older boys' troop).  While we were there we stopped in the scout shop, DS1 needed a new shirt (he's having trouble getting his buttoned it's so small), DS2 needed new pants (can't quite see his socks yet, but I'm not sure I can patch the knees again) and DS3 needed a new button for his shirt (no luck, they don't stock just buttons.).  While the older boys tried on their new uniform parts, DS3 and I wandered around a bit.  I picked up a couple of neckerchief slides (I really should buy these by the case!) and DS3 (7yo) found a Make Your Own Super Ball Kit.   He was trying to convince me to buy it for him since he wasn't getting a button.  I told him that a button wouldn't cost $5.99 like the kit.  So he reaches into his coat pocket and pulls out $6.  "I have my allowance Mom." He's really good at saving, but that's another post.  So I told him that if he wanted to use his money he could buy it, BUT he had to finish school before he could make the balls.

We came home and I did history with the older boys while DS3 hovered nearby.  Then I did math and English with him before I fixed his lunch.  As soon as he finished his last bite (while I'm still eating of course) he announced it was time to finish school.  So we finished his phonics, reading and history.  No fuss, no complaining and very little distraction.  We made his "bouncy balls" and talked about potential and kinetic energy. 

Now, what am I going to do tomorrow....
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Feb. 25, 2008

Mental Refreshment

We have had some stressful things going on around here for the last few weeks, and things are not going to be improving in the near future.  It may end up as one of those things that will just force us to redefine what "normal" is.  But we were able to get away for a few days this past weekend and just relax.  No telephones, no TV, no internet, no extended family.  It was wonderful!  We had snowball fights, we went sledding, we sat in front of a fire.  We tried to sleep late, but the dog had other plans.  I'm really glad we went.  It helped me to get a bit of a break, and helped me to look at the things that haven't changed. 
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Feb. 17, 2008

Learning to Read

What do you do when your child is not reading?  Or if they are reading well below "grade level"?  It can be difficult, but it is really best if you just wait until they are ready.  Gentle encouragement is fine, pushing is not.  Trust me, I know I've been (am?) there!

One of my biggest fears as a homeschool mom has been teaching my youngest son to read.  My older 2 went to public school through the end of 3rd and 1st grade so I had never taught reading from the beginning.  And the little bit I did do with my middle son was a disaster!  The phonics books I bought his first year home were way too easy for him so I foolishly dropped ALL phonics mostly because I didn't know enough to find another level.  I t probably would have been fine IF he continued to try to read.  But, as you can guess, he didn't.  He was never interested in children's fiction, in fact he still isn't.  And about the time kids are ready for simple chapter books there is really not much in non-fiction.  So we struggled for a long time with reading and finally compromised on the Magic Tree House books (that was if he would read anything at all!).  And he seemed stuck there for a long time, about 2 years in fact.  I tried pushing (BAD idea!), I tried ignoring and finally I just insisted he read something, anything for about 15 minutes a day.

This was about the point when my youngest was ready to start K, and I was scared stiff to teach reading again.  Especially since I felt like I'd completely messed up the first time!  We started the fall after he turned 5 anyhow.  Things seemed to go well for a bit, but after a time it was obvious he wasn't getting past the letter sounds.  The more I tried, the harder he resisted.  So learning from my mistakes the first time around, I just put the reading part of his K program aside and I tried really hard to be OK with that.  I bought a different phonics/reading program for him this year even though we had not finished the other.  If I tried to use the other, I knew he would rebel at what he would have seen as repeating K.  So instead I choose a program designed for children starting school at 6 for the first time (so everything says grade 1 on it).

We started somewhat slowly, probably even more slowly than the program suggested, but after about 3 months he just took off!  When we started he just knew the letter sounds and now, if he continues at this pace, he will finish the 1st grade program by the end of next month!  So I will be ordering the 2nd grade readers soon.

My middle son (now 11) has also taken off in reading this year.  He has been reading library books about robots, go-karts and other things he is interested in.  I know he's getting things out of them because he tells me all about what he's reading.  He also discovered classic literature.  He is reading the unabridged version of Robin Hood right now, having just finished Journey to the Center of the Earth.  I guess he just didn't care for the story lines in contemporary children's books or something.  Now I don't think he is completely understanding what he is reading in these.  But I'm not asking comprehension questions or anything like that.  I'm just glad he is reading and that by itself will improve his comprehension eventually.  If a I asked him a bunch of questions, it would just frustrate him and he would stop trying.

So my point is that it will work out fine if you wait.  I know how disheartening it can be to read about kids who taught themselves to read by age 3 when your 8 year old barely reads at all.  Trust that when they are ready they will also make up for lost time as long as you haven't turned them off to reading in the meantime (that takes longer to overcome.)  It is also important to remind yourself that while society puts a great value on children who read well, adults who read well but don't know their multiplication facts do not fare as well (ask my mom!) so take this time to encourage other interests.

Besides, there are so many gifts a person can have other than just reading.  God gave us each the gifts we will need to fulfill His purpose for us here on Earth.  As parents, we need to trust that those gifts will be there when the time is right.  We also need to accept that God may not agree with us as to what gifts our children need.  He knows the path he has planned for our child and the best we can do is pray that he shows us the things we need to teach them so they will be prepared when the time comes.
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Feb. 15, 2008

My Big Sappy Hunk!

My hunk!
I know this isn't the greatest picture, but it is HARD to find a picture of the guy whose always taking them!  In fact I wouldn't even have this one, but his boss (far left) insisted of getting a picture of the whole department (all 4 of them).  My sweetie is the second from the left.

I have to start by telling you that we don't really "do" Valentine's Day.  No, I'm not one of those women (like was recently suggested by an acquaintance) who says I don't care but secretly wants him to do something.  I really don't care.  Does it really matter if a guy shows he loves you
for 1 day out of 365? My guy shows his love every day!  I much prefer flowers or dinners out 'just because' than because a marketing promotion says he should.  I know that some women may have never had their husband call them and tell them to get a sitter for that night because he has made dinner reservations, or have him come down on a Saturday morning and announce he's taking you out for coffee.  Some guys need a reminder.  Mine doesn't.

My big date yesterday was a trip to the store to buy oil for his car.  So why do I say he's sappy (in a really good way!)?  He buys 'chick flicks' to watch with me.  Yesterday's purchase, Breakfast at Tiffany's.  He nearly bought it a couple of months ago, but we didn't have the extra money.  But yesterday we saw it on sale for 50% off (like most of the Valentine's merchandise).  I don't know when we will have a quiet evening to watch it, but it was sweet nonetheless. 

As a side note:  My youngest has been asking everyday for about 2 weeks how many days are left until Valentine's Day.  I finally asked him on Wednesday why he was so excited.  He told me " 'Cause on Friday all the candy goes on sale!"  Apparently that's what his big brothers think is the best part of Valentine's Day.
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