To begin with, during this time of recession, Xavier has been blessed with a steady job. This blessing has enabled me to continue to stay home and homeschool Cameron and Isaac, while also enabling us to continue Alex's education at a wonderful Catholic school. For my part, I have taken greater notice of my own responsibility to be a good steward of the income my husband has been able to bring home. We have had to make many small changes and several big changes in our lifestyle, but we have done it prayerful, with love and discernment. This has in turn helped us turn our eyes more to the Lord and away from other things. With this blessing, Xavier has had his traveling increased, but with that, God provided help at home for me with Zach back home for a while. Homeschooling itself continues to be a huge blessing for our family. We have all learned so much and have gotten to experience so many wonderful things! I am so grateful for the strengthened bonds of love that being at home with my boys has given myself and each other!
Next on the blessing list has to be the fact that our Kyra was finally stationed here in the United States. In May, she came home for several weeks-and they were some of the most wonderful weeks of our year! While here she was able to purchase her first car, then she and her dad made a roadtrip to California where she will be stationed for the next couple of years. They made the trip safely, praise God! She has had some adjusting to do, but she is venturing out to explore her new surroundings and take stake in her new home. Then we were doubly blessed with her being able to come back home for a long weekend for Labor Day! It was a wonderful weekend. We are SO blessed that our children have such strong, loving bonds with each other!!! That is definitely something to be grateful for!!!
Next is a sort of mixed blessing. Zach was not able to get the funding he needed for the next semester for college, due to lack of commitment on his part. He came home and told us he wants to be in the Air Force. He had already taken some of the preliminary steps but needed to lose a lot of weight to enter. Now the blessing part...losing weight was something he has needed to do for a long time and now he had the motivation to do it and do it right! He has steadily been losing weight in a healthy manner. He has been blessed with a job that leaves him free to help me here at home during the week, while keeping him busy and earning an income on the weekends. He has matured quite a bit in the last several months!
The next item on our blessing list might sound strange, but for us it was a huge thing. For several years, Xavier and I have prayed long and hard about where God wanted us to be as far as parishes. We had been with only one parish our entire time here but steadily over the years, we were aware of some needs, especially spiritual ones, that were not being met where we were at. We saw the impact the absence of those needs made on our older children and knew that our younger two needed something more. This last year, God made it very plain where we needed to be and He opened our childrens hearts to this change. Cameron has been wonderfully blessed by the childrens choir he has joined and both he and Isaac love being able to attend CCE on Sunday...truly the Lord's Day! Our hearts have been lightened with the joy of the Lord...something that was missing for a while! Who knows what the Lord has planned for us down the road, but for now, He is truly ministering to our family's heart, mind and soul! We still have ties to our other parish with many friends, and Alex has decided to spend his senior year there (although he has been attending youth nights at this new church and has been enjoying it immensely). Xavier still teaches an adult class there as well, something he is truly thankful for! Teaching gives him so many blessings!!!
Our latest blessing was the gift of Life! Alex was in a car wreck last weekend. That is a call no parent ever wants to get! Alex's guardian angel was definitely working overtime! He survived a wreck that totaled his car with no major injuries. Ok, well, maybe his pride was injured....it's really humbling to be a senior in high school, and being taxi'd around by your older brother or parents.... Seriously though, he had one tiny scratch on his wrist and some bruising of his chest. After working all evening on Halloween, he fell asleep at the wheel and ran into a parked truck! Through it all, he never lost his sense of humor (the same humor our family is notorious for...).
These were just some of the major blessings we have taken notice of this year. We know we have been blessed daily with many many other wonderful blessings both big and small.
On another note, during this month of November, our family pauses to pray for those loved ones that have passed from this life to the next. Opal Marburger and Barbara Lindberg, (my aunts) will be greatly missed until we meet again at the throne of God!
I hope this November finds others able to count the blessings in their lives! It is a great thing to look at our blessings received, as we then get ready to receive the gift of Christ during the season of Advent and finally Christmas time itself!
I want to end this entry with a small excerpt from our Letter from the Pastor in today's bulletin. I found that while it applies not only in the context of our parish life, but also in the lives of our families at home!:
"We are not here merely to maintain a bunch of buildings and programs to serve ourselves and
our needs. We can fall too easily into the trap of doing the same things in the same way
because that is how we have always done them. It is hard to maintain any kind
of vitality when we fall into maintenance only mode.
