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May. 31, 2009
Playing In The Creek

I have posted in the past how my boys love to play in the creek while we are on our nature walks.  Last week they donned their wellingtons.  I grabbed the camera so I could take pictures.  Here they are.




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May. 30, 2009
We Have Chicks.

We got 4 Rhode Island Chicks on May 22.  Our goal is to have enough fresh eggs we don't have to buy any.  I am hoping they will eat enough bugs and grubs to help eliminate my mole problem in my yard.
Here are the boys' journal entries from May 22.

J wrote:
Today the hens came.  Bucky brought the hens.  They were four Rhode Island  Reds named Jenny, Penny, Olivia, and Mary.  I like the way they drink.  The get some water on their beak, then tilt their heads back so that the water runs down their mouth.  They do have a cycle; sleep, eat, drink, go to the restroom, sleep.  They do this a lot.  Bucky, D, and I went to buy a thermometer so we went to Nilsens to buy one.  When we got back to the house, Bucky had to go home.

D wrote:
Today Bucky brought the new hens.  There are four of them.  Jenny has a line, Mary has a dot that turns into a line, Olivia has a cross, and Penny has a dot.  They are Rhode Island Reds and are funny.  They stretch their necks when they drink.  They and sing and peck at the thermometer.

Here are some photos of the chicks.


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May. 14, 2009
Spring Activities

We've been enjoying the spring weather.  We've spent a lot of time working in the garden.  In March we installed a 12' X 8' greenhouse in our vegetable garden.  I'm enjoying the warmth and how fast the plants are growing in there.  DH continues to help me build raised beds.  He is currently working on preparing the ground for the patio we are hoping to install by summer.
This weekend DH will be building me a chicken coop.  We will be getting 4 Rhode Island Red chicks on May 22.  My mom kindly volunteered to pick them up for me, since I'm working so many Fridays this month. 
Last week we enjoyed a week long vacation which included a trip to Mendocino, CA.  I grew up visiting Mendocino several times each year.  This was our first trip as a family.  Our several other attempts have had to be canceled.  We had a wonderful time.  DH has declared it as our retreat.  We fell in love with the bed and breakfast we stayed at, Inn at Schoolhouse Creek in Little River, CA.  We would recommend it to everyone.   We stayed in the Tansy Cottage.  It was the perfect place for us.  There is a covered deck with a grill and seating.  Right out the front door is lawn chess.  Out the back door were the 2 miniature donkeys which are quite friendly.  There was a chest in the room for the dog (which we didn't bring this time, but will next time.)  They provided child size robes for the boys.  We enjoyed visiting with the owners.
Since it was raining for the first day of our trip and still windy the next, we were unable to play in tide pools, on the beach, or visit the pygmy Redwood forest.  We play to do these things on our next trip as well as rent kayaks on Big River.
We did visit the Mendocino Coast Botanical Gardens in Fort Bragg.  We had a lot of fun.  The rain made everything shimmer.  The boys had fun exploring all the paths in the effort to find the model train display.  Next time I would like to walk out to the coast and enjoy the coastal plants growing amongst the rocks.
I hope you enjoy our photos.  I am hoping the garden will look more finished and beautiful in late summer or early fall.  I can't bring myself to take pictures of it quite yet.  We still have so much to do.

We return to our school schedule on Monday.  Today I'm tired so I don't feel ready, but I'm sure we'll all be ready when Monday arrives.  I've spent a lot of time thinking and exploring ways to make our struggles less.  I have had a lot of help and encouragement.  The boys and I have talked about my concerns and what our goals should be.  They are ready for the challenge.  DH is going to help with the writing/spelling aspect of school.  In addition he is going to start asking direct questions about what each one has learned.  Neither one does well if they are asked direct questions.  If they are allowed to tell a story they do fine, but they cannot communicate the same information if questioned.  J continues to struggle with spelling.  He has shown improvement, but we have a long way to go.  D still struggles with legible handwriting.  He has excellent spelling.  They both have wonderful ideas and are very intelligent, but I am unable to read what they write.  We've purchased voice recorders for them and will have them type their written assignments in hopes that this will help in both areas.
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Mar. 13, 2009
My Baby Is Becoming A Man

