I can do it, I can do it!
May. 8, 2007
Struggling wife here...
well, here I am again, I need lots of prayer! My husband left at the begining of Feb. - he didn't really give any good reason, he said he felt like an outsider ( which was his own doing, by never being home or involved when he was home). NOW since I have moved to my parents house for help with the kids etc.- he wants me to come back home. However, there doesn't seem to be any real change in his behavior ( mainly he doesn't support his family as he should, he just goes and spends the money however he wants and doesn't have enough to pay the bills) He has yet to give me any money for the kids or anything( except for 1/2 of the tax return at the beginning of March- he had said that was enough!) I am supposed to meet him tonight for dinner - for our anniversary no less- and he says he's going to give me his paycheck. We have been meeting with our pastor and that is part of the agreement we came up with for the next two months - he gives me the check, I pay the bills and he gets an allowance for the week. After the two months, we will see how things stand and if he keeps his end of the deal I may go home - I am really struggling with what is the right thing to do here. I DON'T want to end up in a divorce, but I just don't know if he is going to allow anyone to truly help him. Anyway, that's a VERY breif summary of my life at the moment - PLEASE PRAY FOR WISDOM AND PATIENCE!

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May. 10, 2007 - Untitled Comment

Posted by H0MEFree


Praying for you!

I had arough go with my DH years ago. Prayer prayer prayer.
I was never closer to God than then. Boy, I clung to the cross and prayed everywhere and all the time. I delared the promises of God over my marriage. I demanded double recompense for all the damage the enemy was doing to my marriage and to my children.
Only God can work out what is in your husband's heart. So, you may want to pray he gets right with God in a loving-motive way. Pray God changes- you -right now. This is a growing time. A changing time. If it does not work out- then you make sure you changed to become the most godly and perfect wife anyway.
God's peace...


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