No, we are here on a mission, we exist and called to mission work!
Our mission is to love God and to grow in holiness and goodness. Our mission
is to love God and share that love with others in words, action, service and
worship. ." Fr. Troy Gately
FOR YOUR TOMORROW WE GAVE OUR TODAY

"In Flanders Fields
by John McCrae, May 1915
In Flanders fields the poppies blow
Between the crosses, row on row,
That mark our place; and in the sky
The larks, still bravely singing, fly
Scarce heard amid the guns below.
We are the Dead. Short days ago
We lived, felt dawn, saw sunset glow,
Loved and were loved, and now we lie
In Flanders fields.
Take up our quarrel with the foe:
To you from failing hands we throw
The torch; be yours to hold it high.
If ye break faith with us who die
We shall not sleep, though poppies grow
In Flanders fields."
Hi all! It is a great day in the Lord ! Roosie,Hoopy and I are in
Hey everyone! We are back! Our crew brought home 17 medals today. Hoopy and Roosie both got several first place medals. Hoopy has 5 medals total and Roosie has 7. They all did a tremendous job and I am so proud of them. Well it is late and I am tired so goodnight all! Blessings! ~ Nikki
Don't forget that the last day for nominations for the Homeschool Blog Awards is today!
Blessings! ~ Nikki
Sonia over at Homeschool Treasure Trove gave me this gorgeous Blogger award. Thanks Sonia!

Now I have to tell you six things you might not know about me.
1. I randomly speak in movies quotes with my family.
2. I grew up a certified countrified farm girl and I miss it too.
3. I know what it is like to carry your drinking water from the spring. My maternal Grandparents and Great Grandmother did not have running water (unless you count the current in the spring LOL)
4. I have met Mrs. Dolly Parton several times. (And yes she is a veeeery distant cousin lol). I even got to watch her film a Christmas movie at a local covered bridge that was 300 feet from my house.
5. White Christmas is one of my all time fave Christmas movies and has been since my teen years when my cousin Noo and I would get together and watch it each year.
6. I love walking in the rain. Always have and hopefully always will.
Now I must give this award to six of my blogger buddies.
BabyGirl at Sparrow's Pearl
Roosie at Nobody Move! I Dropped Me Brain!
Debbie at Living For Him
Shirley at My Four Miracles
Pat at Pat's Place
And finally...you! Yes You! You know who you are! That dear sweet person reading my blog...that makes you gorgeous to me! Blessings! Nikki
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!We have found some time to enjoy a few park days...but not many. Hopefully with the cooler weather coming, we can figure out how to do more of that! We had a great Museum Day this month. One of Cameron's classes was on "The Food of the Ancient Civilizations" ( the other class was on the eye, complete with dissection). Cameron got to make and taste some of the foods we had read about in our history lessons (he said the cheese was gross
). Then our IMAX (in 3D this time) was Ancient Egyptian Mummies. Again, tying in with our history class very nicely! (I like it when that happens...)We had a small field trip to the zoo to observe bears. They mostly slept. Grizzly bears have very long claws! Isaac especially enjoyed the "spectacled bears". He love saying "spectacled bears"!
This past weekend we went on something called the Texas Outdoor Family Event. The Texas Parks and Wildlife Department puts on these events at various State Parks. It is basically "camping 101" for either beginners, people like us who haven't camped in a long time, or just as a refresher course. Since each State Park is unique, each event is unique. We camped at Inks Lake State Park in Burnet, Texas. Since it had been about 7 or 8 years since we had been camping, which meant Cameron was too young to remember it, and Isaac had never been, we felt this was an excellent way to introduce the boys to outdoor adventures. The boys really enjoyed the weekend! Cameron learned how to set up camp, cook, kayak, fish and geocache. They also learned about night time sounds they might hear when the went to sleep. They got to see the Milky Way for the first time (we live in Houston....not a lot of stars can get through the "light noise" of the big city). The night sky looked like someone had thrown sparkles all over!