     A week and half ago I realized my baby is becoming a man.  When the boys had finished swimming, J came out to wait with me.  His hair was sticking straight up (just like when he was born).  I reached up and started to smooth it down.  He crossed his arms, wrinkled his nose, and said, "Mom." in that tone which indicates he's embarrassed. 
   Lately he has been taking on manly chores and responsiblities.  He loaded the groceries into the trunk of the car this Tuesday with minimal assistance from me, closed the hood, and returned the cart.  I just looked at him with surprise and said, "Well, I guess I'll just sit in the car and let you do your thing."  His response was, "Sounds good to me."
   We've been working on building a greenhouse this week.  He has been a huge help.  He has screwed pieces together and helped with some of the harder assembly.  He's been amazing and quite helpful.
   This morning he woke up and did his chores without prompting.  His dad even commented on his mature ways and was quite pleased.
   He has done things to show that the little boy is still hiding inside.  He had a lot of fun with the suction at the dentist during his fluoride treatment.  He had that mischievous sparkle in his eyes.  He  takes joy in playing with the older boys.  He's been playing football and Ultimate with the junior high aged boys after cross country practice. He still plays with his brother.  Lately they have been into sword and cudgel fighting.  I have to watch them because they have given each other some pretty good bruises.
   It's amazing how fast they grow up.  It seems like only yesterday that he was a baby in my arms.  Now he's 10 1/2 years old and turning into quite a not so little man.
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Feb. 27, 2009
Beginning To Find A New Routine

   We are beginning to find a new routine for our life.  This is the first week in almost 12 years of marriage where both DH and I have been on a day shift schedule.  I have gotten up early every morning.  I like the 30-60 minutes of quiet.  I use it to start the laundry, read my Bible and pray, and if everyone is still asleep I start doing the housework.  I really like it.  It's much better than waking up when the house is in full swing.  The boys beg to differ when they walk into a room with lights on.
  I feel like I have much better time with God in devotion.  It sets the day off to a much nicer start.  I have been finding that I'm more prayerful during the day.  I'm trusting in God more each day.  My faith is growing deeper.
  The family likes our new routine because I have more energy to do things with them.  I think I probably have a more pleasant affect as well.  I am able to accomplish more.  I did get into trouble with my mom because she doesn't think I'm resting enough while I'm still recovering from what I'm sure was a viral pneumonia.  She says I need to learn more self-control.  I told her I just want to be normal again.  I'm tired of being sick and short of breath.
  I look forward to resuming regular exercise.  I wanted to wait until my cough is resolved.  I'm a little concerned I won't be able to run in the Foggy Bottoms Milk Run on March 8.  Another mom has volunteered to run with D if I am unable.
  You may chuckle at what I am adjusting to.   I still look at the clock at work and write the wrong time.  I discharged a patient at 1:05 p.m. on Wed.  On her discharge sheet I wrote the time as 0105 instead of 1305.  Sometimes I feel a little disoriented.  Also, I'm not used to all the help we have on days.  I'm used to doing it all on my own.   You may not chuckle at this adjustment.  Please pray about it.  I've been waking up around 3am every morning worried I overslept my alarm.  Then I have trouble falling back asleep.  I'm hoping to learn to stay in a deep sleep until wake up time.
  I'm looking forward to more garden time.  I'm praying tomorrow will be as nice as today.  My greenhouse is due to arrive on March 5.  I'm hoping to have the garden ready to assemble it by that weekend.  I have stayed inside more while I'm finishing my recovery.  It has rained on all my days off except long enough to take our nature walk.
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Feb. 21, 2009
My First Week On Day Shift

   My first week on day shift did not go as well as I would have liked.  None of the difficulties were related to work.  The unfortunate events began last Saturday (while I was on-call for my last night shift).  I began having trouble with my asthma.  By the time we were supposed to leave for Sacramento on Sunday afternoon I was having chills and had a terrible cough.  By Wednesday, the boys were sick and I was into my 4th day of having a fever.  Therefore, I had to call in sick for my first scheduled shift on days.
   Friday morning I was ready to work, but my car wouldn't start.  I had to wait over an hour to get the car jump started.  I was an hour late for work and my car died in the hospital parking lot.  We had to drive up there today and have it towed to the dealership for who knows what repairs.
   My actual work day was quite nice.  Even though I was still recovering from being sick and distracted by trying to get the car fixed, I enjoyed  myself a lot.  I can tell that I will have more energy overall.  Friday was a mellow day, but I could easily have done more work.
     What I liked best is I woke up today well rested.  I was able to clean the house, deal with the car, and spend time with my family.  I like that one work day didn't effect 2 days.  This will allow me to be more purposeful with homeschooling, help me whittle away at my multiple to-do lists, and allow for more adventures
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Feb. 13, 2009
A Fun Endeavor

