"Getting Serious About Getting Married" by Debbie Maken is worth reading whether you are married or single.   Maken forcefully states that being single is not the "gift" so many in the church claim it to be and that Christians--particularly Christian males--need to get serious and GET MARRIED!  She recommends parental involvement as well as matchmaking services in seeking a mate and encourages women with advice they may not have heard before.

And finally there is a Reformed online matchmaking service . . . If you are Reformed and single (or know someone who is  . . . then have them) check out www.sovereigngracesingles.com

And another site to look into:  http://biblicalexaminer.org/cc/enter.htm