Isaac got very nervous around dark...asking every 5 minutes when we were going to go "home". He spent the night clutching my hand, but he did eventually fall asleep.
This week, Xavier is off in florida till Saturday evening. Next week, we'll go as a family to the Texas Rennaissance Festival "school days". This has become a favorite event for us. We meet my parents and my sister and her family there and spend the day in medieval times!
Tough lesson for home-educatorssuzan.uzel@cambridge-news.co.ukParents who educate their children at home face having to register annually with their local authority to prove they are providing a "suitable" education.Graham Badman's review of elective home education has been welcomed by children's secretary Ed Balls, who said there would be "better monitoring so that every home-educated child stays safe". But the review, published earlier this year by Mr Badman - Kent's former education director - has provoked a backlash from parents who say they have been stigmatised as more likely to be child abusers. The review of 74 local authorities found children educated at home were "twice as likely" to be known to social services than those not educated at home. But Karl Meyer, from Cambridge Home Educating Families (Chef), who home-educates his 7-year-old daughter with his wife, said the review was based on "virtually no evidence". Mr Meyer, from Duxford, said less than half of local authorities contacted "specifically gave figures for the percentage of home-educated children who were under review by the child welfare teams". He added: "You could argue only those who have particular concerns would respond. Many local education authorities, once they realise a child is being home-educated, create a case under social services by default. That child is then on file with social services whether there is an issue or not." He added that measures such as having to register annually and be "inspected" to assess suitability changed the presumption from "parents are doing a good job unless we find otherwise" to "parents are child abusers unless they can prove they are not". Mr Meyer said: "This has angered many parents who have sacrificed lots to provide an education for their children." He said it was "a bizarre logic" to suggest that a parent who wanted to spend time with his or her child was someone to be questioned and queried. Mr Meyer stressed that school is, after all, not compulsory. However, the law does state that children of school age must receive efficient, suitable education "at school or otherwise". Currently, home educators do not have to seek permission to home educate and do not have to follow the National Curriculum or do SATs. Mr Meyer said the benefits of home education were huge, as learning was one-on-one, so lessons go at the right pace for the child and can be taken in any direction. A common question often asked about home education is, what about socialisation? Mr Meyer said: "Within Chef there are more group activities scheduled each week than can actually be attended - from sports to drama, French to philosophy." He said children had more flexibility thanks to home education as they could choose to sit GCSEs earlier - rather than being confronted with "an enormous exam block". Mr Meyer added anyone with a "reasonable level of education" could follow textbooks and produce a curriculum. Sue Stubbings, county attendance manager (for schools) at Cambridgeshire County Council, whose responsibilities include home education, said: "Every child has the right to an education and it's the responsibility of the local authority to make sure children are safe and that all children receive efficient full-time education - which doesn't have to be in school. "In Cambridgeshire, the vast majority co-operate quite happily with us. But there is just a small minority that won't co-operate with us or won't give evidence the child is receiving education, or where we are concerned no-one ever sees the child. "It is the ones we don't know about that we are worried about." She added: "We want to co-operate with the parents not work against them." In his report, Mr Badman said it was "cause for concern" that although around 20,000 home-educated children and young people were known to local authorities, the real number could be more than 80,000.
Local Authorities do not know law
Posted By: David L Brown on 21-Oct-2009 Actually the law does not say anything about an efficient full time education! The child has to receive an education, and there is case law about the minimum outcome acceptable, but the words efficient and full-time are nowhere to be found. Inventing non existent criteria is unfortunately common by local authorities, and is a major part of why many parents do not wish to co-operate. |
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I feel like I should right a book! Life is so exciting having a 3 year old. Their worls consists of "So much to do, so little time" and the DO make the most of it!
The day started out as any other, but as I walked down our hallway back to my room to grab something - there I saw it. Nine pices of playdoh arranged ever so nicely in a 3 by 3 square. This was no doubt the work of a child obsessed with the number 3.
Later, for a desert, the kids wanted ice cream. So I come out to answer this question.
"Is this enough sprinkles Mom?"

Yes honey, that is good. Of course she dumped the remains of the jar into the cone. When it came down to it, she did not end up eating it all.
Oh to be 3 again....






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