   My DH decided tonight that he wanted to start a blog for the dog.  I'm sure we'll all have fun writing about his adventures.  He is such a huge part of our family.  Before we got him as a puppy the boys were very afraid of dogs.  From the instant they met Isaac their fear was cured.  Now D insists on calling him his brother.
   I hope you joy us in our fun and read Isaac's blog.
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Feb. 9, 2009
Coming to Days Near You

It's official.  I have 2 more night shifts left.  I'm so excited.   I've still been struggling with staying awake on the drive home.  I just need to get on a normal schedule.  I've been getting up at 5:30 a.m. on my days off.  The mornings are great.  I have time for quiet devotional, 2 loads of laundry, and 30-45 minutes of housework before the rest of the house wakes up.  The first thing we do together is go for a run (and tomorrow a bike ride).  The dog loves the added activity.
I do seem to get a little tired around 3-4:00 in the afternoon, but if I sit and rest for a while I'm good to go.
I thank God for all His blessings.  We've sought His will in all we do.  A year ago DH started a secular job.  At that time we thought it would take 2-3 years to get me to part-time and working days was not even in the picture.  I appreciate my in-loves for all their help, encouragement, and time.  We have placed great demands on them by asking them to help with caring for the boys.  My mother-in-love really enjoys helping with the homeschooling.  I know she has been missing it in the past few months, but it was too hard to coordinate 2 full-time jobs and explaining lesson plans to someone else, so I just did it all.  It meant the boys had to become much more self-motivated and self-directed.  I think it was a good lesson for them to learn.
I know there will be more adjustments in store for me.  Not only do I have to get used to waking up at 4:30 a.m. 2 days/week, the routine and culture on days is different than nights.  God is in all and overall.  He will provide me with the strength to do all I am called to accomplish.  I pray for grace, patience, and wisdom.
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Feb. 5, 2009
Happily Knitting

  I'm finding more  reasons to enjoy being at home more.  The best reason is the additional time I have with the boys.  I have taken up the habit of knitting while they are doing their independent school work and during the times when they need verbal instruction only.  They enjoy having me nearby and don't mind sharing the space around me with yarn.
   I must admit that I have become quite addicted to knitting.  It will be 2 years in April since I started knitting.  I feel like I now have time to start venturing beyond learning the basics.  I still haven't made anything with cables, but I have played with them and read plenty.  I think I'll try a hat or other small project soon.
   I have been reading excerpts of Elizabeth Zimmerman's books and reading reviews.  I have become  quite fascinated with what I have read and heard.  I like her style.  In the small passages I've read I've felt like an old friend was talking to me.  I told my DH her name and requested her books in the future.  With money being watched more closely, I'm not going to just purchase her books.
   I'm currently working on several projects, including my 2 forever projects which I hope to finish within the year.  Those 2 projects are the blanket shawl for my mom and the 2 twin-size bedspreads I'm making for the boys.  I'm forever grateful for the help my mother-in-law is providing with the bedspreads.  Without her help they would never be finished.  My other projects are a sweater for myself and baby gifts for friends and co-workers of relatives.  The sweater is a bit selfish, but the yarn was purchased with a gift certificate with specific instructions to only use for myself.  The yarn is swan colored Cotlin from Knit Picks.  I'm making the cover sweater from Fitted Knits.  I did make the key-hole at the shoulder smaller and am considering making the side vents one piece so I can continue in the round.  If I continue in the round I'll sew buttons on for decoration.
  I am making future plans for sweaters for the boys and DH.  Soon I will revisit making the Fantasy Story animals and people for the boys.  The baby gifts are quick knits and are giving me much satisfaction at the moment.
  One of my favorite things about knitting is I can be productive while resting and spending time with my family.  I also like to use the time for prayer and devotion. 
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Jan. 26, 2009
Nature at Francis Creek

   There is a creek which winds through the town with several bridges throughout town and access at the park.  The boys love to follow the changes in the creek throughout the year.  With the recent nice weather which was followed by light rain the creek is full enough to be fun but not so fast the boys can't play along the banks.  It is their favorite place to visit during nature walk.
   Today the boys saw a doe and 2 fawns which bounded down the dirt path to the creek.  Last Thursday, we saw a tree laden with red berries full of red-breasted robins.  The boys  spent quite a while observing their comings and goings.  There must have been at least 20 birds, a mix of male and female.  We had fun listening to the baby birds and trying to figure out where their nests were located.
    We brought the camera with us on our walk today in hopes of seeing the birds once again, but we didn't have any luck.  The boys had fun climbing on the retaining boulders and retrieving small limbs from the creek to use as walking sticks.  They used the sticks to measure the depth of the water and figured it was about 12" deep.
    Here are some of the pictures we took.
J is retrieving a stick for D to use as a walking stick.

J is measuring the depth of the water.

D took this picture of his brother and the creek.

J took this picture of his favorite view of the creek.  Just beyond the border of this photo is the sandy bank where the boys play and explore during the summer and fall.  This is the area where all the children at J's last birthday party slipped and fell into the creek.  They all went home soaking wet, but happy.
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Jan. 13, 2009
Part-Time and Loving It

  Last week was my first week as part-time.  It took until Thursday to feel any real difference.  I did spread the housework over the week.  That was nice and allowed me to spend more time with the boys.
  We have spent time reading the Bible, reading Prince Caspian, baking, and playing together.  I taught them how to latch hook last week (when I wrote about our school plans I messed up on what our handicrafts were going to be).  The boys really took to latch hook.  J will be finished with his project as soon as he finishes sewing the backing on.  D is still working on the latch hook portion.
   I have had a lot more time to knit.  I'm working on a project for a coworker's 1st grandbaby.  I hope to be finished with it by the end of the week.  My in-loves gave me a wonderful knitting book for Christmas.  I'll write an entry about it at a later date.
  Yesterday we had one of the boys' friends over for the afternoon and evening.  We made pretzels together and played the Monopoly Card game.  We used to have fun game nights together with her parents.  I should talk to Heidi about planning another one soon.
   School will start back up on Tuesday.  Monday is a bank holiday, so we have decided to delay school by one day.  The boys requested to be granted holidays from school on the weekdays their dad has a bank holiday.  We thought it was a reasonable request and agreed to it.
  This coming Monday will be a day off for all of us.  I should think a fun adventure for us to go on.  Maybe to the wildlife preserve if the weather permits it.  If we go, I'll be sure to take the camera.
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Dec. 1, 2008
The Count Down Has Begun

    For those of you who have kept in contact with me by other means already know about the count down.  For everyone else, the count down is until I drop down to part-time and begin earnestly awaiting an imminent move from night shift to day shift.


5 weeks!!
  

      J began working full-time at the bank in October, which is much sooner than we thought he would be able to secure a permanent full-time position.  On the same day he received the offer for the position, I was informed that it was my turn to go to days if I wanted it.  The Lord has really blessed us and we are very thankful. 
    The past 2 months have been a challenge to say the least.  I think we have done quite well with the Lord's guidance and strength.  Our families have been a great help.  The boys have worked very hard and have been self motivated with their school work.  We have done very well to stay on track even with me being tired and in a lot of pain. 
   I haven't worked part-time since J was 4 months old and that was only for a brief 2 month period before I had to start working full-time.  I have never worked a day shift.  In fact during our entire 11 1/2 year marriage one of us has worked night shift.  We are excited to become a normal family with normal sleep cycles.
   I know I will have more time at home.  I'm looking forward to having a more consistent schedule, more energy, and better quality time with my family.  I know I won't be able to accomplish everything I would like to, but I will be able to accomplish more than I do now.    By going part-time I will be able to split my days and only rarely work back to back.  I'm sure this is going to help me keep up on the housekeeping and homeschooling much better.  As it is now, I work a marathon to clean the house, complete the weekly chores and errands, and complete the bulk of the homeschooling in 2 or 3 days each week, only to be working for 3 days and 1 day turning myself back around from night shift.  I'm looking forward to how our life will change.
    God has been very good to us.  We have put our faith and trust in him.  We have waited on His time for me to go part-time and for J to take over the main bread winning.  After many years He has said yes and we are so thankful.  Please pray that the remaining 5 weeks will go smoothly and the transition will be as easy and smooth as possible.   Please don't be surprised if you don't hear from me in this remaining time.  I have the goal of being able to blog consistently come January.
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Sep. 3, 2008
Self Initiative

    I just love that the boys take initiative to learn on their own.  Even thought they are enjoying their break from school work, they have chosen to get a headstart on a few subjects.  When J found out that he would be studying about Lewis and Clark for biography this year he went to the library and checked out the Ken Burns documentary "Lewis and Clark."  The boys have been watching the videos while playing or during quiet time before bed.

   I really enjoy listening to their discussions regarding some of the events and people met along the way.  They haven't broken out the map yet, but I'm sure they will at some time, because that is something they have done in the past.

    Another subject they are getting a head start in is handicrafts.  On Saturday we stopped by Michael's on the way home from the fellowship at the church in McKinleyville.  There weren't any Christmas ornament kits available yet, so the boys chose from the available beginner kits.  D chose a dolphin which is stamped on white sail cloth with glow in the dark ink.  J chose a lighthouse scene which is simple, but nice.  They have been asking to work on them everyday.  On Saturday, I was too tired after a full day and today I didn't have enough time to work with them between shifts.

  I love that we can place opportunities in front of the boys and they will enthusiastically embrace them.

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Aug. 26, 2008
My Boy Is Growing Up

    J just completed his first errand unaccompanied.  I knew the day was coming.  I've been preparing him and I for today, but it is still a milestone.  J walked to the Town Hall to deliver our rent check and he even had to give our landlady a message from his dad.  I sent him with my cell phone, after making sure he knew how to use it.
    I thought about calling Nancy to let her know he was coming, but I decided not to.  He made the walk easily and was back sooner than I thought he would be.  When I asked him how it went, he was very casual and confident.
    I know we have completed that walk many times in the past 9 years, so it shouldn't be a big deal.  It just strikes me how grown up he's becoming.  He'll be 10 years old next month and the apron strings are being slowly cut.  I'm proud of him.
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Aug. 25, 2008
School Year Planning

    I'm anxiously patiently waiting for the school books for the coming year to arrive so I can finalize the lesson plans and assignments.  D is entering "3rd grade" and J is entering "5th grade."  Much of what we have done in the past has worked well, but Latin has been a struggle.  J and I have worked very hard together with very little success.  I came to the conclusion about a month ago that it was a bad fit between us and the curriculum we have been using.  I don't think that Memoria Press is a bad program to use, it just isn't the best one for us.
    After searching and reviewing various programs for Latin.  We have decided to try Latin In The Christian Trivium.  The appealing features are the use of stories, a variety of Bible verses to memorize, and the activities.  It will allow for using a variety of learning styles. We are going to use it for both boys and allow them to be completely self-paced.
    Here is a summary of our plans for the year.
Together the boys will study:
Nature Study will include trees, insects, weather, and flowers.
Bible will continue to be Bible Study For All Ages.  We really like using it.  We've had many thoughtful studies. 
Copywork
will continue to be our memory verse in English, Spanish, and Latin.
For Spanish, we will start using an old college text, Foundations In Spanish.  It has good explanations, good dialog practice, a good glossary, and lectures on different Spanish speaking countries.
Sign Language will utilize a 4 CD-ROM set from Instant Immersion.  It includes video tutorials, a dictionary, and games.
Physical Education will continue to include cross country, rollerblading, bicycling, pilates, and various games such as basketball, baseball, soccer, etc.
Composer Study, and Artist Study will follow the rotations from Ambleside Online.
They will continue to study the Cello for Music. D may switch to the violin as he really wants to learn to play the violin.
Handicrafts will include a stamped cross-stitch ornament, a stamped embroidered hand towel, a sewn artist case and mini quilt, and a latch hook rug.
Art will be How Great Thou Art Book 1.
Hymn Study still needs to be decided.  I'm waiting for the principal to give direction here.  The songs will be studied in English and Spanish.
Folk Song Study still needs to be decided as well, see above regarding the principal.

Year 3 for D:
History, Geography, Biography, Literature, Shakespeare, and Poetry,  will follow the Year 3 plan from Ambleside Online.
Math will follow Math Made Meaningful Level 3.
Science will be Apologia Press Botany.

Year 5 for J:
History, Biography, Literature, Shakespeare, Plutarch and Poetry will follow the Year 5 plan from Ambleside Online.
Math will be Math Made Meaningful Level 5.
Science will follow Apologia Press Swimming Creatures.

    The boys take great pride in their learning.  They are very self-motivated and have a lot of fun.  Whenever I think a week is getting too busy and challenging they surprise me by exceeding my expectations.
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Aug. 14, 2008
2 Red Ribbons

J's cookies did very well at the fair.  He earned 2 second place ribbons.  He's very proud of how he did.  Both boys are making plans for next year.
Football inspired frosted sugar cookies.

Yummy Honey Chocolate Chip Cookies.  These are light cake-like cookies.

The boys had fun at the fair.  They rode rides and climbed the "rock" wall.
J climbed to the top in 10 seconds flat.  This is one of the reasons why we call these boys our monkeys.

D surprised us by wanting to climb the wall.  He was very brave and worked to overcome his fear of heights quite nicely.

    We always love to visit the animals.  The goats are our favorites.  They have such friendly personalities.  We would have a goat if the property wasn't filled with rhododendrons, which are deadly and irresistible for goats.
DH has a beautiful new admirer.
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Aug. 6, 2008
Cookies and The Fair

    J is currently working on the cookies he will be entering in to the county fair later this afternoon.  He's has gotten so good at baking cookies that I'm only needed for consultation and taking hot sheet pans out of the oven.
    He's making frosted sugar cookies and honey chocolate chip cookies.  The sugar cookies are in the shapes of footballs, trophies, and football helmets.  He's decided to go with the colors of the high school here in town since the fair is held just down the street.  I'll take pictures of him with his cookies and post them when I know how he placed in his division.
    The honey chocolate chip cookies are soft, moist, and cake-like.  They have been popular at all the events he's taken them to.  He found this recipe on his own.  It's in my Culinary Arts Institute Encyclopedic Cookbook.  I can't believe I have missed this wonderful recipe in all the years I've used my mom's cookbook and now my own. 
    J has been watching the Food Network Challenges on T.V.  He has decided that he admires the work of pastry chefs, but is not interested in that type of work.  He would like to be a chef, own a family restaurant with his cousin, and make wedding and other special occasion cakes for people.
    Well I'm off to take photos.
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Aug. 3, 2008
Getting Back To Normal

    I know it has been a long time since I've written anything.  This past month has been good and challenging at the same time.  I'll give everyone a quick summary.
    D had a lovely Bible birthday party.  I dressed up as Esther, which meant I was able to wear the dress my mom and I made for DH's and my vow renewal 6 years ago.  D was King David, J was Joseph, husband of Mary, and DH was Abraham.
    The day after the party we left for Family Camp.  We had a lovely week at Richardson Grove RV park.  We stayed in a cabin this year.  That was much easier than moving in and out of the tent several times a day.  Our dog, Isaac enjoyed having a shady place to relax.  The Bible classes were stimulating and fruitful in growth.  We studied the history of the Church.  We had fun with crafts and activities.  We made new friends.  We even gained two new brothers in Christ.
    One of those new brothers was D.  He requested to be baptized within an hour of our return home on Saturday, July 5.   Just the immediate family was present, because he felt shy.  The angels in heaven are still rejoicing with me.
    The bad news was that immediately upon returning home from camping I developed shingles.  It took me a week to figure it out and become resigned to my fate.  I thought the pain was just the chronic pain I have in my left arm and the itching was from the countless bug bites I received despite all possible precautions.  This meant I spent an additional 2 weeks off from work.  No one wanted me to give chickenpox to a newborn.  I spent a week on Valtrex and another week on prescription strength hydrocortisone.  I returned to work this past Friday.  I hadn't worked in 5 weeks.  ( I must say I really enjoyed not working despite being sick).
    In addition to shingles, my computer broke (that explains no blogging) and my purse broke (an annoyance which will be quickly remedied).  I now have a new computer which is fancy, fast, and nice.  I'm starting to get used to Vista.  There are a few things that I don't like, but I'm a nurse and a mom so I've learned to be flexible.
    We did have some fun even though my vacation wasn't quite what I expected.   The garden is in, finally.  DH has one more raised bed to finish.  I have baby radishes, carrots, broccoli, spinach, arugula, lettuce, cucumber (I thought I would try even though it's late), basil, thyme, and garlic plants.  I'm still waiting for rosemary, oregano, green onions, cilantro, parsley, brussel sprouts, and 2 types of squash (see the cucumber note).  It's just been 2 weeks since I planted the seeds.  I also knit my first sweater. (I'll post photos sometime this winter.  It's to warm for alpaca, silk, and merino wool.)
I'm now working a new purse to felt.
    We did go to the beach, but only once.  We went to Fort Humboldt the Saturday they had the Steam Donkey fired up.  We rode on the train, received a good education on the Steam Donkey including physics and chemistry, picked herbs and made tea from the medicinal herb garden, made kites, and the boys earned their junior ranger badges.  That same day we went to see the Nina which was in port at Woodley Island.  I attended a bridal shower.  We also attended a 50th anniversary party.  We chose not to attend the 2 weddings due to shingles and fatigue.
    This past week, July 28-30, the church held VBS.  We had a lovely time.  We had 14 children on Monday and 13 children on Tuesday and Wednesday.  The children had fun, participated in class discussions, and all really enjoyed the crafts and games.  God really blessed the week and everything went smoothly and easily. 
    We took a lot of photos but I haven't downloaded them to the new computer yet.  I have been trying to figure it out and get everything settled.  I got it on Thursday afternoon, but worked Friday and Saturday.
    Most of my Bible study lately has been centered around Sunday Bible class and VBS.  I am preparing a devotional for Ladies' Retreat which I'll share sometime in September.
    I have spent a lot of time reflecting on priorities and balance.  I obviously didn't take a break soon enough to prevent getting sick.  It did bother me that my body was run down enough to get shingles.  I'm too young and healthy for that.  It interfered with my ability to fully serve my family and God.  I've rethought some practices I have and made some changes to allow me more rest.  I think prayer and an attitude adjustment is in need and will take more time to achieve.  I feel guilty whenever I sit down to rest, especially if someone else is working.  In the past few months I have started to remind myself that I was working while other people were sleeping, but I still feel guilty and tense.  This means I'm not really resting.
    Please pray that the proper balance will be achieved in my life between serving God, serving my family, my job, and the proper rest necessary to live my life to the fullest for God.
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Jun. 29, 2008
We've Kept Busy

    I think I am crazy sometimes.  I know I don't always have a very good idea of where my limits are.  At least that is what my DH and some of my friends insist.  This past week I realized that they were right.  I tried to do too much in one week, but I didn't realize that was the case until I started.  Unfortunately the boys were drug into my craziness.  I hope they haven't suffered too much.
    What did I do? I planned my cooking day for Tuesday, had a birthday party to plan for, a camping trip to pack for, homeschooling, guiding DH  in building the raised beds for my garden, a car repair appointment, and working a full week.  Yes, I exhausted myself and my family.  I have plans to make next year less hectic in June.  I'm going to move my cooking day up one week and just be more conscious of how to manage finances and start packing 2 weeks before Family Camp instead of one.
    I did realize that it would be unrealistic to bake bread this week.  The boys had plenty of options for lunches even without loaf bread.  They ate more vegetables.
    As it stands right now, I have to make the frosting and frost the cake and make fruit salad for the birthday party in the afternoon tomorrow today, wash 1 or 2 loads laundry, scrub the tubs and sinks, and general housekeeping before we leave for camping.  My in-laws are kind enough to care for the fish and plants while we are gone.
    The good news is, I have 17 more days off from work.  Yes, that's right.  I took a real 2 week vacation.  I only have 7 days of activity planned.  I just decided I wanted the opportunity to enjoy my family for more than 5 days of busy chores and activity.  I have never done this without having given birth or having a broken arm.  In fact, I'm taking more time off than I did when I had J.  I had 2 weeks off before I delivered D and I had a lot of fun playing with J and gardening.  What am I going to do with my time?  Play with my guys, go to the beach a couple times, garden, and knit.  It always seems we run out of time before I can do these things.  I do play with the boys for a few minutes most days, but I plan on playing with them for hours at a time.  Maybe we'll even have time for a couple tea parties.
    I'm really excited about the garden.  DH has 9 of the 12 raised beds built.  He needs to receive the last delivery of lumber in order to finish.  I will need to buy soil and compost for the beds.  I had about 6 cubic feet of compost and 32 cubic feet of soil, but that is not nearly enough to fill all the the beds.  I'm very excited.  This year I will only be able to put in fall crops and no broccoli for a while. 
    There will be no broccoli, because the fires have already begun.   Nine days ago we had dry lightening.  It basically has set Northern CA on fire.  The smoke rolled in Friday morning.  It was clear as I was driving home from work but the skies were gray when I woke up at 1pm.  The smoke is sitting high and not causing any difficulty with asthma here.  My mom says actual ash is falling at her house and my sister told me she's not allowing her children outside to play.
    Well I need to start the process of turning around to a normal day shift schedule.  I need sleep so I can be rested for worship and a birthday party.  I'll post pictures of our various activities as soon as I can.
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Jun. 15, 2008
Walking As Jesus Did

    I really love the Bible curriculum we use, "Bible Study for All Ages."  The application can allow you to search as deeply as you can.  We are studying about the descendants of Adam and Eve.  Last week was about Cain and Abel.  We discussed mastering sin.  This week the application is walking with God.  Enoch is the example; "he walked with God and was no more."
    The curriculum didn't bring in I John 1:5-7 and I John 2:3-6.  These verses have always been important to me.  "This is the message we have heard from him and declare to you: God is light; in him there is no darkness at all.  If we claim to have fellowship with him yet walk in the darkness, we lie and do not live by the truth.  But if we walk in the light, as he is in the light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus, his Son, purifies us from all sin." I John 1:5-7.  You could just keep reading to gain the full context.
    "We know that we have come to know him if we obey his commands.  The man who says, "I know him," but does not do what he commands is a liar, and the truth is not in him.  But if anyone obeys his word, God's love is truly made complete in him.  This is how we know we are in him: Whoever claims to live in him must walk as Jesus did." I John 2:3-5.
    We discussed how we could walk as Jesus did.  The boys came up we these things:
1) Serve others- by touching them physically and emotionally, giving of ourselves.
2) Know God's Word- meditating on it and studying it daily, being capable of quoting scripture.
3) Prayer- having a personal friendship with God.  We discussed the different ways in which we could commune with God.  The daily prayers, spontaneous words of confession, praise, and/or petition.
4) Teaching others- Jesus taught as he lived daily life.  He used parables and nature.
5) Obedience to God's Will- Jesus was obedient to God's will even when he had to do something he didn't want to do.  The human side of Jesus didn't want to die on the cross.  He would have gladly bore our sins in some other way if it was possible, but he was submissive to God's will.

    We discussed that walking with God required a daily commitment to remain faithful and obedient to God.  Each morning it requires us to wake up and pray, "Father, I commit myself to you today.  I want to walk hand in hand with you.  Please help me remain obedient to you and to walk as Jesus did.  Let me see each opportunity to serve your children and shine your light in the darkness."
    DH and I explained that by committing each day to the Lord would help them to stay close to Jesus side and prevent them from one day looking up and saying, "How did I get here?  I've wondered so far from home."  J brought up the Prodigal Son and how he chose to leave his father for the "better life."  "Which isn't a better life at all.  It may look good but it's just all shiny and empty," to quote J's commentary. 
    DH likened the boys' faith to this:  It's like Mommy and Daddy's faith is an oak tree and we give them each an acorn by sharing our faith and nurturing it.  We give them an acorn, they have to plant and tend it in order for it to grow.  We can share our faith and encourage them, but they have to make the personal decision to nurture and develop their own personal faith.
    We spent time this evening singing songs of prayer and praise to our Lord.  This is one of my favorite family times.  It must be all of ours because we tend to continue until the boys are exhausted and/or we lose our voices.  One song we sang tonight has the chorus:
The greatest friend you'll ever find is on a lonely mountain,
And the highest high you'll ever reach is when you kneel to pray,
And the brightest light you'll ever see is when you close your eyes.
Oh, Lord you are my first love, at last I realize.
It took my singing the chorus 3 times for J to understand what it meant.  Then I could see in his eyes how significant and special the message was. The best experience you can ever have is when you are in prayer with our Lord.
    It is good for my soul to be able to share my faith with my children.  They understand what God wills for their life and see them growing every day.
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